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Now that we have thoroughly explored the Temple of Debauchery, we can clearly understand some of the why’s and how’s of these darkly beautiful acts.
But as a reminder, here are the first four articles of the series:
- How to Be a Freak in Bed, Pt. 1: All Women are Freaks
- How to Be a Freak in Bed, Pt. 2: Beginners Guide
- How to Be a Freak in Bed, Pt. 3: A Little More Kinky
- How to Be a Freak in Bed, Pt. 4: Shagging Like a Pornstar
At the end of the most recent article, I suggested that while sexual creativity is infinite, there are some limits to what you should do with women. But first, some of you might be asking a very reasonable question:
“Will every girl do ‘X’?”
If the man (or men) is sexy enough and if non-judgment and discretion are assured, then, yes, girls will do just about everything.
Why?
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Howdy Hector! Hey man, given
Howdy Hector! Hey man, given the fact that your among the youngest authors
of GC, how would you advice to run high school game? Is it good to walk around everywhere and talk to every body or is it wise to avoid rejection. What are your thoughts man? I'm actually in high school and it would be great if you could advice
me.
Super Social
The guys who were most successful in High School were
1. The Athletes
2. Super social assholes
The guys and girls were too stupid to really have any value beyond just having fun conversations, partying together, and fucking like rabbits. That's just how it goes at that stage of life; also, reputation was EVERYTHING.
I saw girls literally get ostracized to such an extent that they transferred schools. This also happened in college, but the pool was larger and allowed for more error/growth/migration. I don't know how old you are or how big your school is but if you're an upperclassmen, it'll be hard to reverse your reputation if you're not already a cool/social kid. If you're at a really big High School (over 2,000), it'll be easier.
Towards the end of my senior year I started to become a bit more social and even got invited by this super smart/cool dude to my first party. This got my name out there, but what really helped was when I participated in a Mr. Homecoming competition and got 2nd place. Compared to the loser/loner status I'd had up until then, my social scene blew up. If I'd known what I was doing, I could have snagged a few girls.
On the other hand, focusing too much on your reputation will turn you into an anxious little fuck (this actually happened my last year of college). It's really important, but no so much that you shouldn't do what you want. And considering it's high school, I'd say just be super social and don't kiss and tell. Beyond that, experiment as much as you can, man.
I recently snooped on some high school peeps and MOST of them are still in the same area, hanging out with the same friends, and not doing anything too special. Don't become one of them. Same happens in college, too. Tons of graduates, sometimes a year or two years after leaving, would come visit college a bit too often - why? They miss the glory days ;)
So be smart, but also experiment and be bold. Be super social. Strive for more.
- Hector
Thanks for the reply man.
Thanks for the reply man. Your advice is gold. I'll let you know how it's going ;)
Thanks Hector!!!!
man, Dont know hector but there is something about your writing style..something hard to explain yet very impactful. It's not so much refined like other writers' ,yet has an unique flavor. Your writing seemed to me a perfect and impossible blend of
exaggeration,crudeness , deep insight and high degree of empathy. I am pretty busy right now, so sometime I do scan other articles and read those later but just cant stop myself reading yours as soon as they went live.
How you manage to write in such a powerful way???
Anyway, thanks for the insights. Once I was told by a girlfriend of mine about her gangbang fantasy. Though after 4-5 month of pretty crazy sexual relationship( crazy means Crazy!!) I never felt good about the whole concept of another man/men using my gal like a whore in front of me. Good to know I did the right thing.
regards,
Subrata
Non-Fiction Writing
Hey Subrata! Thanks for the praise.
My non-fiction writing style is blunt and absurd for a reason! It catches your attention amidst so much boring garbage on the internet. It also reflects my personality and in-person prose. The insight and empathy is the necessary balance, keeping it from being too "bro-y" or shallow.
Basically
1. Insight/empathy = the prize
2. Absurdity/exaggeration = the pink polka-dotted wrapping
And how did I learn this? Thousands and thousands of pages of writing. I studied English and Philosophy so all I did was write papers. I also used to be a big fan of Debate.org and Facebook arguments. Lots of "lulz" and "that's a logical fallacy!" have been written on these sites by angry Hector.
Good call on not indulging her fantasy btw! And also, there's a good chance she's lived it out by now ;P
- Hector
what if...
In the spirit of this series i wanna lay something out that is probably too deep into the temple (or maybe not even in the temple) for even the kinkiest of girls. Having a threesome with a cute girl and her milf of a mother. Id imagine most chicks would be disgusted by this but then again most guys would say the same thing about almost everything discussed in this series. What do you think man? any insight on this?
Lol
If you check out erotic literature sites like Literotica, you'll be surprised how popular incest stories are.
But this is one of those fantasies that 99.99% of the time remains in the mind. Just too jarring to make it a reality.
Though, someone, somewhere has done it.
Besides death-play/permanent-damage BDSM, this is probably the most extreme you can get.
- Hector
Two interesting points
Hey Hector,
I was the same dude that asked how can you outclass any men regarding very experienced women and since most women that we'll fuck will likely have a much higher partner count (or potential to do so) than us.
My first point: about the series & original question
This series gave me a little bit of insight as what kinks I HAVE to try but it just made me realize that it doesn't really matter what you do, but how you do it. Probably all the girls that fucked you also sucked you, but there may be a FEW that you remembered because they sucked like no one else.
One thing to keep in mind, though - there is way more men doing this type of shit in the bedroom than we (those who are into seduction) might realize. You said on that first comment that just a tiny percentage of men would do these, but here's the thing: we're not competing against nice guys. Top girls would never fuck them. Most of my friends who are normal guys with single digit partner count (early 20s) have had girlfriends which got their asses fucked, they faces covered into cum, spanked, blindfolded and all these "traditional" kinks.
Bentley isn't worried about what Kia is doing. They're worried about the new Rolls-Royce that just came out. Conversely, I was (I am) worried about what other aggressive, good looking, jacked dudes would have already done to a top girl that I can outclass.
I suspect I have to work on my intensity just like the BJ example above, but I'm interested in hearing your angle and how do you tackle this problem because this is something that might cross your mind as well (or might have at some point).
My second point: about this article & relationships
After the Blackdragon podcast episode on polyamory I got to see things that I hadn't before. Same goes for some of Drexel's articles. You said that you shouldn't ever let a few friends join the party because she'll lose respect for you and this makes total sense.
So I'm wondering, how does this polyamory, "don't care about other guys" looks like in your head?
On one hand, this Alpha Male has such an outcome independence since he has access to other FBs that he doesn't care and this might seem masculine and powerful; on the other, this seems quite a bit condescending. It's like he has no say nor power on how things should go.
Blackdragon knows his shit but he is overweight, mid 40s and do mostly online game. I don't think he ever reached the upper level that Chase, Franco and you got into. In this case sounds like a lower maintenance but not abundant alternative.
Or I could be talking complete shit. Which is why I'm asking what do you think about the matter. Monogamy, respect in relationships, (what to me seems like) false abundance vs reactiveness... what's your take?
Be Harder, Tougher, Faster
I like your "Bentley ain't worried about Kia" analogy. Very apt!
If you want to beat those dudes, constantly train your fundamentals. I'm getting better every day. I look back at my skills just a year ago and think, "why did I think that would work? So silly."
Every day walk with your back a little straighter.
Every day develop the purr in your voice.
Every time you smash a girl, fuck her harder than any other girl in the past.
There is always another level, as you point out. Eventually you enter the echelon of men where being excellent is the norm. What separates men at that level?
Look at the professional scene of any sport. Lovers of these sports have broken down the game both romantically (favorite teams, favorite players, etc) and mechanistically (fantasy football, for example). They measure excellence.
Oftentimes, it comes down to just a percentage. That 1% difference between Dude 1's freethrow percentage and Dude 2's freethrow percentage wins the game, because when Dude1 gets fouled and takes his free-throw when the game is tied 101-101 with 5 seconds on the clock, he sinks it.
Those few hours on the court, late at night when everyone else is sleeping. That's what gave him the consistency to get just ONE more shot.
As for polyamory,
Blackdragon is right; don't care about the other guys. Simply regard them as an object of competition and respect - you gotta be better than them, but don't ever envy them, because that's another form of submission (unless he's a mentor; you sorta submit to them inherently).
BUT, we still have to remember how women respect men - if she's ONLY fucking him, there's a reason; he provides IT ALL. He's her King.
If you can set that up, it's optimal. The trick is doing it without getting jealous. Do that, and you're truly a King.
Chase and Zan Perrion have my favorite relationship structures in this regard.
- Hector
another guy
Hi, Hector!
Nice series! I have to admit - most of it is not entirely new to me. One of my favourite toys is my own leather belt. Very versatile and always there when You need it.
But I have a question about bringing in a male friend.
There's a girl. And we're .... umm I don't even know what. We hang out alot. And have sex almost every time we meet. Couple of times a week. This has been going on for a few months now. We never had a conversation about exclusivity. And I think she is perfectly aware of that. The fact that I might have fun with other girls. I sometimes do. That's partly why I think she is always horny. And she doesn't get pissed off when I hang out with other chicks. Maybe just a little sad. Not sure how accurate my radar is. Anyway. That's for background.
We've talked about her fantasies and suprise, suprise - two guys and her is one of them. Based on how much she likes cock, I started thinking that maybe I should get a friend to help me out on this one. Just to see how much more she lights up when there's two guys doing what I usually do.
Now I don't know if she is going to be my girlfriend or not. I haven't made that decision yet. I have a feeling she would like to, but wouldn't cause a WWIII if it didn't happen. She is a low-drama girl.
What I want to clarify, is this:
Are the following two scenarios absolutely mutually exclusive?
Getting a mate to team on her and maybe later have her as a girlfriend.
Cheers
ac
P.S. I don't know if You wrote about this but I feel the urge to share. Last year abroad I found that a lightweight wooden ruler is thing to have. It doesn't hurt that much but the sound it makes on the girls buttocks is just amazing.
Yes
Unfortunately they're quite mutually exclusive. I'm sure guys out there can speak to having shared their women and still keep her, but if "official status" were the true test of a relationship, then I wouldn't be smashing these girls behind their men's backs.
Do you want her as a girlfriend? Do your best to be the only dick she sucks.
If not, bring your boy along.
My personal metric for dating a girl is
- Physically, I need to be able to say INSTANTLY that I'd want her many, many times.
- Personality, I wait until after sex and see how they are fully exposed (it's 1,000 times easier to connect with a girl once you've been insideo f her).
So when you first saw her, did you go "wow, holy fucking shit, because of women who look like her, I believe in God"? If not, I wouldn't take her as a girlfriend.
As for her personality, that's up to you.
- Hector
EDIT: The ruler sounds awesome!!
What about swinging?
I've been dating a great girl for a couple years now. Drop dead gorgeous NAWALT. However, I REALLY miss sexual variety. Swinging seems like an interesting option to get that variety with minimal risk to the relationship. You can set rules for each other, nobody is left out, and the other couple is in the same situation so there's little risk of falling in love with someone else. She will be fucking someone in front of you, but she'll see you railing another woman at the same time, so perhaps the respect thing is a wash.
Psychology Today has some interesting articles on it. Seems like people who can make it work are happier and more secure in their relationships as they're in control of their jealousy, their partner has no reason to cheat on them, and, of course, the awesome freaky sex life. What are your thoughts on this?
Anal games - questions and considerations
Hey Hector,
quick question in case you're still replying on what concerns anal sex:
I've always been a bit "disgusted / weirded out " by the anal area as I have a repulsion towards feces -well, most have, but some more than others I suppose-.
Stories of guys doing rim jobs and licking badly cleaned asses and tasting feces or guys "undigging" feces from anal sex don't help there lol.
Even though I've fingered an ass and had anal sex the idea of taking out a finger smelling like shit or taking out my penis smelling like shit prevents me from fully enjoying and making a common move (I remember a girl after having come and fingered her ass asking where I was and I just wanted to wash my hands lol).
What are you thoughts on it, also I suppose going from anal to mouth or anal to vagina risks of spreading germs.
Do you think putting a "finger condom" might look wimpish?
Rim jobs?
Everything in this article is almost crystal clear.
Just had some clarification questions
-rim jobs
-finger in the butt
-bondage
Could you give some examples/contrasts of what is in okay territory/not?
Like it's okay to get your ass ate in x way, but not in y way
Or it's okay to get tied up for X, but not y.
Like for bondage you say no full body restraint/humiliation. What exactly does that entail? I know you said handcuffs for a bj or riding is fine, what about hands and legs tied to each bedpost for the same thing? (Bj/edging or riding hard/forced creampie?)
Just curious as to the nuances of what constitutes acceptable sexual acts and what doesn't (within the frame of long term relationships)
Thanks!
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