You stand there, somewhere that you often go, when, out of the corner of your eye, you notice her: a sexy girl in a red, skimpy dress.
Man, I'd love to talk to HER, you think to yourself... but can't think of a way you might go talk to her, or what you might say.
Plus, she's all the way over there, and you're all the way over here; it'd be too obvious if you just walked over there.
You go back to minding your own business.
A few minutes later though, you notice that there she is again - only now, she's hovering about right next
to you, looking vaguely lost and confused.
She's over here now! you think. I can't believe it! Luck is on my side! But what if she doesn't respond when I talk to her? How do I know she wants to talk to me?
So, you hesitate... and a moment later, she drifts away, as if remembering where she needed to go and going there instead. Ah, missed my chance, you think.
But it wasn't luck on your side, nor was it blind chance - that was an approach invitation.
The reason she ended up hovering next to you, seemingly on accident, was because she wanted you to approach - and wanted to do everything in her power to help make it easy for you to do so.
And if you aren't recognizing it when women do this, you are most likely missing out on a lot of pretty women who really want to get to know you.
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Ever consider the possibility
Ever consider the possibility that she was hovering for the guy you were talking to and not you?
Re keeping her intersted
It can aslo be as simple as giving her as sexy growl when you see her in some thing that you think looks sexy in as, know as far when you know she's dressed up just for you ether give that growl or a compliment that really shows her you noticed and you Appreciate her doing so. Show her you care by asking her about her day even if it's some thing that you think is boring. Aslo romance her wether that be dancing just the two of you in the house listing to music cook for her plan a suppries just for her name her some thing if your good at poetry right her one
LMAO
"I noticed you positioned yourself near me! I'm Clive."
If you ever do that, shoot yourself.
HI
Love the article. Its important to notice in college ect. I am wondering though, Chase always says thay I should approach any girl I see that I like. Well...I think I like all of them most of the time so I feel like approaching everyone. I tried thinning it down to the hottest ones and that makes it easier but now I think I might just focus on approaching the ones with AI's my way, since I cant make up my mind, I find alot of women attractive.
I've never gotten an approach invitation in my life
If a guy gets an AI, fine - he should act on it. But recognize that some of us never get them, ever. The article assumes that EVERY guy gets approach invitations - but this is just not realistic. The fact is, some of us are totally invisible to women, and there's literally nothing we can do to change that.
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