I saw a girl on the subway a few weeks ago. She was pretty, she had a scarf, and she was standing next to me. I open her by saying, “Nice scarf,” and she responded ,“You too.” We got to talking, the conversation was fun, but I could tell she was in her head. So what do I do? I recite a poem from my favorite West African poet.
Now I don’t know any West African poets, nor do I know any West African poems, and I definitely don’t speak Swahili, but I thought I would have fun and experiment with this interaction. So I recite a poem in a made up language on the spot and then translate it. She was blown away; her face was like “Did that really just happen?”, and when I told her that I had made all of that up, she burst into a huge fit of laughter. All of a sudden, she was out of her head and into the interaction. I would have never tried something like that if I hadn’t learned it in improv class the day before.
Now I am not saying reciting poems to girls in gibberish is the answer. What I am saying is that there are a lot of principles in improv that you can apply to seduction. This post will start with some of the philosophical underpinnings of improv that will help you with game, and then I will write about some exercises that you can do infield to warm up.
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Hey William,
Hey William,
Thanks for the article , quality stuff right there.
I do some stand up as well, and while it's been great for the Game and for the interpersonal skills in general, there are some issues that I've started running into, especially regarding smoothness, getting into my stage persona amidst a normal conversation and etc. It all takes a hit on the sexiness side.
I wonder whether you run into these things as well and if you do, how do you manage them.
I personally love watching Reginal D Hunter when I need to visualise a behavioral model
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZH4KUfNWmA
He's just such a cool cat.
Cheers,
Flamingo
I do sometimes
See the problem occurs when you try and drop bit in conversation, it throws off the rhythm of the conversation. This is because standup is a mechanical form of communication. So even if you have a clear opportunity to drop a bit in conversation, avoid it. Us standups are usually funny enough free associating and having a good time.
If you were referring to the fact that you are too often the funny guy and that kills attraction, read this post I wrote http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-be-funny-guy-gets-laid
Hope this helps!
mmm I see...think I know what
mmm I see...think I know what to do now.
Awesome, thanks!
the city
hi william, the article is amazing. in mid 2015 i was this 19 year old dude who never imagined a girl will have sex other than her husband. when i come across this website i was totally blown away because the missed chances and lack of understanding of the suble invitations girls were giving me and how i never followed that.
and by the way thanks for mentioning our city Mugadisho- here, i am from Somalia.
Glad We Can Help
Keep it up man! I hope you make the most of the of your new opportunities!
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