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Chase Amante's picture

I've had men ask me to write about my methods on how to make a girl orgasm since 2007, when I first mentioned the results I get with sex online... and I've always declined to write them.

I didn't mind sharing what I did to pick up a girl. That's just a process.

But sex... that's an experience. And I've somewhat jealously guarded how to create the kind of experience I like creating for women through sex.

make a girl orgasm

My goals with sex were the same as my goals with seduction: sex to me should be

  1. Powerfully effective,
  2. Efficient to execute, and
  3. Easy to do

Once I started working on getting sex down as a skill, I was able to give girls relatively hard orgasms within 10 or 15 minutes, on average. I gradually cut this down to about 5 to 10 minutes or so.

And right away, I was stacking powerful multiple orgasms from penetrative vaginal sex, one after another - the holy grail of sex performance for most men.

All those other guys out there were talking about giving girls orgasms with their hands or mouths... I laughed at that. I was giving them orgasms with ME.

And I didn't want to talk about it... because sex is the great differentiator. If everybody else knows how to do what I know how to do in the sack, well, all those rip-roaring orgasms I just gave her aren't really anything all that special... she can go get that from anybody.

But what I've realized over the years is, no matter how clear you make something for someone, no matter how simply you present it to him... if it requires even a little bit of work, most men are unlikely to ever use it.

If you use these techniques with the women you sleep with, it will change sex, women, and relationships for you forever.

But most men are never going to bother.

So, fears of getting out-competed by men using my own techniques against me set aside, I'm going to share with you how you can make girls orgasm hard, fast, and multiple times, using nothing but your member - and a little bit of work.

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Anonymous's picture

I don't understand how your adapted missionary is any different from regular missionary. How much does resting on your elbows actually change?

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Chase Amante's picture

Anon-

Please read the article, and keep your eyes peeled for this line of text and its accompanied bullets explaining:

"Here's how this differs from an ordinary missionary position."

Chase

tanbul's picture

one of the best examples in TV/movies of the effects of giving girls an ASTONSHING/MIND BLOWING ORGASM(take note) ;) which I have seen ,Is the sex scene of Carolyn (Annette Bening ) and Buddy Kane (Peter Gallagher).he positions Annette Bening’s legs in opposite directions as she gets rammed e man like a mad bull.

Afterwards they go out to eat and like Chase says she is as nice as a kitten, very happy and joyful.im yet to try this method but it takes a lot of endurance .stamina, mindcontrol,penis strength, and experience. Also notice the method of his thrusts. they wernt random or offbeat ,they were hard and had a nice rhythm.he also thrust harder while maintaining tempo when she started going crazy.

P.S sorry guys I couldn't find the link. I keep finding pornos that went it u might have to watch it.good movie though.

in the movie "American Beauty"

OD's picture

I wanted to know your thoughts on two things:

- How are girl-on-top positions as far as giving women strong orgasms?

- Are there times in her cycle where she is more conducive to having strong orgasms, or is this irrelevant?

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Chase Amante's picture

OD-

I've seen a few orgasms from girl-on-top, but never any strong ones. The problem with girl-on-top is that the woman's getting really only just clitoral stimulation (from rubbing her pelvis against yours), with only very incidental vaginal stimulation - and the clitoral stimulation she gets from this position isn't all that great. Most girls will do this for a short while, and get a little fun and excitement of it, and then tire of having to do all the work. It's much easier to get into the trance-like state usually needed for a strong female orgasm when you're on the receptive end.

As far as times during her cycle... there are some times during a woman's cycle where she's more naturally aroused, and that makes her climax more quickly and easily and, often, more powerfully, yes. The most consistent across all women is during the fertile period - assuming a woman sees you as a masculine man, she'll be more turned on around you during ovulation, and will have faster and stronger orgasms (if she views you as weak or unmasculine, however, the opposite is true, and she'll be less aroused and less orgasmic for you during this period). Some women also become higher sex drive during their periods, depending on the hormone balance a particular woman becomes awash with during menstruation. Some lose all sex desire, some become lionesses. Other things that affect hormone balance can have similar impacts - e.g., the contraceptive pill frequently lowers women's sex drives (usually by removing their ability to accurately gauge the difference between high and low testosterone men); pregnancy can lower it down or ramp it up.

Chase

Anonymous's picture

Yes I definitely vouch for that modified missionary position. I usually do it with my elbows down kind of above her shoulders, holding her in place that way. I may even then hold the top of her head. Plus that puts your armpits and chest right above her face which I think adds a certain masculine musky thrill!

I've never worried too much about rhythm and will pay more attention to that from now.

I should add, try to do this on the floor. I've given women an almost uncountable number of orgasms by doing this on the floor as opposed to a bed. Our ancestors must have only had sex on relatively hard surfaces. Soft beds are a bit unnatural in that sense.

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Anon-

That makes sense. One thing that's always driven me nuts about beds (but not the floor) is that when you're really trying to give it to her hard, some of the force you're putting into her is being absorbed by the bed and she simply gets pushed deeper down into the mattress.

Move to the floor and there's nowhere to retreat to - the full force of you goes into her alone, instead of her and the floor.

Chase

Anonymous's picture

Is adapted missionary the same as this?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coital_alignment_technique

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Anon-

See this comment by me on the first page of the comments thread for this article back on the 3rd.

Chase

Aspirant's picture

Well this post has definitely lessened my anxiety about closing women.
This coupled with trying out the discussion boards is really motivating me to meet more women and post it there!

Thanks Chase!

Dale's picture

necessary for and "precludes" should be "precedes".
However, a very good article.
Thanks,

Anonymous's picture

Hey Chase, my girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. She's about 5'2 maybe 100lbs or less and Im 5'11 170. We've been having sex for quite a while but the problem lies in her not being able to handle sex with me. She often complains that my package is a little too big and it hurts in certain positions like from the back, or with her legs up or on my shoulders. She said she's never came from normal intercourse with me and my question is how can I get her to relax enough to enjoy it? She's always too tense, if I move my legs or try n get comfortable or something she freaks out like she got shot or something.

Anonymous's picture

Hi Chase,
I had a question about your modified missionary, specifically the thrusting aspect. Should I be thrusting in and out (primarily using my hips), or should I be pressing "upwards" against her body (primarily using my legs)? Should my pubic area (space above the base of the penis) be sliding up towards her pubic mound and down towards her clit with each motion, or should it be rising and falling against the clit in a "slapping" motion as with most other positions? If that makes sense...

Also I have a hard time keeping my traction in most positions, I find I either sink into the mattress or my legs slide. Would performing on the floor fix these issues?

redman's picture

this is one of the best sites i have been to and it has had alot of good tips cant wait to get in the bed and try them to see how good it is and i have to ask what if you already make her orgasm how would you make her do it harder and better

chris22222's picture

I'm only 5 inches and all this stuff is great information but will this stuff work with my size? Will the sex position of the modified missionary work with me? If not then what will? And also, what's a good way to get a girl if I'm not the most attractive guy but I'm funny. Please Help. Thank you

Chase Johnston's picture

I'm not an expert in this field by any means, I'm actually pretty new to the site, but from what I read this technique allows deeper penetration than standard missionary. So yeah, this will work just as well for you.

TommyDude69's picture

Great article. May I add, as a very experienced older guy, that one should not presume a woman likes anal stimulation. Some do, some decidedly do not.

Anonymous's picture

Hey chase just wanted to ask a quick question my grilfriend and I have been having sex for quite a while and she can't seem to cum. I thought maybe she can't because we do it when my parents are home and she gets nervous about them walking in. She always says the sex is great and I always stimulate her clitoris when having sex usually we do it in the spooning position. Any ideas what it could be?

Patrick's picture

Chase,

I've read several of your articles in preparation for an upcoming first date with a new girl...I'm not very experienced in dating. I'm still unclear on how to invite a girl back to my place while on a date; do I just ask her if she wants to go to my place and watch a movie or something? if she rebuffs, should I drop her and move on? Also, should I have kissed her before or after taking her home?

By the way, I read your article on texting to set up dates and it worked perfectly! I have high hopes on putting this sex advice to good use Tuesday night!

Hill's picture

Hey Chase, great article!

I was wondering in stimulating the cliterous you mention a back and forth pelvic rhythm, does this mean your swaying side to side with your penis always inside her? Or simply thrusting from the side angles while going side to side?

Jay's picture

Hey Chase,

Second post and my first question ever! I'm wondering if having a banana curve penis could make a woman hit orgasm quickly? Second, how to have sex without using any condoms at the same time avoid her getting pregnant? I mean sex is good without the use of it. Is there a 100% prove n tested method on this?

Jay

Vincent Vinturi's picture

Hey Chase,

I can tell you put a lot of love into this article...literally!

Thanks man. I read Daniel Rose's Sex God Method and found it to be eye opening but I think you just made me realize that my rhythm could use some work.

Peace,
Vincent

Rebecca Miller's picture

heyyyzzz as a girl i find this article very true, but finding a position that you can use your fingers to stimulate the clitoris while you're going in and out of her is the most pleasurable for a woman, at least to get her sensitive at first , its almost necessary, and then the rubbing of your pelvis can have more of an impact later. the foreplay is also really good to get a girl to relax because if you go too intense on the physical at first, she might have a subconscious reaction to become guarded and feel attacked and thats something harder to break later. also the more you get her moving around and thrusting her pelvis, the more her blood is pumping and the faster she'll orgasm. i know a lot of girls that don't like a penis thrusting violently on the back of their vaginal wall like an annoying sword so be careful with that. best of luck making us women happy! ps don't need to be an asshole to get women, you can be nice as long as you have other things to offer such as making their lives more interesting through your's by opening up to them and including them in your hobbies, nights out, friends, jobs etc and also being confident about yourself sexually (suggestively) will help spike a sexual interest without being too aggressive. but all these articles about spiking a girls interest are useless unless you take this one into account. its a good thing you're learning how to give pleasure if you want to get it.

Chase Johnston's picture

Chase, your advise has lead me to understand women, and a lot of my former mistakes, and after scanning several of your articles I feel like I'm ready to practice the techniques I've read about on this site. But everything I've read from you that applies to a beginner such as myself seems to be geared towards meeting new women, coming off as the most incredible person they've ever met. My question is how do I build a sexy, mysterious vibe with a girl I'm familiar with? We don't regularly hang out but we see each other at school everyday. I feel like I already know anything I might learn from a good deep dive, or being a good conversationalist. As a beginner is there anything I can do to improve my chances with this girl?

Anonymous's picture

What does "rhythm" mean? I have a hard time understanding what people mean when they say this.

Anonymous's picture

What does Rhythm mean? Really? With sex its how fast you thrust. You need to listen to some rap if you don't know what rhythm is.

Anonymous's picture

I don't think that's the real definition of rhythm.

What you described would be tempo.

Anonymous's picture

Thinking back to a previous relationship I now realise my then girlfriend was doing a version of this to me. She would throw her arms around my back and interlock them and pull me into her as if in a vice, the closer she came to climaxing the tighter she would pull me in, sometimes so hard she would start to hurt my back! She came every single time (if the rhythm was there of course) - leaves me wondering how powerful it could be if the guy was doing adapted missionary and the girl was doing this?

Anonymous's picture

I am girl who accidentally stumbled onto your blog...I have to say I do find it quite interesting. If only my boyfriend would actually buy into some of this stuff but who says I can't show him a thing or two on how to act and position himself. Thanks for the tips.

new kid on the block's picture

I do want to mention one thing; I know at the beginning of this artical, you mentioned that you didn't want to do one on this topic because sex is a personal unique experience that girls shouldn't get the exact same experience from another guy.

I don't think you have to worry about that so much. Just the idea of having sex the exact same as someone else sounds terribly bland. and if guys somehow manage to copy your exactly then he'll eventually realize that you have sex the exact same way as him. which kinda fucks with your ego, you know? and i know that I certainly don't want that for myself. I'm more interested in things like the clitoral which I didn't even think about myself until I red this. or positions that enhance her experience. I think girls should experience at a minimum of two or three orgasms of equal or greater strength for every one of yours.

Anonymous's picture

Funny how things come together. I have been analyzing the female orgasm for a few weeks now, and came to the conclusion that I need a pillow behind the woman's back - in the same location where you show "Forearm and elbow support". I can tell that the position is incredible without even trying it because:

1. At the point of orgasm, a woman will involuntarily push her chest out and head back, OPENING UP HER AIR PASSAGE in anticipation of contractions.

2. The rhythm is for breathing synchronization and escalation. Climax occurs with heavy breathing. You can make a conscious decision to control her breathing, not by "thrusting once every second", but by thrusting when she breathes out, placing your weight on her stomach to force the air out of her. You allow her to breath in, and thrust again when she has her breath and you start to hear her breath out again. You listen to her current breathing pattern, and then you control the escalation - pushing her towards orgasm.

3. The position puts your mouth next to her ear, which allows you to make suggestions to her. You have to realize that you are in a position of authority, and she will attempt to obey your requests. It's not about "talking dirty" to her, which could turn her off. It's about setting her up mentally for orgasm by use of suggestions which eventually result in compliance, immediately followed by another orgasm. Here's how it works in this position:

* You tell her, "When you're ready to cum, I want you to wrap your legs around me." Her legs are already close to being wrapped around you. When she changes the position, she will not only wrap her legs around you, but naturally pull you in with her legs, causing an intense vaginal sensation which pushes her further to climax instantly. You link the physical aspect of wrapping her legs around you, with the previous suggestion of orgasm. If she wraps her legs around you without cumming, you need to tell her to take her legs off until she is ready to cum. You are in control and she needs to be compliant. You can move her in and out of the wrapped position to elicit multiple orgasms. She wants to pull you in, she wants you in deeper, but in order for that to happen she has to cum. It's an orgasmic loop.

* You stop kissing her, and say, "I want you to kiss me when you cum". If she starts trying to kiss you, you turn your head while thrusting and pushing your weight on her to escalate breathing. While you escalate the breathing, you start teasing her by kissing her neck, cheeks, and touching your lips to hers - but no kissing. Then you kiss her on the side of her mouth, slipping your tongue in the edge, just a little. Say, "I want you to kiss me." At this point, she'll probably be trying really hard to kiss you and cumming really hard at the same time. She wants to kiss you (because women love kissing). Combining the kissing with compliance of an orgasm forces another orgasm. I would only use this technique for two orgasms per session.

* A few other things you can say are, "Oh God, can you feel that?" This makes her focus on what she is physically feeling at that moment and intensifies the pleasure. You can also say, "It's OK...I've got you. Let it go..." for comfort to put her in a state of relaxation. Women's minds roam in the bedroom. My wife would say shit while I was in full thrust like, "My mom called today." You need to verbally bring them into the bedroom with you.

I'm really digging your site, Chase ;)

SK's picture

I read your article and have been using adaptive missionary with my fiance and it sure as hell works, i don't tire quickly and she has tons of orgasim. So thank you for creating this article and website.

Anonymous's picture

hey chase i really enjoy your articles,they are very informative and have helped me in my life in general social,women,school,family etc. this article is very intersting and even though i have not tried these positions yet... i do have another question for you...you see in size i fall shorter then most men its pretty embarrasing for me to admit this but i'm 4 inches erect...do you think you could tell me some positions that will work for men with smaller mates i really want to rock and drive women crazy in bed ,i'm determined to becoming a expert in love making but first i need expert advice...

j-bone's picture

Hey Chase, I have a question I think you could answer.

Last night I was with my girlfriend alone in her house. We'd been fooling around and then got intense. I made her orgasm with oral, and things progressed until the point of me being on top of her, both naked, and penetrated about the tip into her opening. I felt her hands only slightly pushing my pelvis back, not trying too hard to push me way. Later while we were talking she brings up our sexual interaction. And she says, "you're just gonna have to wait." I know you've told us to not even comment on things like that, so I didn't. Just smiled and laughed a little bit. But let's move to my question here. I know you said girls like to be taken, and dominated, so my question I should I just go for it all in a situation like that? And is she going to be disappointed that we got that far and I didn't pus her hands away and went for it?

magickwomun's picture

Wait!

Param's picture

This is pure awsomeness Mr. Chase Amante
I had read some of you other articles and they were just outstanding.
I have read all your articles now.
Lot of reading to do :)
Thanks for sharing.

Anonymous's picture

Hi Chase,

I love the article. However I do have one question for you.

What I want to know is whether everything you mentioned in this article will work for men with a slightly smaller penis.

I'm not as well endowed as I would like to be, but would I still be able to blow a woman's mind with the positions you mentioned above?

Anonymous's picture

I randomly stumbled on your page. Your tips are real and the truth. I appreciate u sharing ur wisdom. The underhand thrust i know will work and will stimulate the clit at the same time. I realized the girl im seeing like my sex but has never orgasmed. But your tips make sense. staying in one position with rhythm bores me and i tend to change positions alot. but that would make sense for a woman to get off by consistant rhythm and clit stimulation and she can relax and focus. Big ups. U now have a faithfup follower

Anonymous's picture

My girl has a bulging tummy. That makes this position a bit difficult because I need to curve my body more while penetrating and somehow I am not able to achieve this position. Any advice?

Your name*'s picture

my technique got a boost from this. my technique is to just kiss all over her body (except for breasts, vagina, etc), and keep telling them no everytime she said stick it in, (or let me suck your dick, or whatever.) and grab their hands every time they try playing with themselves. I do this until they actually orgasm. they may start moaning, but just put your hand on their vagina to see if it is a real one. after they have their first orgasm, I usually keep kissing on their bodies for a while, then start teasing them with my penis for a while. then I stick it inside. I then tried your technique with this one girl and she had over 12 orgasms (i lost count). I have to say bravo.

G's picture

Is there a position you recommend for having sex with a virgin?
Thanks a million

Khumalo's picture

@Chase i'm from Zimbabwe. I just wanna say thanks, i have been using your 'adapted missionary' for more than six months, and it totally works. Its amazing, you are genius man.

her's picture

i normally orgasim by rubbing my own clit while he pounds away (for hours sometimes). i would love to not have to concintrate. but i have never had a man be able to get me there without my help. i was so excited to try this but my iud poked him no matter the angle. (it felt great to me tho.) my strings are as short as they can cut them. i really want the trance and multi o's described here. please help

magickwomun's picture

I've been seeing a stud that does damn near all of this (with the exceptions of hair pulling and ass smacking, which i anticipate he will, once we're better broken in). I'm an attractive, natural submissive, so attractive, natural dominates instantly appeal to me (this 1 is a major peacock). I have never had multiple, penetration only orgasms so quickly (or soon) from a vanilla encounter. More men need to know this, because my peacock isn't a keeper, he's just temporary fun, i just hope my next object of desire is as sexy, endowed and skilled as he is. It's diamonds and pearls. Thank you for this public service announcement.

Anonymous's picture

Nice

Janey's picture

The man I recently had a one-night stand with has either memorised this article or is the true author (did we just have sex?) and it has literally ruined my life. It was a drunken mistake and is unlikely to happen again but I'm totally smitten for more and depressed that I had the best sex of my life, ONCE, at such a young age. I might spend 60 more years with mediocre sex. Devastating.

kv79's picture

Ive got an averge dick size, been married and slept with 45 plus women and im not sure ive ever gave a woman an orgasm let alone a real powerful one. judging from their moans and what they say, several have and alot of girls kept coming back for more but ive never felt vaginal contractions, just had to rely on what they said happened or go by their moans.
is there always vaginal contractions? or how does one really know?

Dand's picture

Thanks for sharing all your amazing insights.

The first girl I ever had sex with, had vaginal orgasms with me all the time, and it was great. The same thing with my second girlfriend. I thought I was just awesome at sex, but now I wonder if I was just getting lucky, or what, because I've been with 17 women since then, and I could only give them orgasms orally. Some of them I couldn't bring them to orgasm at all. Do you really find that 100% of women can have vaginal orgasms, simply due to using this position and "correct rhythm"?

Could you possibly talk a bit more specifically about that aspect of it, as it sounds like it's the most important piece of the equation, yet all you say is that it needs to be "good" or "right". My own experience with it was just that it needed to be steady, and slowly increasing, and generally when my girls came, it was because I was really giving it everything I could in the end as hard as possible. But like I said I haven't been able to accomplish this in the majority of women I've been with.

Shenandoah's picture

Chase I really enjoyed reading your article, it is the first one of yours I have ever read. I am an instant fan. My question is this, I have a really great and experienced lover and both of us want to experience him giving me an orgasms vaginally. What's the best approach in getting him to read this article without insulting him in the least bit? For I do understand how touchy this could be. Please help.

jack's picture

This is called the coital alignment technique, it was actually designed by scientists, of all things, as the most effective method for achieving female orgasm during penetrative sex.

I've tried this out on 6 different girls, with zero success. They all tell me that they don't feel any extra sensation on their clits, even when we experiment with changing the angle of their hips.

The odd thing is I've always been the guy that girls gushed over my ability to give orgasms, but now I've moved to China, suddenly I haven't been able to give an orgasm to a single girl I've hooked up with, and that's why I started searching for articles on the subject. They have all been so short, that I couldn't possibly enter them and also put my arms under their shoulders, any advice?

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