Gentlemen
I'm a British guy, and was in the US last week for my cousins wedding to a US girl last saturday. I ended up sleeping with one of the bridesmaids.
My cousins new wife said she is a bit clingy (which I got the feeling of). I was going to get her number at breakfast, but couldn't do it without drawing attention. I did end up getting her number from my cousins wife but only because my when discussing it, the chick had told my cousins wife that I hadn't got her number (although I would have asked for it indirectly anyway).
I messaged her later on the sunday, and have been exchanging whatsapp messages since then. She is visiting the UK for work later in November, so rather than have a long drawn out convo, I shot her a message just before I boarded the plane saying that she should hit me up when she visits London, and I'll show her some cool parts of the city (and I would definitely like to sleep with her again). I thought this would cut the conversation, and she would just get in contact nearer the time. However, it hasn't and she is still messaging me.
I'm not really sure how to play this. I thought she was a cool girl and enjoy chatting with her, and would definitely be up for meeting her when she visits London and I don't want to be rude and ignore her. However, I'm definitely not down for a long distance relationship, and I'm guessing she isn't either. I don't want to lead her on, but I believe that I shouldn't act in a way that a girl feels used or regrets sleeping with me.
Should I continue messaging her until it dies out, and just keep in contact occasionally just so she doesn't think I'm a dick? I've already slept with her, so I'm not too worrried about attraction expiring, but I figure that either staying in constant contact can't do me much good or will lead her on. On the other hand, I don't to stop talking to her, and then her feel used etc.
I get this is pretty complex, but any advice would be appreciated.
Thank you!
I'm a British guy, and was in the US last week for my cousins wedding to a US girl last saturday. I ended up sleeping with one of the bridesmaids.
My cousins new wife said she is a bit clingy (which I got the feeling of). I was going to get her number at breakfast, but couldn't do it without drawing attention. I did end up getting her number from my cousins wife but only because my when discussing it, the chick had told my cousins wife that I hadn't got her number (although I would have asked for it indirectly anyway).
I messaged her later on the sunday, and have been exchanging whatsapp messages since then. She is visiting the UK for work later in November, so rather than have a long drawn out convo, I shot her a message just before I boarded the plane saying that she should hit me up when she visits London, and I'll show her some cool parts of the city (and I would definitely like to sleep with her again). I thought this would cut the conversation, and she would just get in contact nearer the time. However, it hasn't and she is still messaging me.
I'm not really sure how to play this. I thought she was a cool girl and enjoy chatting with her, and would definitely be up for meeting her when she visits London and I don't want to be rude and ignore her. However, I'm definitely not down for a long distance relationship, and I'm guessing she isn't either. I don't want to lead her on, but I believe that I shouldn't act in a way that a girl feels used or regrets sleeping with me.
Should I continue messaging her until it dies out, and just keep in contact occasionally just so she doesn't think I'm a dick? I've already slept with her, so I'm not too worrried about attraction expiring, but I figure that either staying in constant contact can't do me much good or will lead her on. On the other hand, I don't to stop talking to her, and then her feel used etc.
I get this is pretty complex, but any advice would be appreciated.
Thank you!