Hey guys , I am now in a dead bedroom( which is relationship where sex is rare or quality of sex is lacking). I was wondering how dead bedrooms form in relationships in the first place? I have read most of the articles on the website and know importance of respect in the relationship, the 2 ,5,7 year drops,the drop in novelty, and how women's attraction wane over time, but I was curious on libido issues. Perhaps Chase or the Gchase team can do an article on women's libido and how to avoid dead bedrooms. My girlfriend was sexually assaulted a long time ago in her past , she has an autoimmune condition type 1 diabetes, and she takes birth control all of which can lead to libido problems or a dead bedrooms. Sorry for the long post , my questions are how does one partner lose libido at such a fast rate and how can I fix a low libido partner if its even possible? How common is this issue do all couples have it?How do I change the bad routine? Why do girls starfish sex?Lastly, how do I prevent these issues in the future with different girls? My girlfriend in addition to less sex frequency is also freaked out by nipple touching, fingering, and cunnilingus completely because of past experienced. She is ok with anal. She doesn't like making out too much says its messy and cant handle "wet kisses". And sex itself she likes only vanilla missionary where she starfishes and can only get off by riding me slowly and after she falls asleep without finishing me. What should I do guys? There is even a whole Reddit dedicated to this topic.
TLDR
Girlfriend and I are in a dead bedroom very rare sex
What causes drastic low libido or dead bedroom in couples?
How common is this issue does it happen to every couple
How can we fix low libido women or dead bedroom issues?
How do I change the boring routine and fight against her excuses and stop her star fishing?
Most importantly how do i prevent this situation from ever happening again with future girls?
Girlschase team please consider this topic for an article
TLDR
Girlfriend and I are in a dead bedroom very rare sex
What causes drastic low libido or dead bedroom in couples?
How common is this issue does it happen to every couple
How can we fix low libido women or dead bedroom issues?
How do I change the boring routine and fight against her excuses and stop her star fishing?
Most importantly how do i prevent this situation from ever happening again with future girls?
Girlschase team please consider this topic for an article