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How to Be a Freak in Bed, Pt. 4: Shagging Like a Pornstar

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Hector Castillo's picture

Welcome back to the freaky deaky parade, my friends. Here’s the rundown:

  • In our first article, we discussed how all women are freaks, and why they therefore also love kinky men.

  • In the second article, we covered some introductory techniques, like dirty talk and spanking.

  • And in the third article, we stepped up our game a bit with some bondage, choking, and other more risqué techniques.

Now? Well, I’ve been quite graphic with this series, but this article will blow the rest away.

shag

But before I get into the slimy details, let’s recap why you should do these things with women, even if you’re not that kinky yourself.

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Anonymous's picture

Dude I want to be you right now. Ah man I'm so jealous of you. You're the absolute man and I never met you. I want my actions just like yours. I wanna walk out a room after sleeping with a hot girl knowing how hard I fucked her brains out. I litterally have fantasies every day of turning those innocent girls I see and turning them into my slaves. When I get really horny I enjoy every part of a womens body and then cant stand to live with myself If I haven't acknowledged each body part

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Hector Castillo's picture

I'm not sure where I heard this story, but it's great, even if fictitious.

A great pianist plays a splendid set onstage. Afterwards, a man comes to the musician and says, "I'd trade anything to play the piano the way you do!" The pianist looks at this stranger and simply responds, "no you wouldn't."

The moral is not one of discouragement, but one of encouragement, if you are one who will reach that level. It takes infinitely more than you could imagine to become the man you want to be; I'm still striving towards my goal, even if I've already surpassed many past goals.

One of my favorite movies of all time, Whiplash, has a great response to this predicament.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v6lFs5gbv_k

But it goes beyond this clip. Afterwards, Andrew asks Fletcher something along the lines of, "what if he had discouraged the next Charlie Parker by being so hard on him?" Fletcher then responds, "the next Charlie Parker wouldn't have been discouraged."

And so I say to you, or any who read this, if you want to reach my level, read every article on this website about 20 times, go out consistently for about 5 years, and sleep with 50+ girls. Until you've done that, no "I'm jealous" statements allowed, because I've stared into darknesses so vast and deep that you would turn away from and never face again - you may be jealous of my successes, but not my failures.

I continually struggle, even to this day.But just as Andrew does in Whiplash, I push past the blood and tears. My sincerest hope is that you do, as well, Mr. Anonymous.

Struggle. Contend. Endure. For that is the sword of the one who defies death.

- Hector

Motiv's picture

I needed to read this—the gritty details of what techniques you actually use to be the stud god we all want to be. I am more or less a romantic turned mechanic as I walk the path to sexual enlightenment, and I will put this ammo to use in my next lay (probably the married cougar who's nicknamed me 50 shades).

I love that movie clip you posted from Whiplash—I've lived that life in music, practicing up to eight hours daily in preparation for dozens of national auditions all over the country. In spite of that Herculean effort, I've still fucked up plenty of them, but that's the only way to get better at practicing for the next one—and the next and the next and the next…

Many of us have to get past the faulty mindset society has programmed in us that we are supposed to find "the one" to settle down with. In today's era of rampant feminism, this is an insidious ruse to male enslavement. It only works if the women are simultaneously shamed into "behaving" … but then that's hardly any fun for anyone.

Even if you find you truly want monogamy in the end, it is still very wise to learn to be a god among men in the sexual arena. Women secretly despise "nice guys" and are nice in kind only for the material and emotional shit those saps are willing to give away for the possibility of some lame sex. Fuck that. Does any real man seriously want to be caught in that role?! Not me—I hope not any of you readers here either.

Thanks again Hector. You are a rare example and a fine writer.

-M

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Hector Castillo's picture

Mischief, I love it! I definitely still have some romantic in me, but it's conveyed hedonistically, if that makes sense. I love women and want to see them romanced beyond their wildest dreams, but I know that's by getting 'em wetter than any man before me. Being warm and lovey dovey DOES work, but the other half of romance is pure lust.

It's cool to hear about the manic/depressive nature of an artistic life. As I write more and utilize that talent for most of my income, I begin to understand the obsession it requires, just like any other skill. One of my favorite books of all time, Wise Man's Fear, describes conquering/seducing women musically - every woman is a unique instrument who must be mastered.

Every man wants to love, but it's definitely better to love multiple women. Totally cool to have a girl in the rotation you like more than the rest, but it's better for you and her if you also see other women. We both win that way.

Thanks for the kudos, buddy ;) Good luck with the married cougar!

- Hector

Ethan Fierre's picture

Fun post, Re'lar Hector ;)

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Hector Castillo's picture

Just had one.

Also, Re'lar?! Shiiit, mang! I should be El'the by now!

TO THE ARTIFICERY!

- Manet

Motiv's picture

It's cool to hear about the manic/depressive nature of an artistic life. As I write more and utilize that talent for most of my income, I begin to understand the obsession it requires, just like any other skill. One of my favorite books of all time, Wise Man's Fear, describes conquering/seducing women musically - every woman is a unique instrument who must be mastered.

I'm going to read that book now—thanks for dropping the title! I've developed basically the same philosophy of sex—only difference being that I think of women as compositions rather than instruments. Meeting and sleeping with a new girl to me is like picking up a new piece of music: get a feel for the overall ebb and flow of the piece, then figure out how to work through the toughest spots, and finally, make it truly sing!

I am glad you are making a good living from writing. We really need writers like you with the experience you have. GC is THE go-to place for personal development where women and sex are concerned for a lot of men out there.

Mischief, I love it! I definitely still have some romantic in me, but it's conveyed hedonistically, if that makes sense. I love women and want to see them romanced beyond their wildest dreams, but I know that's by getting 'em wetter than any man before me. Being warm and lovey dovey DOES work, but the other half of romance is pure lust.

Thanks! I'm starting to click with that idea of romance conveyed "hedonistically." It's just a different (more appropriate) way to love women, and even with a sub ten lay count, even I know they LOVE it when they're treated sexually by a man they lust for. I think Beyonce - Crazy in Love conveys that concept. It is actually quite a shame when a man a woman initially found sexy then strips himself of that status. Then again, since most men seem to be doing that, that's less competition for us.

I keep asking myself if the romantic (tender lovey dovey shit) in men is the result of indoctrination or genetics. Either way, it seems most of us have it and need to get it under control in order to climb the sexual ladder—we need to master ourselves emotionally.

Every man wants to love, but it's definitely better to love multiple women. Totally cool to have a girl in the rotation you like more than the rest, but it's better for you and her if you also see other women. We both win that way.

Totally agree—love many women! Falling "in love" with one woman is an act of submission, and it blows my mind just how often most men willingly place themselves in that position (and subsequently destroy their own attractiveness in the process *shakes head*). Everyone really does win when a girl knows she can't have you in a relationship, but she can have your dick if she "behaves." :)

-M

P.S. The married cougar happened! The sex was meh, but I'll grab any experience in the name of learning—the best part is actually the free wine and dinners I get from her, as her husband is a M.D. who does very well.

I wonder what you think of this Eminem song. I love to karaoke this one in bars around town—helps me set the frame I want.

Eminem - Superman (Explicit)

Motiv's picture

Apologies for having a super long comment with too much personal shit. I filtered it down so it's hopefully worth reading.

Much appreciation for bearing with me.

-M

Anonymous's picture

Are you related to Stifler?

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Hector Castillo's picture

Haha, unfortunately not. He seems like a chill dude, though! And I would love to read that secret book of his ;)

- Hector

Anonymous's picture

I know this is probably related to girls you've probably already slept with butvdo you have any tips you do to quickly get girls to the bedroom. When you first meet them?

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Hector Castillo's picture

Hey Anon,

That's a big request, my man! Haha. Also, nice smartphone typing ;)

Getting girls back to your place quickly is, at its simplest, just hitting escalation windows OR just having supreme faith in your frame.

Route 1: "Are they ready to go?" But it's not always as simple as her dropping hints like "do you live alone?" or "where do you live?" I've mechanistically trained myself to respond to these cues and it's not always a certainty they'll go back with you - sometimes they're still screening logistics, rather than 100% implying they want to go smash. You want to look for non-verbal cues, like she is gazing at you hard and says, "I'm really tired...kinda feel like taking a nap." What's difficult about when it IS really obvious, is you might doubt yourself. Recently approach a girl at a park and went very direct. She was enthralled the whole time and in 10 minutes she mentioned wanting to go nap and that she lived really close. I was with a buddy of mine and so while all my logistical/reputation concerns were flying through my head, I sorta fumbled the escalation and lost her.

But I move super quick these days, so if you're going the more "talk for a few hours on a date" route and she's been showing lots of interest throughout the date and THEN mentions anything logistical, go ahead and pull the trigger. Err on the side of boldness.

Route 2: Tell me, do these lyrics resonate with you?

"I was chilling with a girl that I just met
Mid conversation got impatient so I asked her can we fuck yet?
Guess that she was upset
That was about the time she stormed off, steaming mad
She was bad but I just let
Her go, why you sweat girls like a fur coat
In the summertime? You're a nerd bro" - Achievement by G-Eazy

If so, then pull any goddamned moment you want to. Yesterday I met a girl for coffee - after maybe 15-20 minutes of sharing our love for anime, eye fucking her, touching her leg, and just having fun, I invited her to come play Street Fighter at my house. We hungout for about 5 hours and by the end of it she jerked me off onto a plate, get on her knees, and eat some of my cream. We've also agreed that her nickname is "little slut." Funnily enough, we didn't even fuck. LMR is a bitch sometimes, especially with inexperienced girls or girls who don't have a positive history of sex (this girl never had an orgasm/only had a few lovers and they all sucked, obviously). But we had a lot of fun and are hanging out again this week. Could I have waited longer on the date, built up more comfort, then gone for the kill and potentially avoid the gauntlet of LMR I faced? Sure, but that shit bores me. I'd rather spend a bunch of hours rolling around on my floor, making out, and discussing meditation/philosophy and then have her crawl around on her knees like the little whore she is.

- Hector

Anonymous's picture

Hi, is there a way someone here can make an artice about hotwifing, seems like this has been a growing trend and if it is something a couple should look into?

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Hector Castillo's picture

Interesting question!

I LOVE fucking girls with boyfriends. It's a fetish of mine. And once I found out about cuckolding/hot-wifing, I immediately identified myself as a Bull (and have even recently joined some BDSM circles in search of couples whom I could play with)

For those who are unaware,

Hotwifing: pimpin' your girl out to other men (by strict definition it's not EXACTLY synonymous with cuckolding, but I'll treat it as such here).

The intensity of sharing your girl can range from watching the guy(s) pound her, all the way to sucking the other guy(s) off, getting pounded by him (them), and even cleaning up his (their) load from your girls' pussy.

Cuckold: the husband/boyfriend giving his girl out.

Hot-wife: girlfriend/wife being pimped

Bull(s): The other guy(s) that fucks the hot-wife

I actually cover this in the next article, but here's the short version of what happens if you try out cuckolding.

Will she stay with you? Definitely. She gets emotional/financial/sexual commitment from the cuckold (you) and as much hard dick on the side as she wants. It's a fantastic setup for her.

Is it worth it? Depends what you want out of life.

Do you want to be the most dominant man in her life and have her worship your cock? No, it's not worth it.

But if ecstasy, fulfilling your fantasies, and providing for your girl are your missions in life, then go ahead, live it up! No judgment!! Do as you see fit!

In fact, if any guys reading this want to try this fantasy out, send me a message and I'll be your bull ;)

- Hector

lao che's picture

personally, i feel this article has no business being on the front page of GC.

not that i'm doubting hector's experience or "credentials" but it reads like he has raken a random selection from his porno collection (or my own, for that matter) and jotted down a few notes.
. i'm far from being a prude. i can check off most of the acts listed but an article like this cheapens the site overall and seems taudry and even unnecessary.

just one man's opinion. take it or leave it. no reply necessary

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Hector Castillo's picture

Haha, hey Lao Che.

Some of this stuff might seem "cheesy" or taken from your bargain erotic literature book, but you must remember - these lines and statements come from somewhere!

Simplicity in your demands is a sign of clarity and certainty, i.e., authority. What's more effective with a girl,

- "Hey, Serena. It would really turn me on to cover your face in cum. After I'm done with shoving my rod in your pussy, I'm gonna go ahead and do that."

OR

- "Imm gunna cum on your face, ya dirty little slut."

Seconnnddd onneee.

Cheesy? Yep.

Dumb and primal? Yep.

Effective? Very.

Also, remember that the rhetoric is not so important as the tone. I advocate in the second article that men adopt a deep, gutteral, and somewhat harsh voice when giving orders or talking dirty. Also, they shouldn't hesitate. Tone and timing delivery are as important for hedonistic sex-seshes as it is for opening a girl on the street.

The critical equivalent of your response is rejecting someone's use of a maxim, e.g. "the end is important in all things." If something has survived for a while, there's a good chance there is SOME merit to it (though we must caution, lest we fall for the Fallacy of Tradition). I would recommend Schiller's "On The Aesthetic Education of Man" for a good intellectual treatment of what I'm spittin' atcha here. But instead of history, philosophy, literature, etc, apply his thesis to slappin' bitches with your cum-soaked hand or tying them to some bed-posts.

As for your experience, that's great! Happy to hear you're bringing womens' fantasies to life, but here's the thing: not everyone is doing this.

Just because you and me do it, doesn't mean the average GC reader does. I personally find most articles on how to approach women unnecessary for myself - why? Because I know how to do it! But that doesn't mean we take down our articles on direct opening, indirect opening, etc.

If at least one man's sexual horizons are opened by this article, then that means potentially one more woman's fantasies will be fulfilled. And this makes me very happy.

Feel free to respond,

Hector

lao che's picture

of my comment

Pistol's picture

I've been voraciously studying the articles on this website for the past month or so and it really is a complete fucking gold mine. Chase basically assembled the justice league of getting pussy.

I have a bit of a unique circumstance and if you have the time I'd be interested in hearing your opinion on it (your genuine man series deeply resonated with me and I relate to you the most out of any of the authors).

I used to have cancer in high school and grew up without seeing myself as an attractive or sexual guy, and that if I hit on girls I'd just be this bald, sickly social burden (I don't mean this in a disrespectful way to any other cancer patient, just my own fucked up thinking).

Fast forward to the present and I'm a senior in college who is confident, ripped and handsome. The hardships in my past skipped some of the steps in your genuine man series and left me holes in other areas, namely actual dating experience with chicks.

How I should frame the narrative of my life in relation to girls? For a long time I was insecure about my past and thought it disqualified me from the lover category, and I restrained my own dominant sexuality. The residue of my flawed thinking still rears its head in my thought current and drags me down sometimes.

Probably the most important part of being able to pull off this kinky shit is to 100 percent believe you are sexy as fuck, so how does a man indoctrinate himself with the conviction that he is the paragon of pure explosive masculine sexuality?

Appreciate all the help man

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Hector Castillo's picture

Hey Pistol,

Sounds like you're working hard, man! Always love hearing that!

As for your story, hellz yeah! That's amazing! And you know what? Tell girls your story . Say it with a twinkle in your eye and a distant look when you get to the rough/traumatic parts, but then when you hit the climax of your story, look them in the eye and smile devilishly, "but like all mountains, it eventually was reduced to dust. And look at this - now I'm talking to this beautiful woman and having the time of my life. Isn't life wonderful?"

She'll probably gobble your dick down then and there.

My history with women, even recently, is marred with fuckups that are straight embarassing. Usually, it's because my old mindsets creep up and take control of me for long enough to ruin an interaction. This isn't a problem for guys who have been getting pussy since they were 14, but for those who started to succeed later in life, even years of success can't fully outshine those years of darkness.

My personal remedy is to

1. Just keep building reference points. If 100 lays don't do it, try 150. This isn't the final solution, but it will help rewrite your brain

2. Face your fuckups; face them when they come into your mind, analyze them, then when you've reached your conclusion, cast them aside. Do this until they stop fuckin' witcha. It's the opposite of many people's advice, but guess who does this and moves on quicker than any guy seducer I've met? Women. They talk about relationships, their feelings, etc with their girlfriends until every angle and every theoretical has been thoroughly discussed.

And what else do they do? They keep getting dick! And you can have just as much abundance as them; actually, even more ;) Their natural risk aversion, screening, and reputation will keep most from racking up as many lays as elite men (and the highest quality women are the most conservative with casual partners).

So you want to believe you're sexy as fuck? Keep getting pussy and face your demons. In other words, GRIND ;)

- Hector

Pistol's picture

Your the fucking man dude thanks for responding it means a lot

Squat Endorphin 's picture

I wanted to do this so bad when I was high school but now I know the know on everything, I use to be shy and not get dates because they felt I was unconfident to handle them but only imagined about shagging her turd cutter when ever she said hello to me in a dazzling way.

TLDR: She was a 10 and I am extremely self critical of my past and what could been Hector; you inspired me who I am today, a ladiessss man/graysexual.

Squat Endorphin 's picture

I treat 6s and 7s with the gray sexual initiative (I fuck them but hang out with them a lot to get a feel for girl language, then 8-10s i do them but all make them my girlfriend from lowest number duration to higher to highest duration on the higher numbers as of my girlfriend.

It’s a good life we lead bro.

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