I was cleaning my smith machine before going to my next workout. A cute girl walked up to me and asked if I was done. She didn't seem interested in me from what I could tell. I said yeah, but I was caught off guard by it and didn't do anything after that. I continued working out and as I went to do my last workout, I saw her a couple of machines behind me, and I decided I would talk to her once I'm done my workout. Here's how the conversation went, from what I can remember:
Me: Excuse me, are you related to someone named **** ****? ( I really did think she looked like someone I knew)
Her: No, I'm not (laughs)
Me: Oh man, you look exactly like her. What's your last name?
Her: *****
Me: Hmm, yeah, doesn't sound familiar. But look, honestly, I just came here cause I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi. (Put my hand out to shake hers)
Her: What's your name?
Me: jaja1234
Her: I'm ****
We talk for a few minutes, some banter; I try throwing in little touches and flirty comments about us being accounting partners and her being my nurse. (I'm an accountant and she's a nursing major, with a little interest in accounting.) I could sense at some point that I should have gone for her number, and I was about to ask. Here's how it ended:
Before I was about to ask for her number:
Her: Well, I have to get back to working out.
Me: Yeah, I have to get out of here too. It's almost 7PM. But hey, when are you free this week. (Here, she made a face that showed hesitation to continue with me)
Her: I work three jobs, so I'm really busy. (Don't know if she was lying here or being honest. I think she was telling the truth though; she named her jobs pretty quickly)
Me: I'll tell you what. (Hold out my phone for her to grab) You put your number in, I shoot you a text. We hang out sometime. If you say no, it's no big deal.
Her: I actually have a boyfriend.
Me: (I make an exaggerated sad face and put my heart on my chest. I think I got that from one of Chase's articles.) You just broke my heart.
Her: I know. I'm sorry. (laughs)
Forgot what happened between here, but here's how I left the conversation:
Me: Come on, let's just run away quick then! (grab her arm and pretend to run away)
Her: Well, my boyfriend is three hours away. (laughs)
Me: All right then, nice talking to you.
Her: Yeah, maybe I'll see you around. (Could go either way good/bad)
After that, I bid her farewell.
One of my brick walls I need to overcome is when a girl mentions her boyfriend. Chase said it's not always true, and I need to persist a little more and not just walk away so quickly. (Although I did hesitate more here because I was at my gym and I didn't want to cause any problem there.) Her saying her boyfriend is three hours away after saying we'll go run away made me think I could have gotten further with her. Or she was just making conversation
Me: Excuse me, are you related to someone named **** ****? ( I really did think she looked like someone I knew)
Her: No, I'm not (laughs)
Me: Oh man, you look exactly like her. What's your last name?
Her: *****
Me: Hmm, yeah, doesn't sound familiar. But look, honestly, I just came here cause I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi. (Put my hand out to shake hers)
Her: What's your name?
Me: jaja1234
Her: I'm ****
We talk for a few minutes, some banter; I try throwing in little touches and flirty comments about us being accounting partners and her being my nurse. (I'm an accountant and she's a nursing major, with a little interest in accounting.) I could sense at some point that I should have gone for her number, and I was about to ask. Here's how it ended:
Before I was about to ask for her number:
Her: Well, I have to get back to working out.
Me: Yeah, I have to get out of here too. It's almost 7PM. But hey, when are you free this week. (Here, she made a face that showed hesitation to continue with me)
Her: I work three jobs, so I'm really busy. (Don't know if she was lying here or being honest. I think she was telling the truth though; she named her jobs pretty quickly)
Me: I'll tell you what. (Hold out my phone for her to grab) You put your number in, I shoot you a text. We hang out sometime. If you say no, it's no big deal.
Her: I actually have a boyfriend.
Me: (I make an exaggerated sad face and put my heart on my chest. I think I got that from one of Chase's articles.) You just broke my heart.
Her: I know. I'm sorry. (laughs)
Forgot what happened between here, but here's how I left the conversation:
Me: Come on, let's just run away quick then! (grab her arm and pretend to run away)
Her: Well, my boyfriend is three hours away. (laughs)
Me: All right then, nice talking to you.
Her: Yeah, maybe I'll see you around. (Could go either way good/bad)
After that, I bid her farewell.
One of my brick walls I need to overcome is when a girl mentions her boyfriend. Chase said it's not always true, and I need to persist a little more and not just walk away so quickly. (Although I did hesitate more here because I was at my gym and I didn't want to cause any problem there.) Her saying her boyfriend is three hours away after saying we'll go run away made me think I could have gotten further with her. Or she was just making conversation