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- Sep 28, 2016
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So I've been reading the site for a while now and I've actually seen some huge improvements. I spent a lot of time studying last semester and this semester I've been focusing on action. Already my results are exponential, mainly because they were non-existent before, but I'm still having one particular hang up that seems to be holding me back. Even though I keep getting girls numbers and some results, every time I meet a new girl I have this underlying desperation that I feel comes off maybe not immediately, but certainly before I can completely seal the deal. I've had more dates and make outs and have gotten more numbers in the past couple weeks than in my 20 years prior but whenever there is someone new in front of me all my subconscious mind can think is "God I hope this girl becomes my girlfriend and gives me affection and I don't have to keep going out there anymore". What's best for me is probably to continually get rejected until I reach the point where I can consistently get women, but in the back of my mind what I truly want is a relationship and regular affection. I can't completely close because I don't have enough experience to not get so hung up on each individual girl, and I can't get enough experience because I get hung up and can't close. It seems like an insurmountable catch 22. What do I do?