How good are you at using what’s in your brain? Fight-or-flight
responses in social situations are common – yet you’re not bound to
them.
Most pick-up theory is not well informed about the workings of the brain and the nervous system, which causes many guys to severely underperform in terms of their social state control. The author has studied this topic from both theoretical and practical angles for years and would like to share his experience on this issue.
Contents
1. Basic Nervous System Concepts
4. The Social Engagement Response
In pick-up theory, state is used as a description of both the mental state and the resulting physical state of a person. Field reports often mention how the “state” of those involved changes during an evening or day out. “State” can more or less be used synonymously with “mood.”
State is an extremely important factor in one’s ability to perform seduction, in that the results of a given action will be heavily dependent on the mood of the person performing it – for obvious reasons. Your mood can be said to be the sum of your earlier interactions, and if your mood is bad, it means that the world has treated you badly – hardly a turn-on. Conversely, a stable, good mood will tell a history of being treated well by the world. And those who are constantly able to stay in a stable, good mood, no matter how bad the situation is, will be looked up to.
In evolutionary terms, your mood is a fitness indicator similar to looking physically healthy. Controlling your mood is therefore of utmost importance in nearly any social setting – and this is what “state control” refers to.
Comments
Excellent article , I was
Excellent article , I was wondering why do I always get caught up in my head when I can't think of things to say to women?
OCD
Hey,
I really liked your article. You seem to know your stuff around the matter. Could you possible make an article for people with OCD and seduction?
Cheers.
OCD
Hi TallyHo,
That would regretfully be outside my area of experience!
Best,
Halvor
Ahh shame. Anyways, if you
Ahh shame. Anyways, if you could post more stuff around neuroscience and the brain that would certainly help.
Amygdala hijacking
Am doing some research in this area for emotional regulation and self management between the pre frontal cortex and goal attainment.
Excellent understanding and insight that ties social dynamics with physiology!
Writing topics
Hey could you write about how to easily implement stuff like facial expressions or conversation outlines or voice tonalities easily and make them second nature. I know I'll get it down eventually if I just do it, but hi was wondering if you could find a very experiment way to do it. Thanks
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