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The way you use sexual tension differs depending on the time of
day you meet her. If by day, one way; if by night, another.
Hey, guys!
During my daily skimming of the comment section of my posts, I stumbled upon this interesting question by a reader named Kevin:
“I just re-read your superb series on sexual tension, and it left me wondering on its uses in a day game setting. I mostly do day game myself, and don't yet fully understand how one can use sexual tension there.
As someone who is good at both day and night game, would you have any pointers on the use of sexual tension in day game and how it is different from night game, and maybe even share your day game strategies?
Thanks again, Kevin”
I also believe that this question needs to be answered, as I haven’t really covered how sexual tension should be used in different social contexts (generally speaking: day game vs. night game). From reading my posts on sexual tension, many might believe that those posts were dedicated to night game. They would be wrong.
However, I do see why people would believe this, since I not only shared a report from a night game scenario in which sexual tension was amplified, but many of the examples in the report seem to be taken from night game. Additionally, after my last two podcasts with Varoon, it has become clear that I am a night gamer.
The truth is, I have experience in both day game and night game. That said, I have lately been focusing more on night game, simply because I find it more exciting and I tend to take days off during the weekend. I will say I am pretty clueless when it comes to online game and social circle related stuff, as those areas have never caught my interest. I am a 100% cold approacher.
Now, the concepts covered in my sexual tension series and everything else related to displaying sexual intent that I have posted in the past, such as physical escalation, sex talk, and other sexual gambits, can be applied both to day game and night game – with some adjustments. Those adjustments are the subject of this post.
Let us get to it.
Comments
Approach
Alek,
Which type of approach would you recommend for day game so as to come across as smoothly as possible while breaking her off auto pilot?. I'm trying to get good at day game (I'm not of age to attend bars/clubs) and one of my biggest issues is how to make the approach look normal and good. I would like your input on it, with as much detail as possible if you do not mind.
Thanks!
Agent
Hi and thank you for your comment.
I think the best thing for one that is new to daygame is to drop the whole idea of approaching chicks on the street - especially walking girls. These are the hardest to approach. I recommend getting familiar and comfortable with approaching during the day before attempting this. Better places to approach girls are bookstores and coffeeshops - where girls are static and not walking.
I recommend hovering - i.e. stand near them and try to trigger an approach invitation before approaching. This can be done with walking girls too, but more complicated. Once you have gotten an approach invitiation you can approach. Sometimes you won't get it and you may consider approaching anyway (what is there to lose?)
Remember that those approach invitations can be extremly subtle. And I am talking very subtle. This is why more experienced seducers gets more "approach invitations" - truth is they don't they just spot them more easily.
Either way I like to approach from the side if doable. I tend to use an indirect situational opener and once I am in - as in hooked into an interaction I tend to deliver signs of interestso that she knows I am not just in there for a casual chat ... but more. This is key in daygame as it is not expected that men hit on girls.
Hope this answers your question.
-Alek
Kicking myself
This article gave me a lightbulb moment. Went out with my crush last year. Met her months before at the gym and asked her out but she had a bf. Finally got her out for coffee but it being at day and us being friendly multiple times before tripped me up. Looking back on it, I see the cues where I could've sexualized things. Never heard back from her. Gah makes so much sense now.
Shane Ramirez
Hey. I am happy you found this article useful.
I don't think you issue is primarily related to it being the day or night, but rather your initial frame.
"Finally got her out for coffee but it being at day and us being friendly multiple times before tripped me up"
See, you have set a non-sexual frame where you are more seen as a friend. You may not be fully in the friendzone, but I cannot say... from what you are writing that she perceives you as a lover. This will only get worse with time unless you manage to turn it around and frame yourself as a lover.
You need to accept the fact that you must choose a high risk high reward strategy here, and be cool with the idea of moving on if things fucks up.
-Alek
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