Fucking funny thing, right before I came to the advanced board I started thinking about Bruce Lee's quote about being formless like water and I adapt to any situation. I understand the bit about frame control and that the man should set it and have her adapt to it brutal what if it's a good frame so to speak kinda like she thinks and expects you to be this highly sexy man, would you say the same if you were adapting to that frame?
Women Are Water
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Good post.
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I think a good way to put this is that masculine men bring out femininity in women. Women will become as feminine as you are masculine in my experience.
My current "relationship" feels so natural and satisfying because I feel like a man and "my woman" feels like a woman. This is powerful shit.
Once you "tap into" your own masculinity, you become aware of the feminine energy that exists in women. It's beautiful, its wild and its the compliment to your masculinity.
Drexel has always got gold thoughts to share.
My current "relationship" feels so natural and satisfying because I feel like a man and "my woman" feels like a woman. This is powerful shit.
Once you "tap into" your own masculinity, you become aware of the feminine energy that exists in women. It's beautiful, its wild and its the compliment to your masculinity.
Drexel has always got gold thoughts to share.
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This is actually really solid advice.
I hadn't really noticed before, but reading that gave me a sort of epiphany.
In the past, I hadn't really let girls complain to me about their ex's, horrible past, etc. In fact, I had literally begged them to do so. It's almost going beyond beta to like super beta levels. I was under the impression that asking them so much was doubly harming me. Not only was I killing any possible attraction, I was also investing a ton of my own time because of my own mistake.
Since women are like water, they easily shifted to taking advantage of it (which isn't even their fault, I asked for it).
Lesson for others: Please, don't make the mistake I did.
I hadn't really noticed before, but reading that gave me a sort of epiphany.
In the past, I hadn't really let girls complain to me about their ex's, horrible past, etc. In fact, I had literally begged them to do so. It's almost going beyond beta to like super beta levels. I was under the impression that asking them so much was doubly harming me. Not only was I killing any possible attraction, I was also investing a ton of my own time because of my own mistake.
Since women are like water, they easily shifted to taking advantage of it (which isn't even their fault, I asked for it).
Lesson for others: Please, don't make the mistake I did.
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I love this quote. I realized this a while back, but I love the new take with the water analogy.
It makes me more at peace with women in the past who have done me wrong, because I was most likely setting myself up for it.
Personal responsibility is key!
Pure genius! A very powerful piece of advice.
Funny enough, this is not just only applicable to women, but also applicable to just about anyone human being out there(though,I suspect the extent may vary between men and women).
Nice one, Drexel.
Funny enough, this is not just only applicable to women, but also applicable to just about anyone human being out there(though,I suspect the extent may vary between men and women).
Nice one, Drexel.
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DrexelScott said:
This mindset releases the burden of bewilderment over female behavior and exposes the responsibility to us men—those of us who choose to be. Let each woman you interact with be a mirror by which to measure your own masculinity. Then, if/when you truly fail to set the frame you wanted (and you will many, many times, especially when starting out), scrap it all and start anew with a fresh subject. Rinse/repeat until desired results achieved. You might make/keep many female friends along the way (just so long as you know where you stand with them): I'm don't mean to imply a callous mindset—just a pragmatic one.
Over time, you will be amazed at what you come to learn about you. Take joy in the discovery of thyself: it is truly quite exciting!
-M