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How to Kickstart Behavior Change in Girlfriends or Lovers

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Hector Castillo's picture

girlfriend behavior modification
So you want to modify a girlfriend’s behavior. Yet if you come out and say, “I want you to change,” you’ll offend. You must employ subtler means.

I was talking with my best friend the other day. He’s married but still occasionally reads Girls Chase. Plus, we talk all the time, so he’s bound to hear about girls and then talk about them.

One of his particular interests in relationship management right now is using social media to change the behavior of one’s girlfriend or wife.

We’ve discussed operant conditioning with relationships before. Encourage and reward what behavior you like; ignore the behavior you don’t.

But what we haven’t discussed too much is how to get the ball rolling with operant conditioning – how do you show her what you want her to do?

After a long talk on the phone with my buddy, we came up with a good system for guys in relationships to follow.

Comments

Alexander Abraham's picture

Awesomesauce article, Hector!

To me, this article is like a more fleshed out (also with examples relative to our current generation) chapter of David Deida's book.

So if anybody has read it and were confused about complimenting women, read this article instead of that whole chapter. I feel like the article does a much better job of explaining it.

Kalinage's picture

Hello Hector,
I recently saw your Instagram videos and I really love your facial expressions. Very sexy, very charming, very girly. You're some hot stuff seriously.
How did you get so good at mastering facial expressions? I saw in some reviews you teach your students this nuanced stuff in your phone coaching.
Right now I cannot go for phone coaching but I am buying your King Of College book. I wonder whether you cover some fundamentals such as facial expressions in the book? It would be amazing. Of course through text it is entirely more difficult. I understand why phone coaching is more suitable.
Thanks. You're seriously among the best writers here. Cheers!

Cheese's picture

What's the right thing to do when you catch your girlfriend lying?

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