Currently hitting up the bar scene working on cold approach. Other night I take off for a moment to get some antacid from my truck and come back to find a moderately pretty girl by where I was sitting with her friend. We immediately hit it off, quite frankly she's flirting with me pretty heavy. Set up some chase and sexual frames and we're doing great. I move her to a booth where she's complimenting me that she never meets someone like this who gets her alone and how I must pickup women all the time (if only she knew lol), and she's clearly very excited snuggling up close searching for kisses (which I don't do until we can get privacy), and doesn't even want to talk anymore just wants to look in my eyes and feel me up. Well I'm thinking the time for talking is done let's get her home. I close...and close...and close. It gets ridiculous she's putting up walls I just can't get past. She wants clearly to get away but just won't do it. Keeps going to the bathroom with her friend and keeps coming back. Her friend is even chearing me on for Petes sake. Yet at the same time sorta blocking me. The chick I'm after loves the dominance yet her friend is always hovering saying things like "she wants you to let her go" when I'm pulling her close (which she clearly enjoyed).
So finally the night is winding down and I'm trying to close like crazy. This girl is insistent we will not go to my place or hers and wants me to go with her to hang at her friends. She says well get privacy there, it's the 21st century she's a strong independent woman yada yada...I say you need me to lead here you clearly want to spend time with me I don't want to go to your friends house. She keeps insisting and gets in her car saying I need to go with her back to her friends.
Finally I say you need me to lead not follow. Nice meeting you and I left. While I probably could have got laid had I gone with her it just felt like I'd have to work and work some more while her friends sitting there cockblocking us.
What did I do wrong? Should I have just gone with her regardless? I suppose I could have closed better there at the end so that's a learning experience. And I spent darn near an hour trying to close before that so maybe I should have forced the issue sooner? It just seemed so weird because she was all over me and for a beginner I was doing pretty darn well (or at least imo). Any thoughts beyond "next!"??
So finally the night is winding down and I'm trying to close like crazy. This girl is insistent we will not go to my place or hers and wants me to go with her to hang at her friends. She says well get privacy there, it's the 21st century she's a strong independent woman yada yada...I say you need me to lead here you clearly want to spend time with me I don't want to go to your friends house. She keeps insisting and gets in her car saying I need to go with her back to her friends.
Finally I say you need me to lead not follow. Nice meeting you and I left. While I probably could have got laid had I gone with her it just felt like I'd have to work and work some more while her friends sitting there cockblocking us.
What did I do wrong? Should I have just gone with her regardless? I suppose I could have closed better there at the end so that's a learning experience. And I spent darn near an hour trying to close before that so maybe I should have forced the issue sooner? It just seemed so weird because she was all over me and for a beginner I was doing pretty darn well (or at least imo). Any thoughts beyond "next!"??