Sometimes if you’re
nice to a girl, that isn’t actually what she wants. She may want nice
or she may want tough... it depends on where she’s at.
For most of 2015, I took an interesting route with my behavior.
I knew that attainability was a big barrier for most girls. They knew I was a player or heard about me being a player. Plus, I’d already come so far with my curve into becoming a Genuine Man (and you can read my massive 10 article series on that journey).
So, I decided to test the boundaries of niceness. How completely sweet, caring, and doting could I be with a girl and still dominate her, turn her on, and ravage her like a savage animal?
The answer? Very.
An interaction can go from meeting her to sleeping with her with nothing but smiles, sweet words, loving staring contests, and incessant compliments. Even if she has a borefriend, too (always thought you needed to position yourself as a careless asshole to juxtapose against his capitulating and needy behavior).
However, I also went a bit too far in my niceness. I let girls act aloof, sassy, bitchy, and rude, with no consequence whatsoever. I even got friend-zoned a few times because of this, which hasn’t happened in a while (but was very funny to see).
I needed to get some edge back. So I decided to, well, become a bit of a prick again. And now that I consciously did so, from the ground up, I clearly see why dickish behavior works (and when and how it doesn’t).
Comments
Jerk
Hey man, that was a really nice article, you keep coming up with the goods. Now for my question, I actually really like the concept and content in this article but would I have to become a big jerk/asshole like in your other article In the genuine man seriers first before I move on and become a loveable one? Or should I just skip that stuff and just become a loveable jerk like you've described here? I'm about to enter that jerk phase and then you come out with an article like this saying I can be one that people actually really like
haha.
Wow
Dude, this is some reality breaking shit for me. I am a beginner, I've been practicing deep diving and working my way up to hooking girls in conversations but I would always stumble when a girl got mad and I didn't understand how to handle the situation. This is exactly what I was looking for. Fantastic! One question I have is how can you tell the difference between when a woman becomes cold versus when she is annoyed? I want to know when I should keep the edgy banter going or when to calm it down.
Great.
Masterpiece in how concise, yet, totally invaluable it is.
Thanks.
Great Article
Can't wait for the follow-up article to this. This is what I'm wanting to incorporate into my life. Even though the article can't give me concrete proof, it still feels true to me...not just logically. Thanks Hector!
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