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Tactics Tuesdays: How to Pick Up Girls at the Airport

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pick up a girl in the airportA month or so back, below my article “Tactics Tuesdays: Hugs, Handclasps, and Arm-on-Shoulders”, a commenter named Magenta asked about how to pick up girls at the airport:

Hi Chase,

Can you do an article on Aiport game? Such as how do I approach/connect with women who are traveling to/from, waiting at the airport lounge, waiting in line for security checks, etc....type of conversation to have and figuring out logistics of what is possible/not possible.

Thanks!!

I’m a pretty big fan of any kind of transit game, as I’ve talked about before in “Meeting Women on Buses, Trains, and Airplanes.” Transit has a lot of nice things going for it, including:

  • She’s usually going to be by herself
  • She’s in an ‘active’ or ‘alert’ mood because she’s waiting for her conveyance
  • However, she’s also sitting there with nothing to do while she waits
  • And, you have an instant social context, so speaking is low pressure

Airports offer the further plusses that she’s on a big adventure, so likely to feel excited and perked up (unless this is yet another business trip she’s made 1,000 times), and grant you an instant value boost – if you’re traveling, whether for work or pleasure, she assumes you have money and are likely somewhat ‘important’. You’re also more likely to lead an interesting life. And, you get an instant commonality – you’re both travelers, something that immediately separates you both from ‘regular people’ (you and her, against the world).

In this article, I’ll talk about my approach to picking up girls in airports: preparation, execution, logistics, and whether to grab numbers or try for something then and there.

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Awesonymous's picture

The gift shop/souvenier shop is a great place to wonder around. Usually cute girls wonder around there too passing the time :)
Great article

JJ's picture

Airports can be fun and worthwhile if the target is alone (not counting pets), the conversation always starting out with travel can't really go wrong there plus you get to know where the guy/gal is heading to a bonus in my opinion. As for lovely E.E. women I'm partial to the ladies from the region we are indeed quite strong and complex, very capable of intimidating men. However, the most beautiful and brilliant women in the world are from the former USSR countries, quite honestly the nearly perfect looks are hard to resist or nearly impossible to beat. Life is hard out there and often times the girls will do whatever is necessary in order to achieve certain goals or tackle some dreams, mostly education related or surgical procedures both of which I'm all for. I believe life is about sacrifices and if you don't risk you don't gain.

JTLonger's picture

Hey Chase......

Great stuff here. I fly extensively too, 100-150 flights a year and have had plenty of opps to work on my game in this environment. A couple lessons I have learned that have helped me. First, you menjtioned the sexual tension....I have tried very hard to move a girl to a bathroom and have never been successful. Granted these have been in busy airports but my solution here is to use the "family restroom" which are unisex and you can lock, knowing no one is going to walk in on you. Have to research ahead of time (see gate guru or lounge buddy app which is awesome). Most girls say they are not into doing it there....even though they are warmed up....I think it has to do with the environment and it being a bathroom,,,,too big a leap versus the high stature of an airrport. I HAVE been very successful in going to bars near my gate. Odds are much better a girl may end up on your flight. I have had a number of mile high club experiences as a result, but have really pissed off some flight attendants too. It is amazing how much they pay attention to this....I think part of it is they have their eye on hot guys so if you are up and moving around, they pay attention to you. They tend to notice if you are going into a bathroom with the door closed already. That said, these were some great experiences.

Thanks and I look forward to the flight piece.....and thank you for the Get your gf piece a couple years ago...was very helpful for me....
JT

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JT-

Ah yeah, good call on the family restroom. I’ve used those a couple of times - they’re quite nice and very spacious. Hadn’t even realized you could research those ahead of time.

Agreed on the flight attendants monitoring attractive men. They may or may not necessarily want to sleep with you themselves, but they’re certainly going to be interested in what you’re up to, sometimes bothersomely so.

I dream of getting very rich and flying exclusively in those airplanes with private sleepers for the first class… “Let’s go chill in my sleeper bunk and watch an inflight movie.” But then it’s not much challenge at that point anymore, is it? ;)

Cheers for sharing your experiences. And you are certainly welcome for the helpful girlfriend article (I’m assuming you mean this one).

Chase

David13's picture

Interesting article as I have always found that incredibly difficult to pull off and frustrating too considering the amount of hot girls in such places. I noticed however you never "state interest", eg you didnt tell the Russian girl you thought she looked cute/had a killer sense of style etc. which is a staple of your street approaches (and which incidentally I have never felt comfortable saying). Why is that? What is different in this case? What would change if you did?

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David-

Good observation.

Yeah, with street approach I dive into complimenting girls right off the bat. Usually open with a compliment, and then throw another in shortly after, or even if I don’t open with one, I transition to one quickly. That’s just because there’s really no reason for me to stand there and talk to her once she’s answered my question about where to find Sand Street Station or whatever I’m looking for unless she knows it’s because I think she’s cute.

Thing with that is it creates some immediate expectation. Either I’m going to pull her then and there, or I’m going to grab a number and follow up with her soon.

I dislike complimenting women heavily and then taking long-distance contact, which is what may happen in airports. There’s less intrigue. Then it’s, “Oh, an email from that guy who likes me,” instead of, “Oh, an email from that cute guy I met at the airport! I wonder if he likes me…?” Plus there’s instant social context in airports, so I don’t really need an excuse to keep talking to her. We’re talking because we have something in common, and then once we start talking, now we’re talking because we enjoy talking to each other.

If I found out we’re headed the same way, and I think there’s an opportunity to try and pull her to a restroom or elsewhere, then I’ll start dropping compliments on her to turn the thermostat up. But I won’t do that until I think I can lead it somewhere soon. Otherwise, I’d prefer to be that intriguing stranger she can’t quite get a bead on, and then if we meet up somewhere down the road with better logistics I’ll turn the temperature up then.

Chase

Matthew's picture

Hey Chase,
Great article. I always enjoy reading your stories as you make them so interesting.
I know you always say to keep your attention to the girl you're talking to, but what should you do when multiple people address you at once in groups? It seems a little tryhard to divert your attention to the girl you're interested in, but doing otherwise can communicate the wrong message. Often it seems there are too many people in the group to take the time to respond to both, one at a time.

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Matthew-

Well, normally, don’t break circle:

Breaking Circle

That means whomever you’re speaking with gets your attention. If someone tries to interrupt, you wait for the other party to break circle first, or you never let the other person interrupt (unless it’s your good friend, or someone you’d prefer to talk to… in which case, finish whatever you’re saying to your interlocutor, or let him finish, then break circle).

If multiple people address you simultaneously when you weren’t previously speaking with anyone, what you want to do is take the person you most want to talk to and say, “Hold on a second,” then address the other person(s). Try to be quick. Then, them with their answers in hand, turn toward the person you most want to speak with and engage her in conversation. Now that there are no further demands on your attention, you can safely settle into chatting with her.

Chase

Matthew's picture

Hey Chase,

One of the things that intrigued me when reading this article was your mention of getting a feel for the Russian girl's relationship with her fiance. I've had boyfriends come up in conversations multiple times and would like to know how exactly you go about obtaining this information. I've thought about asking at times, but the questions I come up with always seem a little too direct or prying, like "how do you like him?" or "how do you two get along?"

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