Hi All,
I'm currently in a few month relationship which evolved after I stole a girl from her boyfriend.. Even back then that raised some alarms in my head but I was thinking this would be just a fling, but it turned into quite a bit more..
Just recently I was reading Chase's post on "How to prevent cheating" - https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-p ... girlfriend and I started thinking on some of the notes he said .. Then I slowly pulled the relevant 'info' from my girlfriend and I had my mind blown.... Basically the list goes like this:
She has a high sex drive - definitely
She's had many partners exactly 12
She's a party girl / she goes to parties & nightclubs often somewhat, due to distance at the moment but not extreme
She has tons of male friends and few female ones 90% male I'd say..
She travels a lot solo or with girlfriends N/A
She's an adventurer Medium
She has sex recreationally (for fun) rather than for love Yep quite a few times
She's ever been in a friends-with-benefits relationship Yes - once
She's ever had an open relationship / is comfortable with the idea Yes
This is like sounding the Tsunami sirens according to Chase.. I do acknowledge this, but I think I got quite attached and this whole thing is loads of fun.. I've came out of a 4 year relationship 6 months ago and to be fair I have had very little experience with relationships and flings overall before that. So in theory I'm screwed - less experienced, attached and probably at this point not very rational.
On the plus side, she seems quite attached as well - she told me she loves me first etc etc... And she did swear that she has cheated only once (with her former boyfriend with me).. But with this type of girls it seems you can never tell (or at least by someone with my kind of experience).
My question is simple - how do you think is best to handle this? Cut it now, play it out while I enjoy it, set a deadline in stone and do it then? Or go along and face the possible consequences?
Any help or relevant experience is more than welcomed
I'm currently in a few month relationship which evolved after I stole a girl from her boyfriend.. Even back then that raised some alarms in my head but I was thinking this would be just a fling, but it turned into quite a bit more..
Just recently I was reading Chase's post on "How to prevent cheating" - https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-p ... girlfriend and I started thinking on some of the notes he said .. Then I slowly pulled the relevant 'info' from my girlfriend and I had my mind blown.... Basically the list goes like this:
She has a high sex drive - definitely
She's had many partners exactly 12
She's a party girl / she goes to parties & nightclubs often somewhat, due to distance at the moment but not extreme
She has tons of male friends and few female ones 90% male I'd say..
She travels a lot solo or with girlfriends N/A
She's an adventurer Medium
She has sex recreationally (for fun) rather than for love Yep quite a few times
She's ever been in a friends-with-benefits relationship Yes - once
She's ever had an open relationship / is comfortable with the idea Yes
This is like sounding the Tsunami sirens according to Chase.. I do acknowledge this, but I think I got quite attached and this whole thing is loads of fun.. I've came out of a 4 year relationship 6 months ago and to be fair I have had very little experience with relationships and flings overall before that. So in theory I'm screwed - less experienced, attached and probably at this point not very rational.
On the plus side, she seems quite attached as well - she told me she loves me first etc etc... And she did swear that she has cheated only once (with her former boyfriend with me).. But with this type of girls it seems you can never tell (or at least by someone with my kind of experience).
My question is simple - how do you think is best to handle this? Cut it now, play it out while I enjoy it, set a deadline in stone and do it then? Or go along and face the possible consequences?
Any help or relevant experience is more than welcomed