How to know if seduction is for you?
Do you want to get laid and stop getting friend or boyfriend zoned? Then the answer is yes seduction is for you!
Miguel said:
but then I catch myself thinking it's not in my nature to do these things, or that it's a problem of values
The majority of us that do this didn't start out with this stuff being natural. Most of us started with lame, emasculated traits instilled through social conditioning and lack of guidance in becoming a man.
It's like turning water into wine dude, you have to take on behaviors that you have never had in your life. It takes a while to undo the social conditioning and whatever false self-image your ego is attached to before you can really take on the behaviors/traits of the type of man you'd like/need to become.
As for me my values have shifted the more reference points I gain on what's actually the case and what I believed to be the case.
Miguel said:
Is it possible that seduction is incompatible with either your character/physical shape or ethics?.
I don't really think so. Whether you learn seduction from a website or go off of your gut instinct (as most men do and then fail) everybody plays seduction (I say play because it is a game not to be taken seriously). Even if you're a hardcore Christian that is going to stay chaste until marriage, you will be seducing your wife to be up until the relationship ends (and vice versa).
You have a mental image of what you think "seducers" (more likely playboys) are when in all reality you already are a seducer... just probably not one of the greats just yet
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How so do you think seduction would go against your ethics? Remember your responsible for however you decided to go about seduction. Just because playboys have a bad reputation for being manipulative doesn't mean every playboy is a manipulator. In fact this website highly disregards manipulation as a tactic, nor do we condone it.
Miguel said:
Also, there is the problem of frivolity, do you consider this to be a superficial hobby?
Everyone should be frivolous to some extent or another in my opinion. Why do you consider fun a problem? One thing learning seduction has taught me is that life shouldn't be taken too seriously...
at all. Yes I take important things and
act as if they were serious, but I try not to put a huge emphasis on the outcome of anything. Thus to me everything is funny, thus I'm always in a good mental state, thus I'm better prepared to tackle whatever comes my way due to being in a good state of mind.
If you're ass is so tight that you can't pull the stick lodged in it out then you need to frivolity in your life. And trust me we all get the stick in our ass from time to time. Some people just leave it in.
Miguel said:
Can these skills with the opposite sex harm your reputation?.
Yeah sure... but they can also skyrocket your reputation out of any reach you thought imaginable with the opposite sex. Remember that women want experienced men. If a man is clearly experienced then it shows other women have chosen him as a desirable mate, thus he must be a good mate.
On the other hand if a man is clearly inexperienced then it shows other women have not chosen him as a desirable mate, thus there must be something wrong with him.
Learning female psychology is another thing you learn in seduction (this site in particular) that benefits your dating life massively.
Hope to hear back from you Miguel! Your questions are almost annoyingly newbish but I honest to God enjoyed answering them because they're so much different then the usual "how do I get laid. HELP ME GET LAID!!" .
I'm curious as to why you'd ask such questions, I assume your quite conservative and like to think things through completely before jumping ship to change your life path. Probably not an unwise thing to do!
Cool to have you on the forums, talk at you down the road!
-Rob