Tell me if you've ever been here before: you're talking to your girlfriend, or a girl you've started dating, or even (if she's really got gall) a girl you just met... and she starts nagging you, persistently, repeatedly, and annoyingly about something. She just won't let up.
I wrote this today to answer the question of how to deal with a nagging woman.
We've talked on here about angry women, and we've gone in-depth on women and drama, but this is something different. Nagging doesn't come from anger, and it isn't an attempt to stir up drama. Nagging is its own animal altogether.
Women nag all the time -- whether you're the spouse they've been together with for twenty years, or they've just met you that night. Usually men simply get frustrated at this, sigh deeply, and throw their hands up. I'm a strong believer that throwing your hands up is never the path to success though -- and this post is designed to help make sure you never have to (at least not when it comes to nagging!).
So if you're ready to stop nagging and get yourself on a smooth, even keel with the women you meet and the women in your life, read ahead.
Comments
what if i disagree with the nag?
often times my wife nags me to do things that I don't feel need to be done. A lot of automotive nags. "you need to add fuel injector" -no, it's fuel injection cleaner, and it's not necessary as often as you want it.
"you need to clean the car" -no, it's my car and it's not even dirty
"you need to put towels over your floor mats" -no, i have the floor mats to protect the floor.
etc. i disagree with the nag. in your article, you posit that the man should eventually give in to the nag., well, what if the nag is wrong?
Can't live with 'em...
They wear you down, don't they? It's just hard to live with a woman. I've never lived with one. With my girlfriend, I either go see her at her place a couple times a week or she comes to mine. But even then, if we stay around each other for a little too long, she starts to get irritating. So I couldn't imagine living with her, like constantly. As I said, it just wears you down.
That's why the only way I'm getting married is we lived separately, like perhaps two parts of one house. She'd get the bigger part if we have kids because the kids would be staying with her - she does the rearing, I do the supporting. But like seeing her six hours a day and sharing beds and all that?! No, no, no. Not for me. I wouldn't want to hate the mother of my kids, and space and periodic absence are the best way to achieve that.
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