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An assumption that a lot of men make when they first get into seduction is that they need to be something more than just a man to have sex with. They assess that women have nearly unlimited options for men to sleep with, and thus that they need to build more value and hold something “special” so women will want them and be attracted to them.
However, when men feel like they have nothing to offer a woman because she already has hundreds of other men clamoring to have sex with her, seduction becomes very difficult. Those men have nearly no sense of purpose guiding them towards becoming better with women, because in the end they just feel like they’re pulling sleight of hand to have sex with her.
This, in essence, is a very idealistic scenario, where inexperienced men assume that women just want sex and have so many options for it that any chance of them getting into the system is futile. So they try to build value in other ways – by being a friend or provider in lieu of the commonality of sex.
However, seduction is a venereal experience. How one experiences sex determines its value. When men have been removed from this experience, it becomes very easy for them to forget that sex is about much more than the physical act. It’s about the experience that sex entails that brings about great value to a man who is able to give the best of experiences.
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Role Model
Yo Chase, I've got some time off and I've been taking it to seriously remodel myself into a more valuable, attractive dude. I've been imitating James Bond and Dean, but I experienced difficulty in trying to express my artistic nature through these men. But I've been reading a series, and came across a guy who was really interesting as a character. He has a shy, warm air about him, and switches between this and a dangerous mood when interacting with people. He uses language tactics to allure to an unspoken dark side that many readers wonder about. I have a link to a picture of him here, and I just wanted to ask your opinion on whether this is too shabby to imitate?
Here's the link : http://img2.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20121027114701/narutofanon/images/6/6...
Thank you Chase
Mysterious
Hey Anon,
I can tell you that, from personal experience, this type of game can work very well. I tend to get girls investing a lot off the bat, and when they try and flip the switch and talk to me I'll reveal very little about myself. This is a phenomenon that was explained in "How to Be Vulnerable, Enchanting, and Alluring to Women".
It works wonders for getting girls interested in an under-the-radar way that most other people won't understand. Many times have I been called a "mysterious" guy with a dark side simply because I deeply explore that dark side. And women eat it up.
It should be noted that if you go this route, you'll need to learn how to take girls out of auto-rejection, because you run the risk of letting her know too little about you. You've also got to move even faster, because if you aren't moving forward confidently while also letting her encounter auto-rejection, she will turn cold to any advances. It's a hard technique to master, but also one of my favorites.
Fundamentals, opening and attraction in online dating
Hello Ross,
there is one thing that keeps intriguing me in online dating. Will you solve it? :-)
Attraction is established at opening and fundamentals are crucial. If there´s no attraction, you can as well turn and leave. Or not? Please tell me.
This happens often in online dating. A woman is attracted to your texts, picture, voice, but you are different in person. Online dating is much about illusions and everyone is "worse" than illusions about him/her. So she is craving to meet you for the first time. Actually, if you can play this game well and have some luck, a woman can meet you for the first time and be ready for sex in minutes.
However my question is to the opposite case - the moment you meet, she is repulsed because her expectations (read: illusions) were completely different than the real you. You lose the opening even if your fundamentals are good! So, she´s not attracted, but will still have a coffee with you. How much power do you have in such a situation?
And a second question - do you think, she could be attracted if you met under different circumstances than you did? (different place, daytime, mood... or not via online site)... Every woman on earth will answer "no". However I strongly believe that it´s true at least for some women.
Thanks Ross,
David
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