Technology offers myriad colossal benefits. Yet, it can hurt your
ability to meet and succeed with women just as much as it helps.
Errol Flynn, gazing into his girl’s eyes, taking her face into his excited hands... getting closer to her, just about to kiss… and *bliiim* he gets a Snapchat notification, opens it, and starts chatting and sending duck-face selfies.
Contents
1. Is the Internet Killing Your Convos?
- Words Can’t Say Everything
- The Death of Silence
- Slow Down, Turbo!
- Misinterpreted Emotions
- Stuck in a Virtual World
- Shorty’s Attention Span
2. How Technology Makes You Look
Difficult to imagine such a situation, right? Well, it’s not THAT far from what’s happening today with young generations. You’re probably thinking “Nah, Davi is exaggerating, I’m not THAT addicted to technology. No worries on my end.” But let me tell you, technology’s influence on your game can be WAY more subtle, and even good seducers get trapped in some of the modern world’s pitfalls.
Now, don’t get me wrong. This is not an anti-tech piece; rather, it is meant to illustrate how tech can hamper your success with women if used improperly.
In this article, I’ll detail three different categories in which today’s technology has an impact.
First of all, conversations: we have so many different communication methods now, and they all have their own rules. People are having more and more virtual exchanges than vivid, real-life discussions. And they take the digital world’s rules as face value and apply them in real life – DANGER.
I’ll also cover the impacts this has on approaches, before talking about three specific problems affecting your seducer-you: investment/availability, power delegation, and immediacy.
Comments
This was a great article!
Hope more people would follow your advice, not ony on dates,but with friends, work meetings etc. I hope more people will give each other the wonderful and uniqe gift of undivided attention that I think we all deep down are longing for. Powerful indeed!
great article! this one "
great article! this one " Online chat should only be about giving her the trailer and making plans for her to come see the full movie. "!!! sweet
Good Points.
Davi, this was a really good article and covered some very important points. What I hate the most is how I'm if walking somewhere, literally every person I see will be bowed down and on their phones. Even at hangouts with friends, everyone is on their phone, bunch of godamm phone addicts.
Two things:
1- I thought the article should have been much longer, this is such a big topic and needs to be discussed and written on for much longer.
2- I also disagree with your point on earphones, I find nothing wrong with listening to music that you find good/chill/etc. Listening to music is awesome and whether that's to the gym or whatever, I find that it's pretty easy to take of your earphones and do an approach. The music usually puts you in a good vibe in my experience, especially if you're listening to the Weeknd haha
Maybe it's harder for others but I don't see that being the case at all.
-Vermin
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