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Using Common Sense To Get Laid

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Denton Fisher's picture

One of the major problems I see with the men going out to meet women is that many do not set themselves up for success. They are more preoccupied with trying to impress their friends, getting validation, or simply trying to avoid negative feedback, instead of going out for the right reasons... like to get laid! This article is going to be shallow and to the point. Please sheathe your pitchforks and extinguish your torches. I am about to hit you with some knowledge.

This article is about going to a night club and getting laid. Maybe later, I will write something with more fluff-and-love but for now let me cater to those who love the hunt. Those warriors that refuse to settle and whom flourish from competition. With that being said, here are some common sense closing tactics I know the majority of you are not following through on.

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I see this day in and day out with my students here in Vegas and it makes me sick. People are so focused on so many advanced tactics and tricks that they miss out on fixing the simple things that could easily increase their results tenfold with just a little effort. Do I have your attention? Good, let’s go!

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Beck's picture

Good read. Many articles in this site talk about that and this is kinda obvious but still niggas are making the same mistakes. I think it has to do with the whole least effort law, people think pushing a little harder is chasing, but there's a big difference between a chill dude that gets what he wants and a pussy that don't get pussy...
Again, well written. I like the "hunter" reference, that's how I feel when I go out to get chicks. Keep up the good work.

By the way, I think my fundamentals are pretty good and I can easily make a connection with most girls but there's always those "colder" chicks which gimme trouble. I think what I lack is the whole chase framing thing, I read that some girls just don't want to be "deep dove" and stuff since they (think they) are well resolved emotionally. I don't really feel like teasing girls much most of the time, but do you think that could be the reason? Or is more like I'm not really their type? Many times I feel they are into me but still I get the cold shoulders. For sure my approach is off but I need help where.

Thanks.

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Denton Fisher's picture

Depends on the situation. If it is early in an interaction and in a club it is because she has been hit up by a lot of losers that sucked and it put her in a bad mood and she assumes you will be the same. In that case just stay in your own zone, game the wall and remain positive. A cold response is not a sign that she is not interested, it is just a sign she is not interested yet. It is a shit test of sorts. I call this leaning. If you are cool and unaffected for long enough eventually the girl will get super attracted.

Davido's picture

Before I came across this site, I was doing most things naturally because I started this woman matter when I was 16 or so and am 36 today. I have been able to discover some sticking points through girlschase....shout out to the founder Amante.
The biggest problem I face as a black person in Sweden is race war, trust me you don't have any idea how codedly discriminately Sweden is towards blacks and foreigners generally...you can read some posts in the link below to have an idea...not just black actually many whites from USA and uk complain also.
When I go clubbing it feels like all the girls are in national agreement not to mingle with foreigners, they will never even dance with you, less talking about moving them home except few who have lived abroad or badly in shape. Recently I started dating a polish girl here in Sweden, a perfect 10, every white guys dream, slim, hot and petite, hour glass shape...but of course we black guys like voluptuous ass and boobs. Anyway the same Swedish girls who refused to dance with me have now started physically been aggressive to both of us on the dance floor, these happened 3 times in 3 different clubs. They would push us, laugh us, mock us and this last time I became angry and was about to push one that pushed us when the security guy jumped in, she started lying to him in Swedish... I have lived here for 6 yrs...so I speak Swedish also...the crazy security Swedish guy preferred to listen to the lying blonde Swedish girl and was physically pushing the polish girl and I out, even though the polish girl was born here, but doesn't have the Scandinavian look. Then when the polish girl opened her mouth and spoke Swedish, the security guy left us alone.
I know I have read many times here, one should move to bigger cities or a new country, but I already have a son with a Swedish girl and I want to be 100% part of his life.
Well all my life I have never had a problem dating women to a point where I need to find online materials to solve the feminist Swedish dating puzzles. I watch videos of these women abroad, how they loosen up and have wild sex at every given opportunity, only to return to Arlanda airport and revert. haven't traveled much so I can't say where exactly is pick up easy, but am sure when am finally able to nail down dating here, other places may be just a walk in a park. I understand that dating in an unfamiliar terrain can be cumbersome. One lesson for anyone living in Scandinavia, we don't have dating here...well maybe we have but we live in denial that we don't since we don't want to identity with everything American, people here meet for coffee, that to me is a form of dating. If you find yourself here, move fast with that Swedish girl, bed her as fast as you can and that is how family life is formed here, 90% of my friends went this route even if the sexual window of opportunity is 3 mins...just do it. Sex for like 1 year and if it's good, we move in as 'sambo' (civil partners), have babies and that's it. If you think you gonna set up a date, sorry this kind of social construct freaks them out, they develop anxiety and they may never come out for the date, but during an alcoholic induced night out, you can bed her and then move on to becoming partners for many years....that's how it works here....which am so happy this site has addressed many times. The link I was talking about below
http://www.thelocal.se/discuss/index.php?showtopic=81178

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Denton Fisher's picture

You are focusing on really negative stuff man. Do not focus on the things you can not control but those that you can. When you focus on negative you get negative. When i go out and i get in a bad mood people feed me back the negativity. When i go out and focus on being positive and in my own zone people feed that back to me. I know that you are going to come back at me and say that I do not understand and that the world is mean but the greats of the world do not let the world push them around. Overwhelm your environment with positivity and you will get it back.

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