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I finally started my day game properly. I had picked up girls during day game before, but they were just one-offs. This time I approached 4 girls. It wasn't very successful, but I don't mind and I'm just glad I had a good time.
On first two I used indirect direct - asking were is obvious object (street) and than saying, that I'm joking and that I thought the girl was cute. First one didn't even stop when I asked directions (maybe I should've stood directly in front of her). Second ones were walking and I joined them to ask were is certain street (we were walking in it). They told me and I said I knew and I thought one of those (two) girls were cute. At first she got confused and didn't know what to say, then started walking faster and told me they were in a hurry and that they were tourists (I chuckle remembering this).
Third and fourth girls were sitting in the city center on the benches. Third didn't talk too much, didn't really engage in conversation, so I left to not waste my time. Fourth was more open, but when I asked her number, she said she better give her Facebook, because there all kinds of creeps that call at night or smth like that. But after talking for a few minutes more I asked again and she gave me her number.
So, the question is, how to make girls more comfortable, so as not to scare them? I should note, that girls in my country (east Europe) are very shy and conservative.
I also have one more question. With that fourth girl, I used some tip from Chase, which was very useful and worked wonders. I asked this girl, is it okey to give compliments to a stranger on saturday evening. She said probably not, because, it would be strange. I said, that I wanted to ask her to give me a compliment. Then both of them (with her girl friend) they started to really think compliments for me. And each gave me a compliment (that I'm very brave and very eloquent). I laugh when I write this, it was so cute from them. Do you know some other tips like this one, which would challenge girls? Because they are very useful and I'd like to know more of them.
On first two I used indirect direct - asking were is obvious object (street) and than saying, that I'm joking and that I thought the girl was cute. First one didn't even stop when I asked directions (maybe I should've stood directly in front of her). Second ones were walking and I joined them to ask were is certain street (we were walking in it). They told me and I said I knew and I thought one of those (two) girls were cute. At first she got confused and didn't know what to say, then started walking faster and told me they were in a hurry and that they were tourists (I chuckle remembering this).
Third and fourth girls were sitting in the city center on the benches. Third didn't talk too much, didn't really engage in conversation, so I left to not waste my time. Fourth was more open, but when I asked her number, she said she better give her Facebook, because there all kinds of creeps that call at night or smth like that. But after talking for a few minutes more I asked again and she gave me her number.
So, the question is, how to make girls more comfortable, so as not to scare them? I should note, that girls in my country (east Europe) are very shy and conservative.
I also have one more question. With that fourth girl, I used some tip from Chase, which was very useful and worked wonders. I asked this girl, is it okey to give compliments to a stranger on saturday evening. She said probably not, because, it would be strange. I said, that I wanted to ask her to give me a compliment. Then both of them (with her girl friend) they started to really think compliments for me. And each gave me a compliment (that I'm very brave and very eloquent). I laugh when I write this, it was so cute from them. Do you know some other tips like this one, which would challenge girls? Because they are very useful and I'd like to know more of them.