continuing...
I'm getting so close to so many lays but I'm not getting past that last bit of resistance that girls put up.
Over the past two weeks I've been bringing girls over to my room effortlessly. My sticking point is escalation to sex.
I'm new to this so I'm still figuring the ins and outs of getting them comfortable or initiating anything. I think its safe to say that I'm somewhat of an intermediate now and now on my way to advanced.
Many of the past issues I had as a beginner seem petty and I clearly understand many concepts.
Sometimes you have to go back to old content and re-learn it to grasp a different meaning you didn't have when you were less experienced. The wisdom of game doesn't change, You change. Your mind changes the more you try things out, get rejected,step out of your comfort zone and take many different approaches to achieving your goals. Eventually you find something that works and you stick with it and turns out, It works just about every time you do it. What works for you may not work for someone else so In actuality, we're all finding our signature way of gaming. All that matters is that you don't give up.
Keep going no matter how discouraging it gets...you WILL get better. Nobody improves over night. It's taken me almost 5 years just to get to this point.
So one of the girls that I'm working on right now tried to friend zone me a couple weeks back and I found a good go-to response for her test.
Basically, we were texting back in forth in a flirty manner while sitting on opposite sides of another guy while all three of us watched a movie.
I was using sexual innuendos and such and then tried to escalate when suddenly she texts: yea well I only see you as friend so that will never happen.
I was like: oh shit, not again....english speaking girls have been friend zoning me a lot lately even though we both clearly can feel the sexual energy. Its as if they're doing it as a test to see how I take it. To see if I handle it like every other chose who freaks out whenever he's been friend zoned.
So I respond: You think we're friends? Trust me, you don't want me as a friend...
her: why not? you seem pretty cool to me.
me: Trust me, I would not be a good friend to you. All i'm good for is giving you a good time and maybe a few orgasms.
her: why do you think that?
me: I'll tell you why later.... (switch subject, never went back to this topic again)
every time things get heated between us and she tries to use this again I just remind her of how much of a shitty friend I am.
I truly believe girls are adapting their way to game and coming up with new tests before they sleep with guys. Game is probably one of those things where the rules remain the same( don't be needy, be polarizing, escalate, move fast) but your style should always be adapting.
Eventually this girl invited me to come to eat with her but told me to invite my female friend while she invited some guy she just met. (she made it seem like a mutual female friend over text but it turned out to be this guy)
Him and her picked me and my female friend up with his car and we went to this close by yakiniku (grill your own meat) restaurant.
It seemed like this guy had some pretty good game and had already established good connection and rapport with my girl. I still was going to attempt.
may the guy with the best game win. But it seemed like she set this whole thing up on purpose to test out which guy was more alpha (who she should sleep with)
At first I seemed to have her undivided attention. I had her engaged and touching me, While he was forced to meet my female friend and make conversation with her.
When we arrived at the restaurant, He took the lead and sat by her on the opposite side of the table from me and my female friend. Regardless, I still had her undivided attention but I may have set myself up for failure by getting her too horny at the table. I make sexual innuendos apart of my daily interactions with women so the fact that I invited/set the frame that me and her could talk in that way, it gave him an opening to talk sexual as well (since my girl ws already doing it any way)
It seemed as if he hadn't even established a sexual aspect with her yet and he finally was through this dinner.
Once he got it, He was blasting off and was way better than me. He completely snatched her attention and she kept making comments about his tattoos going down his arm and his muscles and basically she was acting very inappropriately in front of me. Like, no consider for my feelings at all.
Then she started taking the lead and mentioning that we're all going to go back to his place after and do shots.
Since Me and my friend had work in the morning we were not down with getting drunk that night.
She made the decision that we go to this bar across the street and so the guy and her dropped me and my friend off at the bar to go park the car somewhere else. (no parking spaces)
I knew that the fact she stayed with him was enough evidence that she already made her decision who she was going home with that night. I didn't know if their was anything else I could've done without seeming try hard. My friend and I decided to just go back home and started walking home. We ran into them when we were heading back and they asked where we were going.
We let them know about work and then they decided they were going to go back to his place and "have shots" aka she's going to fuck him if he plays his escalation game right.
I gave it to him and went to bed.
I still don't know If he got the lay or not and I haven't talked to her since that incident.
Damn, my stories are beginning to get Anatman long and stuffed with too many details.
I have more stories from this week...really entertaining ones but Its just such a long story.
a (somewhat)TL;DR of one: A girl I met who basically metaphorically told me to fuck her has this other guy who also likes her (who happens to be in the closet bi). This girl has been all over me since we first met. Guy just met her recently, thinks he has more of a shot than I do. His game needs SERIOUS work. So many flaws. He becomes an asshole and pulls me aside to tell me that I suck at game and I'm "trying too hard to get the girl to like me" and " I have to wait for her to come to me". Then he goes behind my back and tries to AMOG me in front of her. Meanwhile, she complies with me, she follows me, she's already basically said she was down to fuck me. We talk about this guy behind his back while he's not around and decide to troll his ass. She plays along and starts "going to him" and acting like she likes him. All of a sudden, his head blows up and he's acting like he's the boss or some shit.
he's all like: where do you see this going?
and she's like: let's see where it goes.
him: I'm not really looking for a relationship
her: who said I was looking for one
and she's basically acting super easy that we're both surprised he doesn't see that its all fake. Then She asks him about his sexual preferences and he confesses to being bi sexual to her. She falsely confesses that she's actually a transgender women who still has a penis and asks if he's down with getting pegged with her penis.
He says he's down and mentions that he also likes to be dominated.
both of us are cracking up laughing because this same guy was acting like this huge homophobe earlier and being an asshole.
She's basically going to go with it and break it off before he starts falling in love with her. (she is so evil lol)
He's basically tried to kiss her multiple times which she deflected. And he's tried to get her alone, which she made excuses for. Meanwhile she follows me everywhere, including back to my room today but I couldn't make anything happen. (she seemed nervous and we just stopped by my place for a quick second and left.)
So me and her are basically going to hell for being such evil trolls....and dude...if you happen to be into pua and also happen to be on this website, I am so sorry...lol You have so much to work on. You've got your process down but your inner game needs work. You brag too much, you're way too cocky, You also talk non-stop more than a girl does and she can't even get a word in. You're also kinda creepy (as told to me by many other females I know here) You're too intense....Tone it down...You talk like you're at a house football party. Work on your fashion. And lastly, Everybody sees you flexing in reflections and checking yourself out, come on! lmao.
I tried to make that a TL;DR but it didn't really work out.
Anyway, that's all for now
Peace.
Wes