My girlfriend is very nice and respectful to me when we are alone. However, last night for the first time we went out with some of her friends. For some reason she was being kind of mean most of the night. We went into a haunted house and her and some of the other girls were holding onto me because they were scared and I was leading the way through the thing. I was not getting scared and thought it was a little silly, but the girls were very scared. I can't remember what exactly was said, but she said some joke about how I'm feminine. I don't know where this came from because I don't think she really thinks that, but she was just trying to be funny. Anyway, because we were in the middle of a haunted house and with a bunch of friends I didn't mention it to her or get after her about it, but I did think it was disrespectful. I would never call her manly in front of a bunch of friends. And she had been a little rude and dismissive most of the night. But, then as we were leaving she was suddenly very warm and affectionate to me again.
Anyway, I'm wondering what is the best way to address this. Just brush it off as a bad joke and not worry about it? Bring up today that it was rude and not ok?
Thanks for your help.
Anyway, I'm wondering what is the best way to address this. Just brush it off as a bad joke and not worry about it? Bring up today that it was rude and not ok?
Thanks for your help.