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Ok, I am new to the forum but I have been following this website for 6 months and bettering myself in every aspect possible and so far it has opened up so many new doors in my life. I have been able to figure out most any situation on my own, until now. And i don't see an article on getting a girl that you knew from the past. but if there is i would much appreciate the link to the article.
So last weekend to my surprise I ran into a girl that i have known for years, who is my best friends sister and her mom calls me her second son. we have always had a thing for each other but in the few instances we were single around each other I never could get her to go all the way with me(those times were before i discovered this site). Until last week when her mom brought her to see me play live at a bar. Her mom left her with me and she was all over me that night(we hadn't seen each other in over a year, sparks flew).
So I took her home and made love to her and "I Know" that she had an amazing experience. And she pretty much fell in love with me that night and through the last week(made me dinner, bought me beer, took me out to lunch and paid over a 5 day period). Everything was going how it is supposed to go when done right. I decided i want to make her my girlfriend. Well all of a sudden she became distant, wont answer my calls, will only answer a text every now and then with a simple lame response and all this happened in a day. it went from head over heals for me, to wont even speak to me.
The best thing I can come up with is that she is either getting buyers remorse or she is shifting me into boyfriend material(which i doubt it is bf material because i already bedded her and she has gone completely cold on me now). I have only tried calling her once since the couple days ago we talked and only sent her a couple texts telling her we should hang out. Now i dont want to do anymore because i am afraid that I am pulling to hard and im not sure if i should just ignore her or push(which i cant figure out any good way how to at this moment). The only other details are that she came out of an abusive relationship(which i think is part of the problem), and she has kids(which i like a lot and have known before and they like me), she is 30, i am 28, and we both have a lot in common. I also made a comment that we should just date for a bit and see what happens. This was after she acted like she wanted to tell everybody that we were together. I believe i screwed up here as well. I know it seems like i am too fixated with her but i do have other girls at this time and she is at least a smokin little 9.5 and all i have done is let her invest in me so far. I just dont get it and it pains me to say that...
Any advice would be much appreciated.
Thank you much in advance
So last weekend to my surprise I ran into a girl that i have known for years, who is my best friends sister and her mom calls me her second son. we have always had a thing for each other but in the few instances we were single around each other I never could get her to go all the way with me(those times were before i discovered this site). Until last week when her mom brought her to see me play live at a bar. Her mom left her with me and she was all over me that night(we hadn't seen each other in over a year, sparks flew).
So I took her home and made love to her and "I Know" that she had an amazing experience. And she pretty much fell in love with me that night and through the last week(made me dinner, bought me beer, took me out to lunch and paid over a 5 day period). Everything was going how it is supposed to go when done right. I decided i want to make her my girlfriend. Well all of a sudden she became distant, wont answer my calls, will only answer a text every now and then with a simple lame response and all this happened in a day. it went from head over heals for me, to wont even speak to me.
The best thing I can come up with is that she is either getting buyers remorse or she is shifting me into boyfriend material(which i doubt it is bf material because i already bedded her and she has gone completely cold on me now). I have only tried calling her once since the couple days ago we talked and only sent her a couple texts telling her we should hang out. Now i dont want to do anymore because i am afraid that I am pulling to hard and im not sure if i should just ignore her or push(which i cant figure out any good way how to at this moment). The only other details are that she came out of an abusive relationship(which i think is part of the problem), and she has kids(which i like a lot and have known before and they like me), she is 30, i am 28, and we both have a lot in common. I also made a comment that we should just date for a bit and see what happens. This was after she acted like she wanted to tell everybody that we were together. I believe i screwed up here as well. I know it seems like i am too fixated with her but i do have other girls at this time and she is at least a smokin little 9.5 and all i have done is let her invest in me so far. I just dont get it and it pains me to say that...
Any advice would be much appreciated.
Thank you much in advance