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The Conversation Pause as a Mighty Tool of Seduction

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Alek Rolstad's picture

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A pause in conversation is a simple tool to use. But don’t let its simplicity fool you: it is a potent tactic in your seduction arsenal.

Greetings, good people!

Since I am travelling, I will make this a quick one. I will cover just one simple piece of advice that will have a tremendous effect on your interactions. Please guys, do not make the mistake of believing that simple tools cannot be powerful. This is a simple one, but it’s so powerful. This is one of the small details that usually sets great seducers apart from intermediates – they apply pauses in their interactions.

We have many readers here on Girls Chase who have different desires and different goals regarding pickup; some want to do night game, some prefer day game, and others like to work through their social circles. Sometimes, you’ll get advice that applies only to some types of game; however, what I will be discussing here is valuable for all interactions. It doesn’t matter what type of game you prefer, adding pauses to your interactions will simply make ANYTHING you say more powerful.

We will cover the basics first, then I will move into a short, advanced section. By the end, you will hopefully understand why pauses are so powerful and get a grasp on how to use them to deadly effect.

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sivac71's picture

Hi Alex , I was wondering if you have any examples of using sexual prizing in day game. Just curious how it would be played to work effectively.

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Alek Rolstad's picture

Hey there.

Answering this question would require a post in itself. I will ask Dan to make one as he is our daygame prodigy. If he doesn't, I could maybe write a report.

But honestly, the way it is done does not differ much from nightgame (the routines i have posted lately such as the tantric sex routine and the mirror gambit can be used both in daygame and nightgame). The only major difference being the timing.

It is more socially acceptable to talk to strangers during nightgame, and more socially acceptable to get sexual QUICKLY with strangers too. In daygame you need to be more careful, however once you have managed to extract and isolate - i.e. an instant date, or meeting her on a day2, you free to use any of these routines and gambits (or even make up your own) as the level of comfort and rapport is there.

If you use any form of sexualization right after delivering your opener chances are you will creep her out. There are some exceptions, but those requires either crazy-ass calibration or lots of luck (or a combination of both). Wait till you have managed to move her before doing any of this. Day2's (dates) are also fit for this.

-Alek

sivac71's picture

Hi Alex , I soft pedaled sexual prizing in my date and went well :) thanks again .

Someguy's picture

This Anchor-thing is quite shady in my book. Could say creepy. And I am a guy. :-) Please don`t do it. These are techniques that maybe work sometimes by creating a placebo effect with the user, but other then that they either don`t work or work towards an undesireable outcome. Really, if a woman is that much out of your league, that you feel like using this stuff, maybe consider another women. Or just do fundamentals or whatever. Especially do not advocate it on this site as if it´s just another tool in the box.

I feel advertising with it`s tendency to contort the healthy relations between intuition based links between needs and actions is accountable for much that is wrong with society at the moment. Obesity or lack of physical action for example. It´s good and interesting to know these concepts, but the knowledge should be used to protect yourself and people from stuff like this. It`s like psychotherapy with the intention to make someone less healthy just to give someone else a minor not warrented advantage.

Toxic shit.

I did not want to say I like the rest of the articleat the start, because "[nice], but [criticism]" alsway sounds not so genuine. So I`ll put it at the back: I like the rest. Overall very well written.

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