Hi there. I hope you are still rockin. Today we will get back to basics – because basics are so awesome!
A few days ago I received a message from a reader. It went like this:
“Hey man, I’m a big fan of your writing on Girls Chase. Your stories are legendary and they fit the mold of what I’d like to achieve. You’ve written extensively about intermediate and advanced topics. But I thought I’d write you and see if you would consider posting some more beginner material.”
[....]
“It seems to me like when you go to a club, with friends or all by yourself, you have a very clear idea of what you’re doing all the time. I would love to hear more thoughts on how you do it. What are you looking for when you first get to a bar? What’s your first priority? Are you relaxed when you get there or are you a little nervous? Do you use canned material or go with the flow? What is your intention when you first start talking to a girl?
[....]
“Think about it! And thanks for all your work... it has changed my life on a deep level.”
I cut out some parts of the message as not everything was relevant for this exact post. Now the message covered a lot of amazing topic suggestions. I might not cover them all but I will cover quite a few of them in my upcoming posts.
So the questions asked in this message were about my mindsets and intentions – so I will respond to them directly so that those of you who are curious about how I think can understand where I come from. A lot of seducers think like I do.
Let us begin.
Comments
Wow, it's been awhile
Wow it's been awhile since your escalation series.
I noticed Colt, Dresel and others have slowly stopped writing.
It would been a bummer to see you gone too.
Glad to hear from you again Alek!
Lawliet
Lawliet
Hi Lawliet, how are you?
I am not going anywhere. I have another article in the queue and I am working on a new one. I am not GONE and I promise you a lot of juicy stuff.
Colt apparently took a break it seems and Drexel is a bit busy with his own projects, but guess what, I will send a message to Drexel on facebook and tell him he is missed :)
-Alek
Howdy!
Howdy!
It's true that I've taken somewhat of a break from writing articles recently to focus on other projects--however, I have submitted two video articles which will be published as soon as the GC video guy is done editing them. I can't tell you when it is because I'm really not sure. But expect to see those two video articles--and at least two more afterwards--coming out in the near future.
By the way, great article Alek and your stuff is always on point! Cheers
your reports
Heya,
Sweet, actionable article -cheers!
I've been trying to find your reports but found only 2 on a forum. Can you post a link to the other ones?
Maybe even from your pre GC days.
And I think I'll speak for many people if I say that we'd pay big time to see your infileds guys.
Once again, thanks for sharing your experience with us.
Flamingo
Flamingo
Hi and thanks for the kudos.
I will in the first place post a few links to lay reports posted on the main site (on the blog)
http://www.girlschase.com/content/threesome-how-step-step-get-two-girls
http://www.girlschase.com/content/pulling-lay-when-you-re-sick-dog-tired...
http://www.girlschase.com/content/when-topics-turn-stale-inflation-conve...
http://www.girlschase.com/content/fractionation-s-role-hooking-chicks
http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-use-sex-talk-part-ii-case-study
There you go :) that should hold for now.
Alek
Sexual framing
Hi Alek,
since we are talking about basics, I'd like to ask you about how a beginner (i.e. someone who has slept with less than 10 women or so) could incorporate sexual prizing in his game. Doesn't it come off as a bit try hard or incongruent if you are presenting yourself as this great, experienced lover if in reality you aren't that kind of guy yet? Would you suggest a beginner to leave out sexual prizing for a while and only concentrate on some basic sexual reframing?
Thanks for your thoughts on that!
Sherlock Holmes
Well there is a reason for why I call that technique advanced because it is fit for guys who already have a few lays under their belt.
Your options are:
- Lie, fake it till you make it. Without taking the moral aspect into considering, this can backfire unless you are a good lier.
- Limit your sex talk/sexual prizing to the experience you have, i.e. avoid the fancy stuff and use what you have (that can often be enough)
- Become more sexually experienced
To the last point, I would suggest you read this post:
http://www.girlschase.com/content/5-factors-give-man-sexual-confidence
Hope this helps,
Alek
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