There I was, 7th grade, sitting oh-so-close to one of the prettiest girls in school. She had long, wavy blonde hair, and for the life of me I couldn't stop staring at her legs. I wanted nothing other than her.
That was my math class, every single day, 5 days a week. And I knew that it was on me to figure out how to get her every bit as excited about me as I was about her. I had to figure out how to get a girl's attention.
And so I did. In "How to Attract Women," I spoke some about how I learned to attract women later in life. What I want to talk about in this post, though, was how I learned to get women's attention; how I learned to make women take note of me, start keeping track of me, and begin to become intrigued. Because it was those early lessons in middle school, as well as the ones that were to come years later, that allowed me to today find it quite easy to get girls noticing me seemingly (from their points of view) before I've noticed them, and it's an important element of getting them to chase.
If you can learn how to get a girl's attention, you can learn how to captivate her. And once you've mastered those two things... let's just say everything else is a snap.
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Wow! That was a real great
Wow! That was a real great tutorial I must admit!!
Guess what?!
It really works :D
info
Hi I don't really understand since I am a visual learner so what really works?
Presence
Hey Chase, really love this site... It has helped me understand so much. I just have a quick question though. Do you have any quick tips, articles, or solid advice on how to have a strong presence without being that "loud guy" always begging for attention? I am the guy you were in seventh grade... Answering tough questions while throwing in humorous side comments... But IM in high school now and I want to be able to get a girls Attention without doing all of that. Any help please?
-Mufasa
loud guy
i got a really cool hat that i wear even during class and the teachers have gotten so tired of asking me to take it off they don't even care the girls thought that was cool so the hat thing works it just cant be gay a hat it has to be different
ya i kind of do the same
ya i kind of do the same thing to make myself stand out from the others except its not a hat... its a sweatband but it is still unique in a sense
hey man.. you are good.. and
hey man.. you are good.. and i have learned from you.. i hope i will propose on her birthday with a golden ring.. just all wish me luck..
Something to know about women
While most guys try to be very nice and helpful to draw the attention of the woman they want, it's just doesn't work that. For good looking woman it's not enough simple because she gets this kind of attention everywhere and all the time. So basically you'll be a part of a very large number of guys and you don't stand out.
To get her attention you need to spice it up a little, be a little rood to her and not do everything she asks from you. That's the only way to get her attention and even create some spark between you :)
good luck
Girls attention
So I liked this girl and we had class together and we are acquaintances, but right before christmas I went up and told her I thought she was really cute and I have her some chocolate with my number in it and said she should call me sometime, and she did but not until New Years just to say happy New Years, and I see her all the time but she hasnt responded to the one text I sent her, and sometimes we make eye contact, but I dont know what Im suppose to do, because I follow your steps a lot, I make myself stand out, wear nice, stuff, people say I'm good at talking and I'm nice, but What should I do?
What should you do? Move
What should you do? Move on.
I had this slight crush on a girl earlier this year. I couldn't decide if she liked me back. She seemed nice enough, but sometime she laughed at my jokes and sometimes she rolled her eyes at everything I didd. Do I just fogot about her. Trust me, you do not want to keep annoying this girl with your texts. Been there, done that. She will just end up dissappointing you. Better to fibd someone else, or at least lie low until she texts you.
You didn't mention this. You
You didn't mention this. You really don't have to be "cool" to get attention. I am pretty much the biggest nerd in my grade. I used to deny it and basically just got more grief. Since 7th grade I've been accepting it, bragging about it instead of faking. WAY better response with girls.
Also about the whole "standing out" thing, I thought it would be good to kention my friend (also a nerd) always wears his porkpie. It's kinda funny but everyone knows him for it, he has a LOT of girls in his grade crushing on him
PS-- The email i used for this comment was fake :)
great work
loved it.thanks alot
i reallly dnt lyk to b Loud
Am just this cool asshole of a guy, but i think being a genius does it all..
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