Some guys are too polite for their own good. This over-politeness
is called the “social you” – and you have to unlearn it to do better
with girls.
Our good friend Hector has written about the Divine Comedy, relaying a clear vision of life as a "big play." In his article, he explained that “There is no you” and that “You can be anyone,” which means the way you act depends on the social circumstances at the given moment.
There is the at-work you, the at-the-gym you, and various other modes of you... and the current you is able to evolve.
In this article I’m going to apply that theory to a specific “you” that exists and keeps lots of guys from casting out lines in public areas: the Social You (or the “SY” as we’ll call it from here on out).
Comments
I've been aware of the SM
I've been aware of the SM (Social Me ofc) in the Game so much that I recongnized myself through every line of your article. I my opinion, this concept is the most impotant part to master in the Chasing process and you couldn't develop it better.
Key Point
I'm glad you loved it John Smith!
Indeed being able to understand what's public/private and adapt your mindset in a matters of seconds is crucial to get results.
Cheers,
Davi
FANTASTIC ARTICLE
I love the depth and breadth that this community has. This is another article that makes a boat load of sense at what ever level the aspiring seducer is.
Renner
Thanks
Thanks for the positive feedback Renner!
New Discovery
I've always been aware of a such phenomenon without being able to name and classify it. Thanks to your great article, it's done and we cane move forward.
Thanks Jacques Le Lion, happy
Thanks Jacques Le Lion, happy you appreciated!
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