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Anyone familiar with this concept or have done this?
Let me explain. I found out about this site called whatsyourprice back in 2011 when it was brand spanking new. The whole concept is that "generous" members (typically male) pay "attractive" members (mostly female) to go on dates. Similar to auctions where someone would bid for a date with someone at a fair/charity and get to go on a date with them, but this is done in the online dating format. On the site a girl can wink at me and I can send her an offer which she can either accept, decline, or counter-offer. I can wink at a girl and she can decline the wink or send me an offer. I went on one date in 2011 with an Asian girl that was more on the average side and agreed to pay $60 from the site which I did at the end of the date. It did feel awkward just handing a girl cash like I was a John or something, hahaha.
Before I joined the site I had been using POF and Okcupid on and off since 2008. I even tried a subscription to Match and a Yahoo dating site earlier than that but cancelled my subscription due to lack of results. POF and Okcupid were better alternatives since they are free but my luck there was horrible. I only managed to go on one date (my first date ever in my life) and I really was not attracted to her at all. The sad thing is she liked me a lot but she was on the heavy side and I just felt no attraction at all. In retrospect I could have just gotten some experience and possibly have had a first GF and lose my virginity with a real girl instead of an escort (which I ended up doing at age 25 since I was so sexually frustrated and depressed). Anyways with the traditional online dating sites, I really never got any flirts or women messaging me. I would send a bunch of messages out and never hear back from any girls. Some "nice" girls would chat back and forth with me but it never led to anything and we never met up. I really tried to lower my standards and go for women I normally wouldn't be attracted to. That was the mistake I made with the one date I went on. I believe my height (5'5") had a lot to do with my low success rate on those sites. I live in Orange County and a lot of the women are extremely shallow and will even display on their profile that you have to be at least 5'10" and White (even non-White girls, especially Asians would even have this preference!!!!) I am Eurasian by the way and typically was attracted to White girls. Now I am more into Mid-Eastern women, Latinas, and foreign White girls from Europe. I can't stand OC White chicks.
Arrrggghhh I couldn't take it anymore so the whatsyourprice site seemed like a good option at the time. The tables were completely turned. I went from being completely ignored on the traditional online dating websites to having constant flirts from beautiful women out of my league. Granted a lot of the women there are looking for sugar daddies but many still get grossed out when a 60+ guy is trying to date them or proposition them with a mutually beneficial arrangement, so going out with a younger guy willing to pay was somewhat enticing. I started using this site heavily in 2012 and up to the present. I have had the ability to go on dates with 7s, 8s, and 9s and typically will pay $100 - $150 for their company. Kind of cheating, but it was hilarious and kind of a social experiment to see the stares my date and I would get while at a restaurant. I remember going on a date with a Russian model that looked like a Megan Fox look-alike and was 2 inches taller (probably more with the boots she was wearing) than me and this guy kept starring at our table probably wondering "how the hell did that happen!!!??"
The downside, I have found out the hard way is that many of the women see the site as a business. They are serial daters and just go for first date funds and to have a free meal. Others are looking for a sugar daddy that will pay their rent, school tuition, and buy them things. I have met a few that were more genuine but I screwed things up with them since I had no concept of game, let the attraction window expire, and was too aloof (I used to wait 1-2 weeks after a date before contacting them again and this lead to auto-reject most of the time). Even when I did hear back I think I made the second meet too complicated and would not lead and make decisions. My text messaging style was really boring and matter of fact which I learned kills intrigue and interest to reply back. I did not engage in sprezzatura at all! My messages were always long winded and 2-3 times longer than anything they text/messaged me which I also found out was bad. Hate to say it but I most likely came of as a "creepy" guy after the date. During the date I was probably labeled as a "nice guy" and then when I texted and did not hear back, I would keep following up and not get the hint which made me creepy. I would then go into a deep depression.
In conclusion, what do you guys think of this site and the concept of paying hot women for dates? I'm pretty sure this goes against all Chase talks about, but it has at least given me experience talking to super attractive women. Most of the women on there are models, aspiring actresses, college students, and many are foreigners (Europeans, Brazilians, etc.) Things have improved for me a bit. When I first started, the date typically ended with a hug which she usually had to initiate, hahahaha. Then finally this aspiring model actually kissed me at the end of the date which got me really excited. I was so naive and thought I sealed the deal and was going to have a model as a GF. After our text communications died I got really depressed since I really wanted her and she was so hot (looked like Olivia Wilde). The next first was having my first second date! When the communications died from that I went into another deep depression since I kept thinking when am I ever going to meet a hot young Persian girl fresh from Iran again?! The next first was being invited over to a girl's house for the first time which happened during a second date. She was two years older than me and I chickened out, we just ended up sleeping in her bed together with her dog sleeping on its bed on the ground. Biggest blue balls experience ever and it was because I hardly even tried to work past her defenses. She kept touching me and I touched her once and she moved her hand and that's all it took for me to give up, LOL. I'll end it here before embarrassing myself anymore. Hoping my next first, will by my first lay from that site and/or outside of it.
Let me explain. I found out about this site called whatsyourprice back in 2011 when it was brand spanking new. The whole concept is that "generous" members (typically male) pay "attractive" members (mostly female) to go on dates. Similar to auctions where someone would bid for a date with someone at a fair/charity and get to go on a date with them, but this is done in the online dating format. On the site a girl can wink at me and I can send her an offer which she can either accept, decline, or counter-offer. I can wink at a girl and she can decline the wink or send me an offer. I went on one date in 2011 with an Asian girl that was more on the average side and agreed to pay $60 from the site which I did at the end of the date. It did feel awkward just handing a girl cash like I was a John or something, hahaha.
Before I joined the site I had been using POF and Okcupid on and off since 2008. I even tried a subscription to Match and a Yahoo dating site earlier than that but cancelled my subscription due to lack of results. POF and Okcupid were better alternatives since they are free but my luck there was horrible. I only managed to go on one date (my first date ever in my life) and I really was not attracted to her at all. The sad thing is she liked me a lot but she was on the heavy side and I just felt no attraction at all. In retrospect I could have just gotten some experience and possibly have had a first GF and lose my virginity with a real girl instead of an escort (which I ended up doing at age 25 since I was so sexually frustrated and depressed). Anyways with the traditional online dating sites, I really never got any flirts or women messaging me. I would send a bunch of messages out and never hear back from any girls. Some "nice" girls would chat back and forth with me but it never led to anything and we never met up. I really tried to lower my standards and go for women I normally wouldn't be attracted to. That was the mistake I made with the one date I went on. I believe my height (5'5") had a lot to do with my low success rate on those sites. I live in Orange County and a lot of the women are extremely shallow and will even display on their profile that you have to be at least 5'10" and White (even non-White girls, especially Asians would even have this preference!!!!) I am Eurasian by the way and typically was attracted to White girls. Now I am more into Mid-Eastern women, Latinas, and foreign White girls from Europe. I can't stand OC White chicks.
Arrrggghhh I couldn't take it anymore so the whatsyourprice site seemed like a good option at the time. The tables were completely turned. I went from being completely ignored on the traditional online dating websites to having constant flirts from beautiful women out of my league. Granted a lot of the women there are looking for sugar daddies but many still get grossed out when a 60+ guy is trying to date them or proposition them with a mutually beneficial arrangement, so going out with a younger guy willing to pay was somewhat enticing. I started using this site heavily in 2012 and up to the present. I have had the ability to go on dates with 7s, 8s, and 9s and typically will pay $100 - $150 for their company. Kind of cheating, but it was hilarious and kind of a social experiment to see the stares my date and I would get while at a restaurant. I remember going on a date with a Russian model that looked like a Megan Fox look-alike and was 2 inches taller (probably more with the boots she was wearing) than me and this guy kept starring at our table probably wondering "how the hell did that happen!!!??"
The downside, I have found out the hard way is that many of the women see the site as a business. They are serial daters and just go for first date funds and to have a free meal. Others are looking for a sugar daddy that will pay their rent, school tuition, and buy them things. I have met a few that were more genuine but I screwed things up with them since I had no concept of game, let the attraction window expire, and was too aloof (I used to wait 1-2 weeks after a date before contacting them again and this lead to auto-reject most of the time). Even when I did hear back I think I made the second meet too complicated and would not lead and make decisions. My text messaging style was really boring and matter of fact which I learned kills intrigue and interest to reply back. I did not engage in sprezzatura at all! My messages were always long winded and 2-3 times longer than anything they text/messaged me which I also found out was bad. Hate to say it but I most likely came of as a "creepy" guy after the date. During the date I was probably labeled as a "nice guy" and then when I texted and did not hear back, I would keep following up and not get the hint which made me creepy. I would then go into a deep depression.
In conclusion, what do you guys think of this site and the concept of paying hot women for dates? I'm pretty sure this goes against all Chase talks about, but it has at least given me experience talking to super attractive women. Most of the women on there are models, aspiring actresses, college students, and many are foreigners (Europeans, Brazilians, etc.) Things have improved for me a bit. When I first started, the date typically ended with a hug which she usually had to initiate, hahahaha. Then finally this aspiring model actually kissed me at the end of the date which got me really excited. I was so naive and thought I sealed the deal and was going to have a model as a GF. After our text communications died I got really depressed since I really wanted her and she was so hot (looked like Olivia Wilde). The next first was having my first second date! When the communications died from that I went into another deep depression since I kept thinking when am I ever going to meet a hot young Persian girl fresh from Iran again?! The next first was being invited over to a girl's house for the first time which happened during a second date. She was two years older than me and I chickened out, we just ended up sleeping in her bed together with her dog sleeping on its bed on the ground. Biggest blue balls experience ever and it was because I hardly even tried to work past her defenses. She kept touching me and I touched her once and she moved her hand and that's all it took for me to give up, LOL. I'll end it here before embarrassing myself anymore. Hoping my next first, will by my first lay from that site and/or outside of it.