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brandoan95

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What's up everybody!

Finally decided to start my journal after a few days of procrastination. I'm a newly turned 21 year old currently residing in So-Cal. Shit is pretty decent at the moment. My story starts a few years ago. I recently finished my first year in college doing track and field but i had a gargantuan hole in my life. I wasn't happy, i was constantly alone, and the only sexual pleasure i had was furiously jerking of to hot bitches on my laptop. To sum it up, shit wasn't great for me. Constant arguments with my mum, victim mentality, and just being in such a hostile environment did a number to my confidence and self-esteem. Then after having another big altercation with my mum i said FUCK IT and decided to move to California and stay with my grandparents. Shit was tough. Learning to adjust to such a new environment. Having to start over and meet new friends and get a new job was tough but i learned to adjust
Then on one magical afternoon I discovered girls chase on a random google search about dealing with depression. I had come across other seduction websites but this one really stuck with me and soon enough i was constantly reading about pickup and becoming obsessed about it. Although this site is great and helped me tremendously it wasn't just this alone that brought me to this point. I've gradually changed my minds habit of being the victim and thinking negatively and build better mindsets through therapy and meditation. I've met tons of great people since i moved to California and even got really close with some lady killers along the way. Every day i could feel the growth and friends and family noticed me transforming from a weak,scared boy into a confident, optimistic young man. Now here i am a year later with a level of confidence i never thought was possible. Tons of shit has happened in my life to where i feel i can deal with anything i have to deal with now and in the future.

My situation with girls isn't great. In fact it hasn't ever been. I only had sex with one girl and she was far below my standards. I couldn't even get it up with her, i bought some weird Viagra product from Walmart (lol terrible experience btw.)
Through this all i know i can achieve great thing for myself as long as i continue to improve myself and get out of my comfort zone.
I just started getting serious about seduction since i joined the site a couple months ago and i can see immense improvement with my situation with girls. Some main sticking points i have right now is being able to approach consistently and not have girls flake on my meet ups. These are just two of the several sticking points but i will conquer these obstacles. I'm obsessed with getting better and fucking some girls senseless once i get this down and i cant wait till I do.
My goals are to achieve absolute abundance with women. In my past was super needy, constantly chasing and bending to girls wills. Accomplishing this will be amazing for me!
Also i want to be able to shape up a seducer identity thats 100% congruent with who i am as a person. Growing up i always tried to follow other so discovering my true-self through pick-up will be very exciting for me
there are other minor goals but those are the main two i want to accomplish.
I hope you all enjoy reading about my journey and observing and watching as my seduction levels surge past 9000 ( lol corny i know, but who doesn't love DBZ?)
 

brandoan95

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Wanted to post this up from last friday

I was about to head up to my community college for my afternoon class. I had got this girl in my classes # the night before and drunkingly texted her an icebreaker text at like midnight haha.We'll call her Braids So texted her the next morning and she says she's at school. I was thinking to myself cool, maybe we could meet up really quick and i could build some comfort before setting up a date.
Here's how the text convo went:
Me: [11] Hey stranger it's B :)
Her [8:22} Hey B :) lol my bad i was so tired after classs
ME: It's cool i k.o'd too
Her: Im so tired im at school doing blah, blah ,blah
so anyways she texts me her schedule and i tell her I'm heading up to the school. I send her this text to which she never replied "Ok I'm just chilling till 12. We could meet up real quick if that's kool?
She never responed. Im guessing i came across as needy, especially since i just met her and # closed last night. I thought i could just set something up smoothly with her so i could get to know her a little better but shit didn't go as planned. Im not super worried about this one and i'll try to set something up in a couple days.
So after I arrive at school im in class. This class was kind of awkard becasue this girl who sits at my table is in auto-rejection, or at least i think she is. She constantly is trying to avoid eye contact with me and whenever i adress something to our table she'll talk to the poeple next to us but not directly to me. Ahh, fuck it tho, i learned from this mistake and im not really tripping about it. There's this other thick ass latina girl who i felt was giving me IOI in the past few classes. I had made it my goal last week to talk to her and see what she was about.
As class is finishing, i notice her leaving and i try to quickly put my supplies in my bag so i can catch up to her. She's like 50 feet away and im contemplating whether to run after and approach. I decide to just go for it and i hurry towards her ( first time ive ever done this publicly to apporach a girl.)
I had no clue what to say since she already knows me from class. I was thinking of going situational but i said fuck that and decided to open direct
Me: Thickgirl!
(she turns towards me, kind of looking mad or whatever)
Me: Hey, this is really random but... I see you in class all the time and i think your super cute.
Her: uhmm thanks...
I was kind off nervous, not going to lie so shit was kinda awkard. I eject shortly after haha. I hope shit isnt awkard in class because i already have one girl in auto-reject in that class as it is.

Anyways, after i left convo with Thickgirl and decide to walk around and open some other girls around campus since i hadn't reached my weekly approach goal yet.
As im walking toward a hallway i see this cute ass burnett wearing some shorts and a t-shirt. She had some pretty hazel eyes and i was definetly attracted to her. She walks buy and decide im going to approach her. I turn around start walking towards her and open
ME: Hey! Excuse me!
(she turns her body and looks toward me)
ME: I saw you walking and I thought you were super cute and i had to come say Hi. I'm B
Her (She smiles excitedly) Oh hi, I'm Hazel eyes
ME: Are you coming from class?
Her: Yeah from economics class. Are you in my class
ME: No or i would've probably already met you (lol dumb question)
We make small talk for a little then she says this:
Her: Wow this hasn't happened in a while
Me: what you mean?
Her: Getting hit on
Me: who said i'm hitting on you? I just gave you a compliment (with a mischievous look)
Her: well, yeah a compliment
ME:This doesn't happen that?
Her: Well no not with my boyfriend
ME: oh really? for how long
Her: for 5 years but he's in Europe right now
ME: (see my opportunity) Oh? Really? how's that working out?
Her: It's ok i guess...
ME: (pregnant pause) well be honest with me.. What are my chances?
Her: (pauses for a moment) To be honest.. There's a chance
So we just talk a little more and i set up a date for us to get drinks sometime next week.

I was fucking hype after this. That was the first time i got a # close form a direct approach and had it go so smoothly. To be honest, i really didn't have much momentum either, but i just opened the right girl at the right time.
Being stoked after getting Hazeleyes # i walk around some more but campus was fucking dead as an old man's dick so i go to the school store. I walks over to the cooler looking at drinks and there's this unattractive girl near me. I small talk her about drinks and then the bitch decides to follow me around, talking about how she's a vegetarian and all these other facts i don't give two fuck about. She was weird and didn't know when to stop talking. While i'm there i notice this bad ass blond girl who i talked to before. She works at there and i wanted to talk to her. I should've done it there but i just walked off away from the annoying girl.
So after awhile i just leave school and go to the local mall. However shit didn't go to well for me. The momentum from getting hazeleyes # died down on the drive there and by the time i got to the mall i was very low energy. I didn't approach anyone but had some short convo's with some older women. I end up driving back home.

Today was good for me. I'm forcing myself into action more and more and it feels really good. Also, instead of opening indirect i'm just going straight direct which is much more congruent to my approaching style and personality. Some thinks i need to work on is opening all sets instead of waiting around so much. My goal for the week was 10 approaches but i only got 7.I don't count warm up sets or simple compliments as approaches unless i try to stay in set for as long as possible, otherwise i would've hit my goal. I also just found a wingman on GC who lives close buy so we plan to day game sometime soon so that should be exciting.

Peace out Gents
 

brandoan95

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Sunday
Went out to the local mall after work. Wanted to improve and keep working on my opening and number closing skills. I wasn't in a hig energy mood at all since i had just woke up from my nap. The mall was relatively active for a sunday afternoon. was kind of disappointed in myself b/c i only did 2 approaches. I did a warm up on some girl standing, asking her what stores had good clothes for guys my age. She gave me a half assed answer, probably beacause my energy and vibe was off, who knows. Anyways, i noticed some group sets but i didn't open. I still havent opened a group set. Not gonna lie im intimidated by this but i know if i open them this will give me a huge confidence boost. That's something i'm going to keep working towards. Also, another thing was if i saw a really attractive girl i kept telling myself she's too good for me which is not good. I'm scared to approach a hot bitch, im pretty sure i still have some fear of rejection in myself that i need to work out. Hopefully with consistent approaching this will go away and i can open any girl i want without fear of rejection. If you guys have any tips feel free to post below.
I was walking around for a bit missing oppurtunites. I was starting to get in my head but then i took a deep breath and told meyslef "Hey, any girl would love to talk to you, go approach." That shit definetly helped b/c soon after i spot a skinny short brown haird girl in some cute one piece shirt walk past. I try to get in front but my legs are being lazy pieces of shits. I call out:
Hey! Excuse me!
Her: (turns towards me)
Me: Hey, i swa you walking and i thought you had the cutest outfit. I'm B
HEr: Thank you! Im One piece
ME: So what brings you to the mall today?
Her: I'm looking for an outfit for my b-day.
Me: oh, youur birthday's coming up, you copycat
We talk about how my birthday just past and i ask where she;s going to shop. she says shes going to Victoria secret and what not?
Then she unexpectedly tells me about how she's having a 3 day hotel party that she's renting out and that i should go and bring my friends. Lol, i had no clue how to react to this but i said sure why not. I tell her she should give me her # so I could the info and follow up with her later on in the week. She also tries to get me to add her on Ig & twitter but i declined. I have neither and im guessing she was trying to get me into the orbiter role. As i'm leaving i try to shake her hand but she tell's me she's a hugger and doesn't do hugs lol.
Idk what will come out of this one. She seems like she wants to orbit me and the conversation was super easy but i doubt she's super interested. We talked for a couple minutes and then bounced. So after i quit talking to One Piece I continue walking. Didnt see to many girls out solo but then some hired gun ( im assuming is walking towards me.) I open her as she's passing by saying:
ME: Hey, I saw you walking and thought your outfit was really cute (or something of the sorts. I had nothing to say at the moment. I just opened for the fuck of it)
Her: (non-chalant look) Thanks for the compliment ( Walks away)
I didn't care too much that she didn't respond super well, i just wanted to get another approach in. I walk some more and slowly lose my momentum. It gets to the point where i say F it and head to the exit. Hopefully i can do more than 2 sets, i know i need to do at least 6-8 but that shit is hard at the moment. I'm either in my head or to afraid to get out of my comfort zone. I need to man up and push myself to do different sets otherwise i wont get many good results.

Monday- Went back to the mall to look for some new basketball shoes. While there i see this short, pettite blond lady. She's older than me, probably in her late 20's early 30's and i just open her instinctively
ME: Hey how long have you had your hair like that. It's gorgues
Her ( weirded out look, lmao) Thanks... Walks away
I couldnt help but laugh at myself. That opener was pretty shitty even for the level im at. I shouldve went situational probably and ask her what type of shoes she was interested in but idk. I've been pushing myself to be more direct in all approach openers but iv'e noticed alot of time this backfires and the girl gets creeped out.
Later on in the day i got called to work. After work finishes i decide to hit up Hazel eyes from my last entry to try and see when she's free for drinks
Me: Hey Hazel eyes:), how's your week been? when are you free to go out for drinks?
She didn't respond to me. I'm not going to lie i was pissed of. I felt based off the interaction we had that she wouldn't flake and we could set up a date. I'm not really super upset if a girl turns me down during the approach but i get irritated when i get a flakey # or no reply. Funny thing is she replied to my icebreaker text on Friday so that kind of made this one sting a little bit more than the others. Fuck it tho, this will just make me stronger and help me see where i went wrong. Looking back at it, i could've done better in building a connection with her when we first met. The interaction could've lasted longer on my part and i felt i could've talked with her longer to get her more comfortable. Oh well, it's a #'s game right ;).
Dueces
 

brandoan95

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Whats up gents.

hope everyone's been trying to get there dick wet hunting for some pussy lately. I'e been trying to. Learned alot of stuff the past few days about seduction and just myself in general

Tuesday [9/20] Planned to approach at the mall again but got wrapped up in learning some new techniques and info. I found some KEY information that i know will advance my pussy attracting powers very, very soon. (Sidenote: almost fapped to porn and broke my 80 day streak. Then out of nowhere a giant amount of willpower snapped be back to my senses. that's the first time I've ever got my mind to consciously stop my actions from feeding my old addiction. Shit felt amazing! Still got a nut off but just to imagination.)

Wednesday [9/21} Got called in to work. Now there's alot of pussy walking around my job but i haven;t gotten the best results. I;ve tried asking out 2 girls and got declined. Then there's this one skinny young thang i hooked but failed to # close ( auto-rejection is a bitch btw). Also there's this cute ass light skin girl who is the security guard. We constantly flirt with her and i unconsciously give her sexual innuedo's like calling her Mrs. officer ( lil wayne reference) and shit of that nature. A few weeks ago she asked me if i had an Instagram and i told her i didn't (personal reasons) but i said " you can have my # instead." She politely decline by saying "she'll think about it all the while we still flirt and i know she like me. Don't know what to do with that one but i'm gonna just sit on it and see what happens.
So at work there's this Latina with a pretty juicy behind and the company recently hired her sister. All the dudes mentioned to me how they think she's pretty hot etc. So i decide i might try to strike up a conversation. I was going to go direct and compliment her outfit but froze up. Later, after work finished i noticed her leaving at the same time as me. Now she's pretty attractive, tall, slender, long black hair. Her body isnt like her sisters but they're super similar in terms of looks. So she's ahead of me and i decide to go indirect and ask about if she has a sister who works there. To make things short it was awkward, my vibe was off, and she walked away when i ejected. I even ended with "It was nice talking to you" in a kind off pussy voice and she jsut walks off to her car. After that i got down on myself for a little bit. Normally i get over it pretty fast but in this moment i was in my head.
AFter about 30 minutes i calm down, in large part to reading chase's "The beginning is the hardest part" and felt better about the situation.I know doubt can creep in your mind when your down but you have to stay resiliant and look at all the progress you've made so that really helped me out.
Anyways, i head to school for an evening class and i'm going to approach a few girls b4 class start. I run into a buddy of mine and while we're in the middle of conversation i see this short white/mexican girl wearing booty shorts (exactly my type ;) walking by. my brain immediately jump starts me and i tell my bro "i got to talk to this girl bro ill catch you later." I run and catch up to her and then open:
Me: Hey i saw you walking and i thought you were super cute
HEr: (she was caught off gaurd and immediately blushes) Thanks!
I proceed to ask her about school, major's etc but i'm super teasing and making fun of everything. I was really high energy ( my natural self) and shit just came easy to me. She joked around alot but i notced her body language was facing a total different angle from me so i'm guessing she wasn't available. I try to set up a date with her but she tells me she has "things going on in her love life rn." I say thats fine, bid her goodluck and head off.
later on i open a girl on my way to class
ME: Hey.. your.. hair is gorgeous (fishing for a compliment to say lol)
Her: thanks, (keeps walking)
This wasn't too smooth and i think she was in a rush. I didn't give a fuck tho and just did it anyways. Later on, after class, i head to target to get cashback and the cashier is pretty cute. I've been hesitant to hit on hired guns but i do it anyways:
ME: Hey this is really random but your super cute.
HEr:thanks
Me: yeah, you know when people say a person has a glow around them, that's low-key what you have rn.
Idk why i said this lol. I got the impression she thought i was fucking with her and wasn't serious. She wasn't super receptive or flirty so i got my items and left haha.
Overall today was good. I learned some things about body language and vocal tone. I need to work on my neediness as that affected my interaction with the hot chick at work. Also i need to have a constant masculine tone in my voice. IT can be deep the majority of the time, but it often spikes up and down

Thursday [9/22]
Today was a good fucking day. Flirted with the security guard at work alot lol. Even called her my baby in a joking manner to which she smiled and had a playful look on her. However, after this convo during work my mind was still on the interaction. I think me overthinking about a girl and how she went makes me become super needy. Once i noticed this i tired deep breathing to alleviate the thoughts from my mind. Oh, and while i'm at work the stranger girl from last week (we'll call her short stuff) randomly texts me. I was kind off surprised sine she didn't reply to my meet up last Friday. Here was the convo:
Her: Hi
ME:? (stolen from one of narrowj's FR)
Her: lol, hi
ME: lol wassup
Her: Nothing in this boring ass art class
I immediately dont reply. In my mind im like, bitch irdc about your art class and you didnt respond to me last week.
So i get to school after work a little later and I planned on doing at least 3 approaches but got pre-occupied with some work. However as i'm heading to class i see this blond haired girl with a kind-of-sort-of fat ass. My approach instincts take over and i run up towards her. I open from the side:
ME: Hey, I saw you walking and i thought you were super cute
HEr: thanks (excited look, still walking)
ME: Im B
HEr: i'm blah blah blah.
I ask where she's headed and she says she's late to class implying that she cant talk at the moment. I bid her farwell and head to class.
While in class we have a ten minute break and i walk outside to get some air. Out of my peripherals i see short stuff walk out ( we have the same class today) and she heads toward me. She opens me and is super touchy with me lol. She's grabbing my arm and shit and i'm super flirty with her. she's super ticklish so i fuck around with her some. This girl is rally goofy yet eccentric and i get along well with girls like this. The whole time we're feeling up on each other. At the end i tell her we're going to be late to go back to class but she wont get up. I then turn my back and throw her the peace sign and she gets up ( good girl ;)). We take a test. She finisheses before me and as im walking out would you bleieve who's outside waiting for me lol? She tells me she was waiting for me (she has to wait for her friend to get out of class or wahtever but i know it was an excuse. I tell her cool and suggest I walk her to her car. She insist she doesnt want to go yet and we should walk to my car. This goes on for a few minutes before i grab her body on the sides and basically move her to where we need to go. I'm kind of turned on to the whole sitatuion. We get to her car. I want to kiss her but i decide against it since i doubt i could fuck her in the car and didn't want her to think she had me all ready. I tell her we'll meet up sometime this week and she agrees.
Today i learned alot and saw alot of things in action.
1) i'm needy towards more attractive girls and i need to fix this. MY old mindsets and belifes toward women are still in my braind and will probably be there until i start getting lays and gf's consistently.
2) Not chasing works fucking wonders. I had no idea short stuff would text me and when i ignored her boring text she chased even harder in class lol. This seduction stuff is gold! I look forward to finding out more powers i'll gain over the next few months
3) I still have a shit ton of things i need to work on but approaching is starting to get fun. I don't feel anxious to approach at school anymore and i'm transforming my mindset from "she'll reject me to let's see what happens. I even had a moment where i saw a girl and walked by. Then my mind told me to "stop being a little bitch and go say hi." Forced me to approach haha.

Peace out boys
 

brandoan95

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This weekend was pretty eventful

[9/23] Friday- So today was pretty chill. I went to school and i actually made an approach before class. Some girl who was kind of cute was standing outside of her class looking at her phone. I hadn't done any approaches yet but i went you to her and said i thought she looked gorgeous in her outfit. She looks at me and says thanks. I introduce myself and she does the same. However i had no clue what to say after that. I muttered so are you headed to class and she pointed to the classroom right next to us. So basically shit wasn't smooth. I eject and end up just going to class. I had some mild anxiety and avoided approaching. However after class i decided to day game at the local mall. I opened a few people asking for directions to stores to get warmed up socially. Then i see my first approach. This tall, skinny, light-skinned girl with light brown curly hair is walking opposite me as i look up from my phone. I immediately stop and try to catch up with her. I should've just ran up to her and said high but i was dicking around and i feel she saw me following her. She crosses to the other side of the mall hallway and i contemplate whether i should go up to her and talk. I decide agianst it and keep walking. Then i lock eyes with a girl a few moments later. I was going to say something but i slightly hesitated and gave me up smh. Then the worst part of the day came. This sexy cute Latina girl sees me walking aoaund the corner from a stand. Me and her look eyes for at least 3 seconds, shes staring dead at me. However, i was in my head pretty badly at this point and i completely bitched out from talking to her. I should've just followed my instincts and said "hey, how's it going?"
Basically today i regressed a bit. I didn't approach anyone at the mall and i reverted back to my old ways of walking around the mall ignoring approach invitations and being stuck in my head. I noticed a difference today might of been from me fapping a couple days earlier. I've been super irritated and more nervous than normal. Little shit is pissing me off and i felt really down about my results. Also i haven't mediated in like a week so i'm assuming thats another thing i need to work on.
So later on after i mediate and get in a better mindset i hit up a couple of my buddies to see if the wanted to go out. I call my friend and he hits me with "i got to do homework bro". Lol, what kind of bullshit response was that? Could just tell me you don't want to go out. So i say fuck it and decide to go out alone. This is my 2nd time doing night game solo and i have no clue what good bar scenes to go to. I go to Buffalo Wild Wings and the place is packed. On top of that it was really a group setting so i definitely would be able to approach anyone here. I search my phone and see a dive bar so i say why not and give it a visit. I chat up with the bouncer and he's chill as fuck. We talk for a bit and i ask him how's the scene her and he says's ill like It. I go to the bar order a few drinks then open some girl buying a drink. Shes not super attractive but i was trying to get some momentum going, but it was just awkward rapport seeking questions. I chill for a bit then end up in a 30 minute convo with some tipsy dude. He's chill and buys me 2 shots. I fuck with that haha. however the bar was just filled with an older crowd and everyone was grouped up. I was the outsider that felt out of place. On top of that i was the only black guy. Not using this as an excuse tho, i probably should've opened some group sets but i'm nervous about it. I end up leaving and head back home where i k.o for the night.

Saturday- didn't approach but realized i'm a totally different dude from a year ago. I went to work out with my basketball coach and couple of guys. Honestly i didnt have the best skills, in fact im quite rusty from not having as much time to train or practice. However my confidence is sky high. Shit on the court comes easy for me and i shitted on my competition. me and my teammate won 4 straight games and i could tell the other guys looked defeated. In a sense i saw myself from the past. In my head, upset that i didn't play well, with a down look but just in those guys eyes. I realize how big of a rol your mental mindset plays in anything you do and that you must remain confident in yourself if you want to have any kind of success.

[9/25]Sunday- Today was fucking great! A guy i met through GC met up with me to do some day game. He lives like an hour away from me but took the drive to meet up. I meet with him and i was in shock. When he sees a girl he likes, he just goes straight for it, no fucks given at all lol. Seeing him do this with ease made me step my game up. I open a girl with a compliment. She says thanks but keeps walking. We walk around a little then he opens a lesbian group set haha. They talk to him but try to eject and get away. He's super direct and he still needs to learn when to back off and not come off too strong. However, i admire how much courage he has and how he's able to just open without a second thought. I cant wait till i get to that level of confidence. So i open two more sets while at the mall. I got a decent response with my second set but she kept walking. I don't really remember what happened with my 3rd approach. My wing opened 4 girls total at that mall and got some decent responses. He's not from the U.S and he has a really strong accent so it's more difficult for him to stay in set due to communication not being on the same page.
We decide to leave this mall and go to an outdoor mall. I like this mall better since it's more open and the pussy here is more high quality than the other one since It's kind of an upscale mall. As we arrive we walk around a bit, then my wing opens a two set. He gets too close to the girls personal space and she immediately steps away lol. I bust out laughing and then tell him to try and come in a little easier. Then he opens a girl with her mom! lol he's a fucking boss. She's more receptive and says thank you and he even tells the mom "how lucky she is to have a daughter as pretty as her."
After he finishes talking to her he comes to me and says we should open a group togther. Me, still having group approach anxiety, avoid the sitatuion and approach a girl by herself. I decided to use one of Drex's opener about compliments
Me: hey!
Her: yeah.
Me: i know this is random but.. are you good at taking compliments from strangers?
Her( blushes a bit) yeah sure!
ME: great i am to, so why don't you go first and then ill tell you mine after
once i say this she doenst know how to respond lol. She ends up telling me she's "headed to work" and cant talk. I persist a bit but let her go. I see another pretty Latina girl across the street. I walk over and yell out "hey you" pretty loudly. The bitch ignores me completely haha. I walk back to where my wing was. I never got full on rejected like that and tbh that shit is nothing. I didn't feel embarrassed or upset at all. I just walked away and didn't let it phase me. My wing & I decide to go back to the first mall since it's starting to get late at the outdoor mall. We head back and i open this short, black girl with glasses. I use drex's opener again
ME: hey,this is random but (drex's opener)
Her: (she laughs and smiles) I like your shoes!
ME: oh i like how your hair looks.
Me: so where are you headed to?
Her: blah blah blah
ME: well you want to talk a bit
Her: talk about what. actually i have to go to work rn so i cant talk
I eject and then i realize to myself "she has to work?" Mind you it's 7:45 and the mall closes at 8. Guess ill save that one to my memory banks for flake responses. Then the craziest shit happens! My wing decides we go to the food court to look for more prospects. He immediately sees a blond girl and sits with her and opens. I walk around and see him still in conversation. Then after awhile the girl's mom comes by. He eventually walks over to me and says it didn't go so well. Then I see a gorgeous Asian girl near my age and i try opening her. She sees me and completely ignores me. We keep walking then i see this sexy Latina in some white booty shorts and a black tank top. I call out to her but she ignores it. I run up to her a side and open using drex's opener. This time when i say "are you open to getting compliments from strangers" she says no. we talk abit then she tells me she heard someone calling out for her but didn't know who. She wasn't very receptive and ended up leaving.
My wing and I head back the other direction and then realize fucking mall security is following us. They stop and say they got a report about an Asian guy approaching a girl and making her feel uncomfortable(girl he approached sitting down.) I play it off and tell him my friend is from Vietnam and he's visiting and just went up to her to say hi. They then leave and we both start cracking up lol. I tell him i think she wasn't feeling you. When i had walked by earlier i saw her just shaking her head unresponsively when he asked her questions so i assumed she wasn't into him. I tell him to look out for signs when a girl is interested vs when she wants to be left alone. I had read comments of how some guys approaching were getting reported for harassment but i never thought it was that serious. He tells me that that was probably the worst approach he's ever had and we bust out laughing again. We walk around a little more then decide to go home. Gonna meet up closer to his place next Saturday and do some street game ;)

After chilling with my boy i see holes in both of our games. MY wing is from Vietnam so he doesn't speak good English. This is hurting his game alot since many girls cant understand him. Also he heeds to read girls signals and learn when they are interested vs uninterested in him better. He's actually super courageous and give no fucks so he has that part down,he just needs to tone it down a bit. I also informed him on some haircuts he should get since i got my fundamentals at a decent level at the moment.
For my evaluation i realized i can open up single approaches but shy away from group sets. It's more so just an awkwardness and not knowing what to say since i don't have many reference points. I'm going to prioritize opening more group sets this week and hopefully get some good results. Also i need to find a better hooking point with girls as they receive my openers and will stay but leave shortly after that. Once i get this down ill be able to set up more dates and get more # closes. However i'm happy as fuck that i'm getting closer to getting to the pussy.
See you boys later
 

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{Sidenote} did 8 approahces today with my wing present so i matched last weeks total in one day. Approaching is becoming more natural to me and is even starting to get fun. Rejections don't mean shit to me anymore and I don't feel insecure or anxious much at all. I do realize having a wing helped me so much because i had social momentum. Normally i either walk around to much thinking about it and my social momentum fizzles out but today it was different.

Goals for the week: Go on date with short stuff; try escalation. She's stoke about me. Hit me up saying she misses my mean ass ;) haha so this should be fun
Approach 20 girls( since i did 8 today 12 more for the week should be a peace of cake
Meditate daily- BIg shit right here. Need to stay confident and in the right mindset.
 

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[9/21] Monday- shit was pretty uneventful. However, learned a key insight about myself. I'm super fucking stubborn, but not when it comes to learning new things such as sports or seduction. I'm just really stubborn when someone tells me to do something i don't really want to do but have to. E.G: got called into work and when i got there i wasn't on the list (annoying as fuck.) The security guard i talked about in earlier post was telling me how the managers say i can't move my chair to her side and talk to her( they have alot of dumbass rules.) I found that super annoying so i completely ignore her requests to move for like 5 minutes and talk to other people around her. She keeps insisting I need to move so I eventually do, but that shit pissed me off abit. I think that combined with me waking up to go to work for no reason put me in this state. Idk why but when certain people tell me to do something i'm not super excited i tend to get rude and just ignore them or act like I don't hear him or her. It doesn't matter if its a co-worker, manager,etc but if i don't really have a high level of respect towards them i will do this. I think i'm trying to hard to get one up on someone and not comply with there demands and alot of times that give the wrong vibe to others, especially girls.If anyone has some advice on losing gracefully please let me know.

Anyways getting back to girls after chilling at home for a bit i worked out then went to school. Was just dicking around a bit since campus is dead in the evenings. There were some prospects but i ignored them, i was tired as fuck and was trying to get a nap in b4 class. I end up just laying on some bench and then i decide to meditate right before class starts. Immediately when i'm done and i open my eyes i have a short glance at some cute burnett walking by. I try to collect myself and go after her but she's like 50 ft ahead of me. I say fuck it and do a retarted jog towards her haha. I end up like 10 ft behind her and i decide to call out to her
ME:hey! you with the purse!
No response... I say fuck it. I just jogged all the way here and i assumed she thought i was calling out to someone else so i change direction. I think some guy saw me and he said "what jsut happened" but i ignore him and keep walking. I'm roaming this part of campus for a bit but don't see many girls as i get to class. I say fuck it and make a turn up a walkway and i notice this blond girl. She was decent and i noticed her while jogging towards the other girl so i use drex's opener on her
ME: Hey, I know this is random.. but are you good at taking compliments from strangers?
Her: uh, yeah (smiling)
Me: (pauses) great, so am i. Why dont you say your compliment first and then i'll go after you
(she looks at me with a wtf look lol) uhm.. I like your watch
Recently bought a nice watch with a brown strap and I've gotten some compliments for it. Read up on some of darius's articles on fashion and that advice has been working wonders for me.
ME: I thought your hair was gorgeous
Her: thanks
Me: you kind of have this rocker look to you. IS that true?
Her: (laughing) no lol not even
I talk to her for a bit about it and we talk about her music interest. I use compliance and tell her to tell her favorite artists to me. She does so and hands me her phone. A few moments later i say where her class is and that i could walk her to class. I didn't do to much deep diving, just mostly about music and school, etc. We get to her class and talk abit more and then i try setting up a date.
ME: Hey you seem like a cool ass girl.. Why don't we get food together sometime
Her: I would but I don't think my boyfriend would like that
Me: who says im looking for a boyfriend?
Lmao, yeah i was still drowsy from that nap and meditating and stumbled over my words a bit with her. I immediately correct myself and i persist with her. She agrees that we could get food b4 class sometimes and she tells me her schedule. ( I know some guys don't go for girls with bf's but personally I don't give two fucks. If she wants my dick then i'm more then fine shagging her, bf or not.) She tells me that he's the super jealous type and i assure we'll have fun. I go for a handshake close but change my mind midway and try hugging her. It's a little awkward and she says a comment about it but i ignore her. I head to class. I text her a few hours later, No response.
{Sidenote}-I noticed drex's opener works waayyy better than my standard compliment opener. When i do the standard opener many girls aren't impressed or think im being sweet and continue walking. However, with this opener i ask a question so it builds intrigue. Then setting the frame of getting them to compliment you screens out girls super fast and builds compliance immediately. That shit is gold.

[9/23] Tuesday
Headed back to my grandparents house. Spent the night in L.A. with some family out of town so that was nice. Was at my Grandma on my dad's side house and when i'm there i always feel a deep emotional connection while being there. Just reminiscing on old pics of my dad helps me appreciate the life i have and not take my opportunities for granted. So i'm back at my grandparents house and go for food. Pull up at 5 guys and there's this cute cashier. Now i normally do this super long pause and i just say "uhmmmmmmmm" for like 5 seconds. Normally the girl laughs and i say i'm just playing and start laughing with her. This almost always gets them out of auto-pilot when i try it. I stare into her eyes and pause for a couple seconds, then say " yo, your eyes are gorgeous." She eats it up and says thanks. Then i tell her to pick the toppings on my burger for me. I've done this more recently as a way to flirt with cashiers. It putts me in a fun and energetic state and i just like making there days sometimes. (I read up on an old post of Richard's about constructing your sexual vibe and he say's you should emulate someone who has one. I decide to go with Robert Downey Jr since he's a fucking boss and he has a really sarcastic playful vibe to himself. This is really congruent to how i can be alot of times so i'm going to study him intensively).
As i get my food and am leaving i see her walking to her car in the same direction as me. I ask her if she's leaving already and she says yea. I was thinking about trying to get her # but didn't. Need to be more aggressive in these situations. Even if this wasn't her giving me an IOI i should've assumed so and tried anyways.

Later on in the day i decide to head to a local mall (different from the one in my last post. Don't want any sexual harassment cases haha.) Thinking there would be a decent crowd the mall is fucking DEAD. I warmed up asking people for direction and even making up some bullshit presidential polling for one of my classes to stay socially active. I notice a cute Burnett walking in the opposite direction with her headphones in but i didn't turn to approach her.Then i see a black girl, who didn't seem that great but thought of approaching her. However she was walking fast as shit and i was being self conscious about others watching me. Shit is weird b/c on some days im really excited and give no fucks and then on other days I'm still in my head abit. I Wasn't nervous or down but i noticed my mind was giving me excuse to not approach. Just need to improve on it and push through the bullshit.
Later on that night i go to the gym and Blondie text me saying she's sorry she didn't respond yesterday. I text back two hours later and say it's no big deal, no response again lol. Idk what's up with her but Idgaf tbh.

Tomorrow the goal is to approach at least 3 girls at school since yesterday and today i only approached 2 in total.
 

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[9/28]
Approached 2 girls at school, 1 shy of my daily goal. The first one I had no social momentum but I saw her. Contemplated whether I should open and kept talking. Then I said wtf I need to go after that so I turn and call out to her. She turns my way with a kind of bitchy look on her face. I take my time to walk towards her then open
me: hey I know this is random but i saw you and thought ugorgeous
LMAO yeah I fucked up my words again. I immediately correct myself and say her outfit was gorgeous, but she starts walking away once she realizes I'm trying to hit on her. Idk if this would've went anywhere but it wouldn't have hurt to be more smooth. I think I slurred my words because I didn't know which opener to use. Was thinking of trying "are you single?" but switched up at the last second.
Anyways after her I walk around a bit more and ask for doirections. I made a quick talk with some dude listening to rap and he tells me he's a rapper and what not. We dap up then I continue looking for viable pussy. I had some prospects but my mind kept making up excuses. I tell myself "the next girl u see you better say high." I turn the corner and bingo I see one. She's a latina with thick hips and dark brown hair, average height. I'm like yea she's just my type. I open
me:hey, I saw you walking and I thought your outfit was gorgeous
Her: oh really? I didn't really try.
Me: yeah the shoes and pants match really nicely
I introduce myself and we talk for a bit. I see her body is faced towards me but she seems super nervous. She wouldn't hold contact with me when I would tease or flirt so idk.
me:where r u headed?
Her:home, I parked over there
I turn my body to indicate I would walk with her but she seemed off. Kind of like I was being to strong so early in the interaction. Once I notice this I say nvm I'm gonna head to class and wish her farewell. She tells me it was nice meeting me as I head away.
I think where I messed up here was that I didn't build enough comfort b4 trying to walk to her car. She wasn't 100% sold on me but I think had I stayed in there and dealt with the awkwardness a little better then she would've been more open to the move.
After this I see a couple of girls but my mind starts coming up again. Once I notice I'm passing opportunities I challenge myself to approach, however there isn't any girls in the area. I stop trying and go to class
I actually saw Blondie from my last post. She's sitting talking to some dudes I'm assuming are the friends she told me about. I tried hitting her up earlier asking if she was at campus but no reply. She takes years to reply back so I'm leaving her alone unless she hits me up , then I'll know whether she wants something or not.

Overview: approaching at campus isn't shit now since girls are by themselves.
Drex's opener > direct compliment opener.
Might try are you single tomorrow, who knows.
Goals for 2mrrw: approach 6 girls. Get 2 # closes
There's going to be some transfer fair at my school tomorrow morning so the pussy will be for the plucking haha.
Key takeaways:
figuring out which openers work for me.
Reading body language ( reading a book called THE Definitivr book of Body language. It has some really insightful stuff in there.)
Also if a girl isn't interested she'll keep walking or reject me outright. However if a girls 50-50 she'll linger around and if I eject she'll even try to continue the conversation. Still run the risk of getting a flakey # but it's good I have this reference point now
That's all for now folks,
Biz
 

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[9/29] Thursday- Wrote a Fr/Lr-- about that day. Feel free to read for yourself
Went to school and explored my future options for transfer schools in the area. I'm leaning towards a bigger and party campus but it has to be congruent to my career and degree goals. Super exicted about it. Also did some daygame in between this and class
Insights-
1)Gaining more social momentum naturally(striking conversations easily with strangers)
2) Found my style of game (a playful, arrogant asshole with some warmth underneath his hard shell. Talkative while sprinkling in some sexual vibe. OF course i'm nowhere near the ideal self of this person but i/m learning what works for me and what i'm comfortable with)
3) Better sexual vibe- girls are reading my intentions better and i'm more comfortable being open about it.

Now since i met up with shortstuff unexpectedly i got some key references about isolating and leading my dates. This is actually pretty easy for me. I can tell when sexual tension is in the air through extensive reading of articles in the past. My personality gets girls to be really comfortable in my presences while simultaneously staying on edge do to my teasing. This can backfire of course with girls who aren't as receptive or more aloof but I don't mind. However my biggest problem right now is conveying this person during the 1st interaction. Girls will open but wont hook or girls will hook but wont follow up with me for a date or anything of the sorts. Need to get this figured out next as well as continuing to display a more sexual vibe.

[9/30] Friday Was alright, didn't approach before class. Tried doing day game at the mall after class. My energy wasn't there. I always seem to get tired during this time of day for some reason and i wasn't bubbling with energy and confidence like normal. I did two compliment openers. I spotted an Asian women walking opposite so i move to her side and try opening with a compliment. She just looks at me with a face like "why are you fucking hitting on me?" Lol, she was actually much older than i assume late 30's or 40's haha. I move from her and walk past a few interactions. I have this problem of having a mindset of spam approaching and if i don't approach or I miss one I beat myself up mentally. However, i read Chase's "How to approach lots of girls (without spam approaching) and realized that i should keep myself fresh and really target in on my approaches. In the past having this mental mindset during daygame really fucks me up and I lose my momentum. Ill be more conscious about setting time intervals between approaching.
Later on met up with shortstuff for a food date. Was great, had a comfortable vibe, loved her company. Things went great up until I failed to get anything in return for my efforts sexually and I ended up dropping her off back home. I was pissed off, annoyed, and upset at myself about what happened. However, I've moved on and know what I need to do to get past this point with a girl. Stay 100% clean from porn and eliminate my sexual performance doubts. Once this happens bitches will be screaming my name while i pound there vagina to oblivion.

[10/1] Saturday- Went to Knott's scary farm with my little cousin. He's 16 and we were supposed to go with family members but they didn't reply. Shit was still fun. Boat loads of pussy walking around, alot still in high school though. Watching people go crazy over guys and girls in costumes is fucking hilarious haha. While i'm there i actually gave my cousin some pointers with girls, ironic huh? A year ago I wouldn't know shit about this but now I want to help others with it anyway i can. Of course i'm nowhere near a pro or veteran so i toned it down a bit with him. I opened people in the long ass lines cuz shit is just boring standing in line for 45 minutes quiet. One two set I open and they're not open to my attempts. Oh well fuck em. Walk around and we decide to go to this one maze. I ask a older gentleman if this is the line for the ride. He says "yeah line starts back there..." I didn't like how he addressed me, he came off kind off rude and tried tooling me so I look at him then i tell my cousin lets go in. There were other people walking past them so went along with them. While I'm there i hear him say "oh look there's a bunch of line cutters. The brothers!" Haha, that was comedy to me. While in line I chat up the group in front of us, a bunch of high school freshman. They're cool, but I felt in-congruent. I even lied saying i was a high school senior but my eyes averted there gaze momentarily. It's funny because when you lie your body unconscionably feels the lie and lets out little symbols. While still in line I hear the guy yell out "oh yeah i told security about them and they should just turn back." (tool, quit being salty b/c we're literally 3 spots in front of you, just trying to scare us.) We go through without anyone saying shit to us and It felt good not bending to that guy's frame.

We get on a few rides and mazes. While on one ride we're facing two girls in highschool. We have quick conversation and I tease them about being scared of the ride. Eventually after it's done they say there going on another ride and my little cousin says we should go together. They seem down but then when they meet up with their group shit switches up quick. One of them says "oh, we're going to the bathroom really quick" and I know it's time to eject. I say "it's cool, nice meeting you" and tell my cousin what she really meant. He says "nah bro they probably really needed to use the bathroom ( yeah, right..) . later on we go to some maze and we had to wait for fucking ever. While in line, since the shit zigzags back and forth i notice some sexy ass laitna (late 20's im guessing). I notice she keeps looking at me and our eyes would meet then she would look away. This happens like 3 or more times then i realize she's not feeling her bf or the dude she's with. She would walk separately while the couple she was with would be all booed up. Sorry baby, i would approach you if i could lol(probably will in the future). So much fucking insight from these articles man. You learn so much that when you go about your daily life you pick up on the shit chase and all the others preach to us about. Eventually we leave around 2 and I crash at his dad's spot.

For this week i did over 20 approaches so i met my goal for the first time. Seeing my confidnece and growth skyrocketing and I'm learning so much shit so fast. Cant wait till December hits

[10/22] No approaching today, was tired and drained from all the shit going on this weekend. I'm an ambrovert but I lean towards introversion at times so being out so much the night before and socializing so much I needed a break especially. Then later on that day Shortstuff texts me
Her: BIz :(
Me: What's up sweetie?
Her: Nothing, I miss you
She sent me this twice already(once about a week ago, and she told me she really likes me.) I don't want to lead this girl on so i text her saying i need to be honest but let's talk on the phone. She calls and we talk about the situation from Friday. She says she felt comfortable with me from when I picked her up to when I dropped her off. However, clearly after my failed sexual escalation her body language was off. Then I figured it out! (I never screened this girl seeing what her intentions with me were. She was super turned on with me but she didn't want to seem like a slut b/c she thought she could slot me as a Bf. Even though i tried to consciously not hold her hand and do other bf things of the sort (not paying for her food,, etc.) she still ultimately wanted me as a BF, but couldn't stop herself from letting me give her sexual pleasure. So whenever i tried to get her to suck me dick or try fucking her she stopped my advances. Then after the failed escalation she saw how my mood changed and she closed herself off from me to save herself.She thought i wouldn't want to talk to her anymore since she didn't give me sex, although i probably could've gotten it that night due to her past experiences with guys just using her for sex and nothing else. I also noticed on the way back home she was super nervous and antsy so this is most definitely the case.) We talk abit and I tell her i don't want a GF right now and she says she respects that. I doubt that tho, i know she still like me or whatever. Idk if i'll be able to get sex from her now but IDC. Just more experience for me and will motivate me to get at more ladies.

Insights- Screen girls and show them your not bf material, not just with your actions but also with your words. I've done this with some other girl on my last date and ended up having to cut that girl off b/c she was super needy.

That's all folks- Biz
 

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This week was defintely a joy ride let's just say. My confidence was all over the place this week.

Monday[10/3] Didn't approach shit, in my head

Tuesday[10/4] Went to the local mall again, this is my spot. Always a steady wave of new girls every time I go here. Walked around and saw some girls but my mind had given me tons of excuses. I was thinking shit like "you cant approach her she's in a group", "you cant approach her, she's too old, ugly, blah blah blah." Fuck i was in my head heavy lol. Then i told myself to stop it. I thought "I've done this shit plenty of times the past 2 months and have seen a lot of progress. What's the worst that could happen." After my positive thoughts I see a tall girl with brown curly hair and blond highlights. She just exited Abrecombie and Fitch and she's walking in my vacinity. I stop her and open her
Me: Hey are you good at taking compliments from strangers?
(she caught me off guard)
Her: yeah i just moved from Philly and the guys there would hit on me everyday
Normally most girls just say "yeah", or "yeah why" but she hit me with some other shit lol. I talk to her abit and forget to set the frame and get her to compliment me first. I compliment her on her hair, she smiles then goes on her way.
I felt alright after getting out of my head abit, but i didn't really do much else.

Later on i notice this sexy ass Burnett. Her body is slender but she has some ass, curly hair with hazel eyes. She's bad as fuck and she was working at some candy treat stall they have in the center of the mall hallway. She opens me asking if i want to buy something. I tease her abit and say no i'm not buying anything but i ask her if i can get a sample of each (there's like 30 different options.) She reads through my sarcasm and insist i try one but i deflect it. I notice she has a moderate accent and I ask where she's from. She deflects me again and insist I try something. I tell her to show me her favorite choice. She says " don't think it's nasty" and gives me some pecan type of treat. I then ask her again where she's from. She tells me to guess (reverse game, this girl is good.) I guess Bosnia, she looks away uninterested. I then say if i guess right she should give me another sample to which she obliges. I say she should give me a hint and she says "vodka." Immediately i say the answer get the sample. She asks if i'm going to buy and I decline again. I say something along the lines of "you should be happy you found somebody who makes your day more interesting." She then implies through convo that the talk is over and wishes me a good day. I forgot exactly what she says but she ejects.

I walk around a bit more and some girl is trying super hard to sell me some cologne. I tease and flirt with her abit and she tells me one is selling for $65 or some bullshit prize. I don't go for it and say i don't have a budget. She immediately tries to please me, saying how "i dress well so i have money" lol what bitch? Eventually her persistence pays off when i get it for $20. I honestly didn't need it but said why not after getting it for that price feeling like i had a victory of frames with the salesgirl. After I leave i search the cologne online and find out it sells for $10. Fuck, haha my victory was short lived. I need to work on my frame control. These two interactions shows i still don't posses that of a dominant man who gets what he wants and knows when to walk away. It will come with time and more practice though so i didn't beat myself up about it. I leave the mall shortly after

Wednesday & Thursday {10/5- 10-6} In my mind to much to approach. Was really down about it. I was just recalling about how I was so close to smashing short stuff but couldn't seal the deal. I think that's the main reason why my confidence was so shot. I even wrote a post about it but got no advice. I'm just assuming I seemed extra needy about receiving help and I eventually saw i was overreacting to the whole situation.

What's up fellas,
Had been on my first real cold streak. My confidence had been all over the place all week until I finally got myself out and about approaching. This is a FR about me day gaming at school and the mall on friday

Friday {10/7}- woke up, did my normal routine, then headed to school with the mind of approaching. My mind was still inhibiting my process with these bullshit excuses. This is when i wrote a post of how my confidence was gone. Immediately as i'm doing so I get a newsletter email from chase that addresses this situation specifically. I read it and it basically states how most men have two types of approach anxiety, 1)being a complete beginner with no experience whatsoever and 2) Being lazy or having your mind give you excuses. I realize what I've been doing to myself and I apply his method to get over this by being social. I spot this girl who's a maintenance cleaner for the school.She's not really that attractive to me. Her body was decent but her face was whatever. I spot her and call her over and command her to come over using my non verbals. She walks towards me. I forgot what i opened with, probably situational since i saw her shortly before this.
The beginning of the convo was pretty awkward, not going to lie. I was just asking her question, trying to warm her up with some light teasing and jokes. Eventually she warms up and I find out she live right down the street from me. I set up a dinner date and get her #. I go to class and sent her an icebreaker about 3 hours later to which she responded warmly. Not 100% sold on this girl but i'll go ahead with it anyways.

After class finishes i get my haircut and then head back to the same local mall from Thursday. I had the goal of approaching 8 girls today and I started off slowly. I mostly asked for directions and greeted a few people. I struck a convo up with a guy who sells shoe cleaner and asks him about hiring opportunities. Once my momentum builds up and I've walked around for a bit I spot a good approach. This Asian girl with straight, long black hair is near me. I call over to her loudly and she greets my eyes. Then she just looks away and continues walking not trying to hear my opener lol. I've yet to open an Asian girl at the mall, they just look at me and keep walking. I shrug it off and continue walking happy that i did my first approach. I walk abit and go back to the shoe cleaner stand. I stand for a sec and then notice this gorgeous dark-skinned black girl. She has on tight fitting pants showing of her gargantuan rump and a crop top hugging her breast. I stop her and compliment her saying "I thought you were super cute." she just looks at me with an indifferent face. She says "thanks" then keeps walking. I turn around and notice the shoe cleaner guy saw the approach. However i want self conscious about it at all, not really giving a fuck. I've grown more confident in myself and don't care if someone sees me get rejected anymore which is great!

I walk in the other direction of the mall {It's a huge square, one story mall} and lurk around abit. I notice this sexy light-skinned black girl with brown hair and blond highlights. She's wearing a cute outfit consisting of black leggings and a white top. I open
Me: hey, I saw you walking and I thought your outfit was gorgeous.
Her: thanks!( she smiles)
Me: i'm biz
Her: i'm Blondie
ME: So what brings you to the mall today Blondie
She tells me she's just shopping around and I say that's nice. Then i stupidly eject saying "it was nice talking to her". She turns and says " It was nice talking to her" to which i respond by agreeing with her. Idk why i ejected, from her signal i'm sure she was interested but i was still not in the right state and was fumbling with my words abit. However she was a girl who fits my type and if i got her # she would've been the hottest girl in which i've done so basically my entire life.
However at the time i didn't think much of it and continued walking in the other direction. About 5 minutes later I see a curly haired Burnett( I've been keying in on them lately) and open
ME: hey, i know this is random but, are you good at taking compliments....
Her: (Smiling) yeah
ME: great so am I, why don't you tell me yours 1st and i'll go after
Her: oh, I cant i have to go to work soon
From my past experiences i know this is a common flake. I insist i would walk with her until she got to the store but she says she's in a rush or whatever. I bid her farewell and continue walking.

I then notice a hot Latina milf in leggings. I call her out and she has a real bitchy expression on her face. I say I thought she was gorgeous and she immediately does a 360, smiling at me. however, she continues walking to go wherever she had to go. After this I see another light skinned girl who had been trailing behind two other girls. I had saw her earlier but decided against approaching(in my head). This time however i say i'm not letting this one get away and I call out to her. She can clearly hear me yet she continues walking. Ann... I move on from this one and continue. Eventually I see curly haired blond from earlier walking around, as i predicted. I call it a day and exit the mall.

Today was a good fucking day, not result wise but with my progress. I did one approach at school and six at the mall. The most I've ever done in one day by myself. I also stopped my stupid mind talk and pushed through the excuses i had been giving myself. Even when i was forcibly about to leave after my 3rd approach i stopped myself until i got closer to my goal. I also got a # and I've built a steady reference to how my approaches go:

1) The girl sees me acknowledge her but continues walking along ( The Asian girl & light skin blonde)
2) The girl stops and hears my opener with an indifferent look on her face and then keeps walking (the sexy black girl)
3) The girl stops hears my opener and talks to me for abit, but she's not sold on me and ejects ( curly haired Burnett)
4)The girl hears my opener and responds warmly however, I'll eject from convo and she'll acknowledge my confidence by saying it was nice talking to me( i'm assuming this is a sign that i could've kept the interaction moving and pushed for the #. (sexy, light skinned blond)
5) Same as #4 but I # close or move them somewhere else. (girl from school)

Going to do day game again Sunday and push for at least 8 approaches.
That's it for this post, keep on pimping fellas ;)
-Biz
 

brandoan95

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What'sup everybody. Been busy as shit this past week so haven't had much time to post.
Some key events-
Got a job selling shoe cleaner at the mall (learned so much in just a week)
Went on a date with janitor girl from last week,
Learned some crazy news about my grandpa but will help me in the future.

Sunday- 10/9'
Went through with my day game. I had a goal set for at least 8 approaches on the day. My mood was confident but i was low energy from working in the hot sun earlier( i hold signs on the weekends.) Walked around a bit then I saw the young buck from the shoe stand from my last entry. I chatted him up a bit and walked around until I sized up my first approach. I saw this Asian girl with black hair wearing jeans and a white button up. I catch up to her tap her on the shoulder then say my opener
ME:Hey this is random but are you...
Her: sorry i'm in a really big rush rn..
As she tells me this i'm kind of annoyed but It's no big deal. She walks off and I continue on. I hit a corner and I see some older Latina lady from behind wearing a black shirt and some blue jeans. Her figure didn't look all impressive but I say fuck it and move forward regardless. I turn and tell her she "had the most gorgeous outfit I've seen all day." She looks at me and has a "what the fuck look." Plus I don't think she understands English and she assumed I was trying to sell her something. " she says no.. No " while shaking her head and leaves. I start laughing like crazy. Some guy at a sales stand saw me and says "no look today my man" and i respond qualifying myself. Idk why I do this but It's a learned response from my days as a dork so I need to work on that.
I keep walking the mall and my eyes catch this short blond mixed girl with the most sexiest curls. She's petite and is walking with an older gentleman. I walk by and think to myself "she's too cute to let bypass" and i approach. I turn and try to open her but her dad looks at me and says "yes?
Me: oh hey man, Is this your daughter?
Him: yeah, why
Me: oh, well I just wanted to let her know that shes gorgeous
(she smiles and blushes and looks away nervously)
Him: oh.... OK. (he grabs her protectively and they keep walking
I know for a fact if he wasn't there that's a # close eaassssyyyy. I say oh well and keep it moving.

Next I saw a shorter black-straight haired white girl. She's wearing glasses but i cant recall her outfit. I quickly open asking if she's single. She says no really quickly and keeps walking. I decide to chill after walking for a bit longer and try to gain some energy back (I'm introverted so approaching at a busy as mall can be draining at times.) On the way I lock eyes with some taller older Latina lady. She gives me a smile while i'm sitting down at a table in the food court. She has this weird as walk to her but i wanted to approach, i'm not letting any IOI pass me buy after my past experiences. I catch up with her and say i thought she was extremely pretty. She doesn't speak a lick of English so i use some words form my Spanish class to do my best matching that description. We talk for a bit then I bid her farewell. Moments after this I see a cute ass light-skinned girl with curly hair and blond highlights. I open complimenting her and she thanks me. I ask for her name and then we eject. At this point i was getting tired from all the shit I had done throughout the day and felt I got some decent results.

Summary: approaching is getting much easier for me. Actually approached the girl with her dad, my 2nd approach recently with more than one person. My confidence is better and my vibe is becoming more congruent with my fundamentals. Still need to make myself even more of a sexy beast but looking at myself from august to now there are immense changes in me. I'm slowly growing a killer confidence laced in some arrogance but I know i'm going to get tons of pussy in the future. Cant wait to see what my future holds!
Goals for the week: At least 20 approaches, 4 # grabs, Lay from date with janitor girl.

Monday {10/10}
Started the sales job. Thought i would actually do really good for my first day but today was shit! I was there for 6 hours and only made $5 smh. It was kind of hard to get in a grove but what I've learned so far is you have to persist like hell with customers showing you signs of interest (similar to seduction) and you cant get down and feel hopeless about all the constant rejections. Even though i was new, having worked through my approach anxiety and talking to hundreds of random strangers in the past year this was cake for me. I even saw this one light-skinned girl walk past and our eyes met. She smiles at me and keeps walking. She has some braided hairstyle, tall yet with a nice body and she has on some leggings. I tell my co-worker guy i should've talked to her and he say go ahead she still there.
After hearing his words of encouragement, I jog up to her, tap her on the elbow and open.
ME: Hey! I know this is random but, I saw you walking and I thought you were super cute. I'm Biz!
Her(smiling & blushing) hi i'm dreadhead.
ME:what brings you to the mall?
Her: oh i''m hear shopping with my mom.
Me:really where are they now?
Her: (laughing) rihgt behind you walking
Fuck! lol. I keep talking to her and then her parents say she has to go. I say wait just give me 5 minutes with her.
Mom: How old are you?
ME: Just turned 20
HEr: oh no, she's only 16
Woah, swerve out on this one lmao. Not trying to catch a charge. I leave and yell out that there daughter is beautiful then head back to my shoecleaning post. Other than that I chilled pretty much on approaching at work. Left at home with my $5 motivated to kill it for my 2nd day.

{10/11} Tuesday- I fucking killed it today. I got 4 full sales and 2 partial product sales. When I told my boss he was proud as fuck. One of my co-workers even said normally there best guys should hit 5 sales a day so for me to do that is really good. He even said i'll be better than him in due time as long as i keep at it. I really like this job because the manager leaves you to do your own shit. You don't have to have someone babying and bossing you around. Also,since you get paid of commission it's up to you to make your own paycheck and constantly keeps you motivated throughout the day.
In the middle of all these sales I noticed this cute ass light-skinned girl( I think i found my preference lol) walking buy with some shoes. I call out saying let me show her a quick demonstration and she give me a half-asses objection while laughing and smiling at me. I signal her to put her shoe right her (directing her to my stationary shoe shiner) and she complies. I ask her name, lets call her pretty eyes, causes that was my favorite feature on her. Along with her eyes, she had a sexy skin complexion, with black hair in a bun along with some leggings to go with white chuck tailors. I flirt with her and tease her, ( my ordinary process) and she's eating it up. I then screen her, guessing her age and she say's shes 24. I tell her "i'm too young for her" in a jokingly manner. We talk abit and i have a liking to this girl so after I clean her shoes I say for her to give me her # so we can get drinks sometimes. She puts up resistance saying " didn't you say I was too young for you?" I deflect it saying I'm more mature than my age will tell and I even give some cocky humor. I tell her " I can look in your eyes and read you. I know you want to go on a date with me and give me your # so you might as well. Plus I hooked you up with a free shoe cleaning so it's only fair." She submits and gives me her #. (I sent an icebreaker with an emoji. She replies with "git it. It's saved. Now I assumed it was a no go with her but today I texted her again asking how her week was.) This convo happened today btw, not Tuesday
ME: Hey Pretty eyes, how's your week been? Was wondering when your free to get drinks this week?
Her: It's okay I just got off work how's yours been? ( Deflect my food invite)
Me: just ok? We need to make it great
goes on a bit then I use recall humor
Me: I feel you same here. Ayye you still think I'm too young for you lol
Her: Lowkey, lol you said you just turned 21
ME: ( I deflect the question)I can definitely change that, (winky face)
Her: I don't think you can
ME lol how cute
ME:When are you free next week?
Her: I don't know what's cute about it lol but I'm off Tuesday
Me: let's get drinks, say around 8. sound goods?
Her: wherea at? ( I never screened for logistics, silly me)
ME: Where do you live; Her; (a town close buy)
Me: let's meet at TGI; Her: I thought you didn't know the area...
Me: I used google maps sweetie. Takes like 5 seconds lol
Her: (flirty face) That's fine
So this girl loves to test me lol....... Honestly i barely remember the words i said to her when I saw her except for let me get your # and me teasing her about her age. I'm assuming me being younger and my fundamentals not all the way so that's a definite reason. Also she's higher quality than the other girls I've set up dates with so that is definitely a possibility. However, i'm handling test pretty smoothly now so this shouldn't be a problem. Since my game has gotten better I think i'll be able to crack soon enough. This shows me to go for actions not results. When she texted me about how I doubt I can change her opinion i saw right through it. For one, she's still texting me and second, she responded to my follow up. When she didn't reply to the meet up she wasn't 100% comfortable going on a date with me yet so I needed to warm her up with some humor and short rapport.

There's more to this day but i'll put it up later. This post is longer than my dick at the moment and I have school in the morning but i'll let you gents know how the date with the janitor girl went lol.
 

brandoan95

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What's been up fellas,

Haven't had much time to write in my journal. Been super preoccupied trying to handle, school, work, pick-up, lifting, and promoting my coach'sobusinesses all at the same time.
So this month marked my 2nd full month of doing cold approach and here is where i've improved and sthe areas I still need to work on:

Summary- got past the hard part, now time for the tweeking
[Becoming a sexy beast] The transformation of my Fundamentals helped me immensely l. My nonverbal are on point. This has given me a much more sexual vibe than what I used to have. My apparel is a major upgrade as well. Going from wearing over side basketball style to a more badass ripped Jean button down pimp is a good feeling. Alot more compliments have came my way and I see more IOI from girls than any point in my life.

[Aproach anxiety got murdered]I've eliminated most of my approach anxiety. Talking to girls at my local mall is cake now and even at school i'm not shy to approach. also applying seduction techniques on my dates and interactions are becoming more natural. Yes-ladders, intrigue, sexual framing,etc. Shit's gold..
Mindset: this is where I attribute most of my success too. Having Tight Fundamentals and smooth game can't take you anywhere if you don't have a strong inner game. growing up being under constant criticism from my mom I was never one with built in confidence always being depressed and having a victim mentality really did a # on me. However through gc, therapy, meditation and positive affirmation I have a rock solid mentality. A little Cocky, to feel you are the shit and you will become this insanely powerful, suave, smooth man but it's better than feeling worthless.
Nowadays Im always conscious of my mood and i always believe I will succeed if I keep persisting whether it'seems approaching, sales, or basketball. I would definitely recommend a novice get this in order before they work on those other areas.

Weaknesses:
Nightgame Two weeks back I met up with my wing and we went to west Hollywood. That was my first time ever going and I had no idea it's the gay Capitol of souther California lol so I'll admit I was a bit uncomfortable. However, my wing was still pushing through approaching and I was in my head waaay too much to see any results. Hopefully when I get more time I can make more effort to improve this area.

[Can'Can't stick my dick in]
So if I could handle this area I would'very had 2 lays by now.Dealing with lmr has probably been the most frustrating part. A few girls I wrote about in my field reports, looking back at it, I know I could've closed the deal. These fuck ups suck more than a simple rejection b/c I know it's something I Did WRONG, not the girl'scout impression of me and it adds salt to the wounds.

[Slotted as a hubby]
Also, the girls are slotting me into the boyfriend role and I'm in a pickle. Either I cut them off and try to approach grind again till I find more girls into me, or continue and take the bf role till I get what I want from them. For example the janitor girl I completely cut her off based of the last date. I'm getting the vibe she wants me as a bf. In fact, I know this might be true since on our first night before I started escalating on her she demanded to know if I had a gf. Once I work this out i'll see tons of progeess, especially since I got my sexy vibe down

goals for the next few months
-Get 3 lays
-Improve my Fundamentals too another level
-Figure out Lmr
-Tackle Nightmare

Overall tho, I'm really proud of myself for sticking too this.I spent nearly a year knowing about this site and pickup yet being too much of a pussy to actually try it. I'm glad those insecurites are gone. However, I've got along way to go b4 I can say I'm pretty good at seducing bitties. But I will get this shit down even if it kills me.
Keep getting that cat my dudes

-Biz
 
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