The other day a girl I was with told me "she liked it hard".
I don't like it when women try to excite with blatant talk, so I slightly smiled and let her explain it more but dropped it soon after.
Some days later I wanted to call her but felt tired and was thinking maybe not that day as I wasn't gonna be as powerful as I would have liked.
See the pattern there?
That comment had me in a mindset I had to prove myself. It had me jumping through her hoops.
I feel the "sexual prove yourself" is the ultimate one: it's easy discarding proving yourself through money, favours etc, and it's a bit harder doing so for, say, intelligence.
But it's possibly the hardest ditching the "prove yourself" mindset when it comes to sex.
I don't like it when women try to excite with blatant talk, so I slightly smiled and let her explain it more but dropped it soon after.
Some days later I wanted to call her but felt tired and was thinking maybe not that day as I wasn't gonna be as powerful as I would have liked.
See the pattern there?
That comment had me in a mindset I had to prove myself. It had me jumping through her hoops.
I feel the "sexual prove yourself" is the ultimate one: it's easy discarding proving yourself through money, favours etc, and it's a bit harder doing so for, say, intelligence.
But it's possibly the hardest ditching the "prove yourself" mindset when it comes to sex.