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I slept with
a girl recently whose hands I pinned above her head
during the act with one of mine. As I did this, she got visibly more
excited, and said, “It kind of feels like you’re raping me.”
To which I whispered, with a sly grin, “And you like that, don’t you? That’s because you’re a dirty girl.” She crossed over into a peak of sexual excitement at this, and climaxed shortly after.
I was thinking about this, and about how much girls like being dirty girls (or at least thought of as dirty girls), and then thinking about the fact that women often consider me a dirty man. I won’t go into specifics because I don’t want to freak out readers who are still coming out of their sexual shells, but there’s not much you can do with girls that I won’t get a kick out of. And they always love all it themselves, of course.
Even before we make it to the bedroom I’m dirty though; I say dirty
things to women I haven’t slept with yet, and to women I’ve just met. I
touch them in inappropriate ways in inappropriate places. I laugh off
some hygiene “rules”, and act a little impulsively and don’t know
anything about popular culture fixtures they plan their lives around. I
don’t remotely fit into their little neat life plans, and they can’t
get enough of it.
And it strikes me that one of the subconscious dividing mentalities
between men who do well with women and men who do not is this enjoyment
at rolling around in the dirt... being at home in it. Because most men
want to be clean, organized, and on-point, not loose and dirty. Dirt –
and loss of control – frightens and reviles them. Dirty
stuff SHOCKS and appalls them.
Yet this is a bigger signal to women about where a man ranks in the
sexual hierarchy than you might think... and being uptight about
cleanliness and orderliness and maintaining social politeness rules is
just one of those things the kinds of guys girls long for aren’t. Mr.
Über Sexy of 50 Shades of Grey-ville
and
Mr. Neat-&-Clean of Tidyville are two very different people, and
you get one guess as to which one women want.
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PS...
I'm Russian-American so take that along with everything in my previous post. I love the AMERICAN man.
DON'T try to be someone that you're not, because a girl like me will see it and know that you're a fake.
And about hair. I like it neat to start with and then it's MY hand that will make it look like just-had-sex.
American Men / Messy vs. Tidy Hair
I'm curious to know as to what makes a man American for someone of a Russian background. So what's an American man to you (besides someone who has US citizenship and speaks American English)?
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An ex of mine was exactly like that. She liked my hair ordered and structured and then liked to see it getting tousled or messed or mess it up herself. I think it was the potential for messiness that made it attractive.
Chicks find Anderson Cooper hot by the way.
Shampoo
I'm not too sold on not using shampoo. My hair tends to get itchy within a week and shampoo seems to be the only thing that gets me rid of that itch.
Was finally able to put this
Was finally able to put this concept of being dirty into use. Hopefully I place the report on the boards.
Brief Premise: we realized that there was no water to use to shower, drink or nothing. There was also no light. I fell in bed with her and she was slightly self conscious when she saw me attempt to give her head. Being aware, I pulled away and began dirty talking to her till she was raring to go. Then after we were done, i let her smell herself..she had come all over my fingers.
We stayed till the morning before going for another round BEFORE taking our bath.
Remarks
Interesting read.
Women are just attracted to men who (look like they could) "do the dirty work." That's why they find blue-collar workers, soldiers, hunters, and firefighters sexy. Ironically, they also find sexy the people whose dirty work is to maintain order, organization, and cleanliness (policemen, janitors, people in positions of authority, etc.)
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I'm 80% sure women are at least occasionally turned on by hobos and junkmen. It's just too taboo for them to admit it.
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I like that you used the expression "being anal" twice in an article about dirt.
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They do? Why?
Dirty = Sexy
These guys must be getting so much pussy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VcDy8HEg1QY
These guys must be swimming
These guys must be swimming in pussy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VcDy8HEg1QY
reading this like its therapy
Found myself always uncomfortable with the idea of talking about sex and so figured Id reread this haha. Youre right it is kinda an advanced concept bc it is a bit of a goldilocks thing. Looking back now on all my past hookups realizing girls were much more comfortable with the messiness of it than I was even. You cant be a child-like ogre, but you also cant be an overly fastidious effete "MSM ideal" man. The way you describe it makes me bristle but when you're turned on its something you get through naturally for sure. In the heat of the moment, a girl being on her period is notttttt gonna be a dealbreaker haha. I can best rationalize it as "be devil-may-care but not to the point of being a social liability." Russell Brand has a good example of this on a talk show where a women kinda patronized him with some of her brand of sunscreen and he started squirting it all over the table. Such a legend haha
Along these similar lines you have any advice for picking up working as a server at a restaurant? Ive def got IOIs from women but find it hard to balance a lot of the necessary wild-man, devil may care mindsets/moves of pickup with the servile, agreeable corporate duties of a serving job in my own mind. (And I am in in 2023 America, bc as we know that makes a difference haha). In addition women are often in groups.
My natural friend the other day when we were chatting with some girls at a a park made a brilliant move of being vague about the plans, and taking down the girls number to "potentially meet up with you all later" type of thing, which is just the most adroit thinly veiled social window dressing haha.
Best wishes to you and the biz
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